Hi, I'm Caroline, nice to meet you! :D
I am currently taking part in a foreign exchange in Germany. I love to bake and read, but I am also down for a good party or night at the club. I promise to answer your questions the best I can, and I promise to not just tell you what you want to hear.
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how do i get a girl friend (link)
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There is a HUGE difference between getting a girlfriend, and getting the girl you like to be your girlfriend. If you just want A girlfriend, it shouldn't be too hard. All you would really have to do is find a girl with little to no self esteem and compliment here and ask her out. She would most likely be clingy and needy, and you probably wouldn't have very much in common, so it wouldnt last very long. Depending on your age, you might get some sexual experience of out the whole situation, but you would come to realize that its better to put in the effort to get a particular girl you are interested in to be your girlfriend than to just have a girlfriend for the sake of having a girlfriend.
If you want to get a particular girl to like you, you might have to work a little harder. We love it when boys remember little things, like her favorite color and her birthday. If you are not already a good friend of hers, then get to know her, but make sure you dont get caught in the friend zone. Work quickly, and be confident, because confidence is really sexy. I know it is scary, but it is best to be direct. Ask her out on something that is quite clearly a date, and if she says yes, then thats great! On the date, show interest in her. Make lots of eye contact and listen attentively, and definitely do not talk about other girls. Try to break the physical barrier, but make sure to be respectful. Hold her hand or put your arm over her shoulders when walking somewhere. She is already on a date with you, so you KNOW she is at least a bit into you. If the date went really well, ask her what she is doing next weekend or something, if she seems interested in seeing you again, before you leave, lean in a little for a kiss. If she kisses you, it should be smooth sailing from there! good luck!! :DD
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how can a guy be more charming to a girl
im 13 and a male btw
so how can i be more charming and less annoying to my friends that are mostly girls who i want to be more charming and less annoying to (link)
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well the most obvious things would be:
-smell nice (not axe, but with like a manly smelling shampoo and deodorant)
- if you have nice teeth, smile alot
-make witty ( non-a**hole-ish) comments that show off your smart/ funny side
- be confident but not in a "dbag-i-just-want-to-get-into-your-pants kinda way
-CASUALLY let them know that you are sweet, sensitive and skilled with statements starting like "So I was making my mom dinner last night and..."
and if you need anymore tips on how to dazzle and charm a girl, just look up Edward Cullen, as he has dazzled millions and he isn't even real...
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(16/m)
What do girls like to get as a gift?
(only girls answer!!!!!) (link)
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Girls like presents with thought put into them. If you bought me a gift, I would especially appreciate it if it had something to do with my personality. Generic gifts like teddy bears and chocolate are nice, but unoriginal. You probably also know that girls usually over analyze things, so if you make her a mixed CD with a love song on it, and you two are just friends, she might think you like her.
If you are just a friend/brother, buy her something personal but easy to get like the soundtrack to her favorite movie or the next book in her favorite series (you can buy a book in her name before it comes out).
If you are dating, you can make her a mixed cd with songs you know SHE likes, or maybe she has an older sibling off at university, you can buy her a train ticket.
The key is to make her feel special and that you care enough to make the effort to find a gift that you think she would love.
best of luck
and if you do decide to buy her lotion, make sure she isn't allergic to anything.
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anyone who has ever been to a young life summer camp , i might be going this summer for the first time, i went to winter weekend but never summer camp and i am just wondering: at the dances and proms and stuff, do people actually dance? like normal grinding dancing? or do people just stand there or dance weird because i know it is lke a christian thing even though no one i know that goes to it is good it just seems like they would be scared to grind in front of the counselors and stuff. so yeah i don't care but i was just curious if people dance like they do at school dances and parties and stuff. probably not as dirty? but idk. and also do people hook up because i've heard of people making out at the camps but i think some people might thinks it's bad? like would people talk about it or do a lot of people hook up like what happens at other summer camps? thanks! (link)
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I went to a young life camp a few years ago and it was AMAZING!!!! Best week of my life! The dance was fun too,the kids were dancing like normal, but they toned it down a bit for the councelors. It really wasnt a big deal, it was just kinda natural. My youth group all went together and some of the kids were already in couples so they obviously hooked up, but other than that it wasnt really common, a few people did but that wasnt really what we were all thinking about. This camp is sooooo fun that we all kind of forgot about dating and boy drama. It was basically a good, wholesome experience that i will remember forever. I hope your trip goes as well as mine did!
Have Fun!!!!
caroline
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Ok my and my ex broke up 3 days ago. We talk on the phone and she said i have lost my chances at ever going out with her. She read me her personal journal it made me realise some of the anoying shit i did im not a man, im a kid. She is 6 months older then me. And shes in grade 10 and im in grade 9. I have never felt this way about anothere girl. She flirts with othere guys infront of me. Its killing me inside, and when I tell her that she thinks im purpesley making her feal like shit. How can I talk to her with and act around her that will make her want me back? I know I cant change the way she feels about me. But I might be able to change the way she thinks about me. What are good topics to talk about well im on the phone with her? Something sweet, something that makes me sound like im 15 cause im relly mature she just doesnt see that. She wants somone who is fun but can be serouis. She wants a man. Help me, I cant let her go. How can I change the way I act and the way I talk to her that would make her like me as a lover and not just a freind? If you want to get an idea of how I feel about her listen to the song (broken by: seather) help me please:( (link)
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Remember in 1st grade, when you liked a girl, you would pull on her pigtails and she would knock you down and the next week you would be her boyfriend?
well as you get older, things change, so if you want a mature relationship, you also need to change.
Im not going to give you a list on how to be a man. but i can tell you this: she needs respect.
just pretend you are mature and soon it'll become natural
fake it till you make it
lol
good luck my friend
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ohh and don't beg her to take you back
call her and ask her to meet her somewhere neutral ( not either of your territory)
state your case and tell her she was right and you need to grow up but you need her.and you love her
but make sure you mean everything you say or it will bite you in the butt
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okay. I'm kinda freaking out right now.
let me start from the top...
on sunday the 21st of october, i started birth control for the first time. [[ One week ago ]] the Nuva Ring. and i'm supposed to wait for 1 week before having sex.
well last night my boyfriend stayed the night.. and well, we couldn't help ourselves. lol. and we had sex about 10 hours before it would be 7 days. so i waited 6 days and 14 hours... but we did use a condom. THEN this morning we did it again, in the heat of the moment, I just figured it would be fine. it had been 7 days. so we didn't use a condom [[ we were out of them anyway ]]
but i'm really nervous about the whole thing. If I get pregnant, it'll ruin both of our lives. we're only 17. [[ i know, 17 year olds shouldn't have sex ]] i've heard all the lectures. just please help!! (link)
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Is your question "do we think you will get pregnant?"
The only 100% way to be sure you wont get pregnant is to abstain, but im not going to lecture you about it.
Yes, there is a chance that you got pregnant. No birh control is 100%.
talk to your boyfriend, he needs to know whats going on.
wait a few days and then buy some pregnancy tests and test yourself ( in the morning).
If you are pregnant, make sure your bf is going to help you through this and DEFINATELY talk to your parents.
If not, always be careful and talk tou your doctor.
good luck!
: )
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