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i love to do all sorts of things such as motorbiking and hanging out with my crazy friends. im a total book nerd and have my nose in a book at all times. the only thing i hate to do is homework and im a really good listener if you just want to chat, other than that dont be shy id love to here your questions!!! :)
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Ok, well i just started liking this boy. He's only one year older than me (im 14/f. )and really cute. I can't help but notice the little things he does,and how funny he is! well anyways, i really want to get to know him more/notice me. (i'm not going to change for him or anything like that.) The problem is he's kind of in a different,well,clique? you could say. He's amazing,soo my question is,how to i get him to notice me?! how can i get to know him and joke around with him?
find something your both interested in and go with that. if your not so sure what kind of things he likes his friends are usually full of info. :)
-good luck
Hey everyone,
I've come to the realization that I should probably just get over my guy friend that I like a lot. I always thought that maybe him and his girlfriend would end, but its up to their 6th month together, and when he's on the phone with her thats the only thing he talks about. I text him a lot, and we always had been good friends since 3 years ago but since he has been going out with his girlfriend we've kinda slipped. I'd just like to know what I can do to get him out of my head, to stop looking at his myspace and texting him and basicially just torturing myself!
Any advice would be helpful.
Thanks so much
to get over someone you've had your eye on for a long time is hard and its cool that your taking the sain aprouch and not trying to split them up (or kill her), you need to see him as one of your good friends instead of your long time crush. if you can do that then eventually thats all you'll see him as but untill you can fully recover i wouldnt go to his myspace or anything like that untill you have a grip on your feelings so your not killing yourself in his pressence.
okay so i just started to hang out with this guy (we're not going out. i've only made out with him once) and im pretty sure he's more into me than i am to him. hes at the beach and he told me that the stars were really beautiful and they reminded him of me.
now as cute as that sounds, im really not into cheezy things like that. hes also in a band which might be a reason for this whole passionate thing.
how do i deal with this? do i tell him straight up he's too sensitive?
i mean we only talked a bit and he's kinda rushing things. help please!
well you have to tell him how you feel cause it wouldnt be fair to him if you didnt. just let him down nicely and tell him to slow down a bit. if he cares enough he'll understand and go at your pace.
So I love my boyfriend very much. When something is wrong with me, I cannot open up to him. I have tried SO hard and I cant even force myself to say antyhign and it causes so many problems and guilt. He thinks its because my last relationship was abusive emotionally and so i just shut down. How can I fix this? I want to takl to him about everything!
wow, he thinks you were in an abusive relationship? first of all i would tell him that you weren't in that sort of relationship and let him know you just have a hard time sharing your feelings. easy enough right? then you have to make an effort of talking. you dont have to do it right away just slowly will probably do. but it isnt fair to your boyfriend if you dont just open up a little. sure its scary but after a while it wont be so bad.
last summer was the best summer of my life i met the lov of my life we were best frinds for the whole summer and we knew we liked eachother everything was so perfect then he aske dme out in october and we've been going out for 9 months now las month i cheated on him and everythings so different now well even befor ei cheated on him things changed we still love eachother to deatha nd we cant be without eachother but last summer was awesome becasue we were always having fun and now we argue a lot how do we bring back how it used to be? please help
i hate to sound like Oprah but you guys NEED to talk to eachother about your feelings and whats been going on between you two. those problems arent just going to go away with time.
I'm coming onto the 1 year anniversary of my fiancee's death. She was 27, but after 1 year, I still can't get over her. I had waited almost 30 years for someone like her, and she was the love of my life. I'm a wreck, and I don't know what to do. Is this normal? What can I do?
damn i am really sorry for you loss. it's completely normal for you to feel lost about this sort of thing cause a death of a loved one is hard and everyone has their own pace of healing. dont think that just because it's been a certain length of time that your just going to get over it. its better for you just to let yourself have time. i am truly sorry for your loss.
hmm where to begin...i saw this boy at one dance that i'd never seen before. he was really cute so i just smiled at him and he smiled back. at the time i didnt really think anything of him, just another cute boy at my school. it turns at he was a year older than me so i wouldnt have any classes with him. then as the year went on i started seeing him more and more and thinking about him more and more. then at a school event we finally talked for to the first time. he kept smiling the entire time. then like 2 weeks later a friend of mine who is also a year older than me borrowed on of my soccer hoodies that had my name on it and she had a study with him. after seeing it he started asking a bunch of questions about how long we knew each other and everything. then he told her i was cutee. :) then one day i got a pass to one of my friends studies and he was in it. needless to say i went like everyday. we talked and flirted a few times. and it started getting to a point where everytime i saw him he'd say "hey, whats up" and we were getting close but now its summer. and i dont see him much. i need to know if 1) hes interested and 2) how should i try to see him
im friends w/ him on myspace, i have his screen name, and one of my friends is dating his best friend, but i dont want to come on too strong. help meee please !
awwww....(sorry about that....) thats really cool and i'd definately say he's into you. i hate it when you get a good thing going with someone and then when summer comes around things just die down. you should definately try to just keep in contact with him so he doesnt think you dont want to chat. if your nervous about asking to see him you just have to take a deep breath and do it. you never know, he's probably just waiting to hear from you. :)