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ok, now this is a kind of weird question, but i'm just not sure.
my boyfriend loves me alot, and i used to think i loved him too, but things have just faded and i don't see him the ways i used to. when he tells me he loves me, it's just annoying, when it used to be romantic. but the worst part is, is i never see him! could that be why my feelings are fading? (link)
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:0 i know who this is! lol..well yea it probably is..i mean..its really hard to have a long distance relationship when you only get to see him once a week..my adivice is tell him how you feel..dont tell him what he wants to hear..tell him what you feel..xOx
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please help me. my ex-boyfriend, who i just broke up with yesterday, is now all of a sudden going out with my best friend!! i have no idea what to do, any advice? (link)
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I could see you being upset if he broke up with you to go out with your best friend..becuase ive had that happen to me before and it was upsetting..but you cant really say anything if you broke up with him..but still your friend should have asked you how you felt about it first xOx tOrY
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Alright well . . I'm 14 and I'm going out with this guy Adam and he's 17 . . we get along wonderful and we never have fights . . When were around eachother its really easy going and I feel like myself . . the thing is everyone tells us the age difference is making our relationship fake and un realistic? I don't know what to think but I'm afraid it's going to tear us apart?
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Age is just a number..no matter what anyone says
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Im 14/f. Theres this guy I have been talking to online for about 6 months, I know him from school and first started talking to him when he liked my friend to set them up. Well we've been talking for a while, and he doesnt like my friend (never did) and he recently said he wanted to talk more at school and asked me why i never said hi to him in the halls. And yeah... I've fallen for him. Hes really smart (gradewise), and although he is a lot shorter then me hes got a great personality. But theres one catch, he smokes weed. Not just once in a while. A LOT of weed. 1. Do you think hes interested in me (please be honest) and 2. Is it ok to go out with a potsmoker (does it taste bad kissing.. etc.?)
I rate 5's for really quick good answers.
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Well..hmm i cant tell you if he likes you so i think you should ask him on your own...and if he is really smart gradewise yet still does weed..then maybe you should talk to him about it if you dont like it..it doesnt reallly taste like anything when you are kissing someone who does pot..lets just say it doesnt exatcly taste like winterfresh hope i helped
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Im 14/f. Theres this guy I have been talking to online for about 6 months, I know him from school and first started talking to him when he liked my friend to set them up. Well we've been talking for a while, and he doesnt like my friend (never did) and he recently said he wanted to talk more at school and asked me why i never said hi to him in the halls. And yeah... I've fallen for him. Hes really smart, and although he is a lot shorter then me hes got a great personality. But theres one catch, he smokes weed. Not just once in a while. A LOT of weed. 1. Do you think hes interested in me (please be honest) and 2. Is it ok to go out with a potsmoker (does it taste bad kissing.. etc.?)
I rate 5's for really quick good answers.
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Well if you guys have been talking for over 6 monthes..you have probably learned to trust him..and if you really think he likes you then i would go out with him..and with him smoking pot..i've gone out with a few boys that have smoked pot and its not a horrible taste its just not the greatest taste in the world..i totally hate pot..i have done it twice and that is it for me however i dont have anything against people doing..but if you are like me and dont like the crap but want him to be safe and want him to stop then just talk to him and maybe he will try to stop. I hope i helped. xOx Tory
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I don't know whats wrong with me. I've been with my boyfriend for about two years now. I really do love him, and I know he loves me even more. But lately I've felt like things are just kinda drifting between the two of us. Like- it's not how it used to be. I feel like a jerk too because when I ask him if he's been feeling different lately- he always says no and that he never would ever think of breaking it off with me. Then I feel stupid for thinking things aren't working out. I know I love him, he's the cutest guy ever and he treats me pretty good. I am happy with him, but then why am I feeling like something isn't right? Am I just thinking too much or what!? Please, whats my problem?! (link)
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Obviously if you have been with him for 2 years you guys must have a pretty strong relationhship, maybe you are feeling like he is to good for you and you think he can better than you but you still want him to stay with you..i wouldnt worry about the feeling you are feeling now becuase if you love him and he loves you things will get better. xOx Tory
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ok, i have a boyfriend and his name is Chris(and i have had sex with him already), but the other night his brother(Donavan) was sleeping at his house, and me and donavan got really comfortable and me and donavan slept together. and i want to tell Chris but i am scard to. What should i do? (link)
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Wow, uhh you have to tell him. There is no other way you have to come straight out and tell him what you did and even though i really think what you did is going to hurt him..do you really think it was worth probably loosing your relationship to his brother? --Tory
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okay im with this guy. i REALLY like him a lot and everything and im into being active with a guy like making out and everything. i've given head and been fingered and made-out with a guy before all in one night and it was my frist time for everything, but im not sure if my boyfriend right now is into all of that. He said he's eaten a girl out,fingered, and made-out, but i was talking to this other guy (that im kinda interested in) and he said that he probably wouldn't do anything with me. BUT my problem is..i really want to do stuff with this other guy and we've talked and everything..and decided that if we do mess around, neither one of us is going to tell anyone else. Im not sure what to do. I really like my boyfriend, but i REALLY wanna mess around with this other guy! Would it be bad for stuff to happen and noone find out? ahh. (link)
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Yes that would be bad, maybe your boyfriend just isnt ready to go to the next step..but then again maybe he is. Have you tried talking to him and asking him if he is ready to do stuff? Dont just assum that he doesnt want to becuase if you do decide to do something with the other guy someone WILL find out and your boyfriend will most likely find out as well. You cant rewind time so if you really care about your boyfriend dont do anything to mess up your relationship. xOx Tory
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i like my bf so much im 14 nd we've done everything except sex and anal i love him so much but lately i havent been hanging out with my friends as much and he gets mad wen i do i noe he dont trust me but idc but i wanna hang out with friends!! i miss them and like wen i do he gets mad and we hardly talk and my dad sed if i dnt start hanging out with my friends then hes guna end me nd my bf nd like i told my bf that nd we started crying nd stuff nd he sed he didnt wanna loose me but he cant get over the fact that were guna have to break up if i dont start hanging out with my friends ...either way he gets mad at me ..what should i do
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I think you need to scare him a little bit..if he honostly doesnt want to loose you then you tell him that either he starts to trust you or you two are over..love is all about trust and if there is no trust then there is no love. xOx Tory
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Ok so i really dont understand this, im really nice and funny and everything like serioussly. Its not fair that all of these snobby girls have guys like drooling over them. I dont think im pretty and you'll probably say that i am and blah but how do i get guys to like me? I mean, i talk to guys like all the time and its just stupid that they dont see how much of a nice person i am...
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I understand perfectly but no matter what dont change yourself just to get a boyfriend. Stay the nice funny person you and eventually the right guy will come alonge..it may not be today or tomarrow but he will come someday. Dont try to rush things dont think that if a girl has a boyfriend she has something you dont its just that a guy sees something they like in every girl..the right guy will come. xOx tory
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i am going to the movies with my boyfriend. i was wondering if i should make a move on him? should i kiss him? Im new at this so i dont know what i should do. my friends are coming along too and i dont know if i should make a move because they are also there. would it be weird if i did make a move? please help! (link)
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No i dont think it would be weird at all, but i do think that you should be cofterable with making a move and make sure that your boyfriend is as well. It is always hard making the first move becuase you are not really sure if your partner wants to do the same and it is probably more harder on girls making the first move becuase i think that guys should. But you should do whatever makes you happy and dont fource anything upon yourself and think you have to do it becuase you dont. xOx Tory
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