~I live in Hollywood, CA. I am originally from Hollywood, FL. Since September 16, 2012 i've been a moderator on Advicenators. My favorite colors are purple, blue, and pink. Oh yeah, and also brown :). I love to be on the internet. I love to sing, dance, and act. I have my own show, actually! :) I'm on everyday, so ask away!~
Website: Bella Thorne Official
Gender: Female
Location: Hollywood, FL
Occupation: Actress
Age: 14
Member Since: January 31, 2012
Answers: 81
Last Update: December 22, 2012
Visitors: 4712
Main Categories:
Love Life
Work/School Relationships
Doesn't Fit Any Of These Categories
View All
Favorite Columnists
Razhie
babymoby
innocent_angel
|
| |
|
Can a guy get pregnant from another guy (link)
| |
Unless a man has feminine eggs, then no.
|
|
hi:) ive been txting and hanging out with this boy and i cant figure out where we are in our relationship nd ive asked him before and he just said lets hangout some more an well see but our relationship has gotten a lot deeper now and i really like him a lot and i dont know what to think. if anyone has any advice to give its greatly apprciated...thanks :) (link)
|
Hi! Well, it sort of depends on when you asked him where you guys are. If it was just a few days ago, wait a little while. If it was a long time ago, ask him again.
If his answer is the same, tell him that you're confused and you need to know.
Good luck and take care! :)
Bella xoxo
|
|
is 11 and a half to young to kiss but that being all no nothing else at all maybe making out or what ever but like no sex, fingering etc (link)
|
Yes. 11 and a half is still a little young to kiss.
But if you really want to, JUST A KISS, then go for it. Just don't "let things accidently happen". I think people should start kissing at the age of 13 or 14.
|
hi im a female in middle school so my bff has this really hot bf i have told her he is so sexy me ad him are good friends we hang out and stuff but nothing ever more i am kinda jealous what should i do i have another problem to i get scared in relationships and i bak out a wat shud i do because its really annoying breaking up with people again and again
thx (link)
|
Well if you told your bestie how you feel, then that's pretty much it.
And it's likely they'll break up soon. Every story has its ending. Once they do break up, make your move! If she was really a bestie, she won't mind.
But there's one thing you CANNOT do: DO NOT BREAK THEM UP!! Many girls do this because they're jealous of their best friend being with the guy she likes.. Then it ruins their friendship!
So just wait until their story comes to an end. Then talk about you getting with him.
Good luck!
Bella xoxo
|
Okay, well I liked this guy in one of my classes, so I decided to talk to him first. I eventually gave him my cell phone number, which he actually texted me back, I was shocked. Things were going pretty great, we would text for hours at a time. Every day after class he would wait for me, we would walk to our next class together, he walked close to me, the body language was good (I know body language pretty well). We worked together in class, he would wave, and act shy and dorky around me even. A girl in our class would nudge him, grin, and joke about us when we would talk to each other, he even turned red. I was pretty sure he liked me, but then again I really don't have any good traits, I'm not pretty either, so I figured he probably didn't like me. My friend told him I liked him, he started acting weird, I asked if he was okay, he said he didn't feel good. For the first time he walked right past me, we have ALWAYS walked to class together. Plus he doesn't even really talk to anyone else in the school except me and a few others. I caught up with him, and asked if one of my friends told him anything today, he lied and said no, then I told him that I knew one did. Then he lied again, and said they just asked him if he knew me. He said he didn't mean to be rude, he just didn't feel well. Then he hugged me, which I didn't even hug back because to be honest I was pissed off (the lies) and depressed (....... obvious.......). Everyone around us said it seemed like he liked me, and stupid me I really thought he did. I used my friend's phone to tell him the I liked him, but I didn't want it to hurt our friendship. Later he wrote back, "It won't, but I only see you as a friend, sorry..."
We had alot in common, and I really liked him....... I'm absolutely heartbroken to say the least. I can't stop crying, and I didn't go to school today because I didn't want to burst out crying in class seeing him. I know it was bad, but to be honest I only stayed in that class because I actually thought he liked me, and that was the only time I ever see him in the school. Now I have to see him everyday. My mom thinks he might like me, but is scared because I don't think he has ever dated.
My self esteem was horrible before, now I just feel horrible....... why doesn't anyone like me except these people who absolutely disgust me or creep me out? Am I really that awful?
Please help, any advice, anything will help. :'[ (link)
|
I know how bad you must feel after being told that the guy you like doesn't like you back. And since he said that, you have bad self esteem right?
That's normal. It's similar to being traumatized. You're just scared that everyone sees you as a horrible, ugly person right? Well there's no need to feel that way. You ARE beautiful. You ARE nice. Everything's fine; it's just that you're being paranoid. That's normal to.
All you need is time. You know what I usually do? I usually ignore that person for AWHILE. He'll confront you soon. It helps!
Good luck and take care :)
Bella xoxo
|
|
How do I get a girl with me I have been rejected like three times and I'm 11 (link)
| |
You're still a kid. You're trying to grow up too fast!! Stop worrying about dating and worry about who's going to take the last cupcake.
|
15 female
So I became best friends with my one friend, Katie, this year and we became as close as sisters. But she has a little brother, John, who is only a year younger but I think he's really cute and I kinda like him... The other day he messaged me on twitter and we talked and he gave me his number and stuff. I have talked to him in person a couple times but now we text all the time and we're kinda "talking". We decided to keep this a secret and I have not told anyone yet but I don't know if I should go for it or not because Katie's other friend became more than friends with John and Katie got mad. What do you think I should do? (link)
|
I agree with Xenolen. Katie can't tell you who to date and who to not date. If I were you, i'd tell her that I like him. If she gets mad, ask her why she's mad. If she's mad at you, she'll get over it eventually. She can't stay mad forever.
Like Xenolen said, don't have a relationship with John behind Katie's back. That would be wrong. Plus, she'll eventually find out and won't ever be friends with you D:
So, to the conclusion: Tell Katie you like John.
Good luck,
Bella xoxo
|
12 turning 13 / Female
Ok, so I'm in seventh grade and so is this other guy. Here's the story, he's from another school but we still see eachother everyday because our schools do 7thand 8th grade sports together so we go to waterpolo practice everyday. he's really funny and everry single guy is friends with him. Plus, its not like I'd ever feel awkward around him because I'm surpirisingly used to seeing guys in speedos everyday (im on a lot of swim teams) :) anyway so yeah just to give you an idea of him- great body, blonde, blue eyes, and his name is that of a sad taylor swift song about a little boy. He's reaally nice the only bad thing is this- my friends think he's weird. in the, always kinda hyper wierd. -his nickname's little creeper.- :) haha well anyway it's just that my friend is always saying how he's aalways staring at me and at our last game he smiled at me and then his friend asked me for my name and when I asked why he said oh, {his name} just wants to know. and at picture day he was standing next to me and my friends and then one of his friends said, 'wait which one?' and he was like, 'ssh! and he pulled them aside and when I 'casually' looked over they were looking at me. :) and then later at practice I accidentally hit him in the head with a ball and he yelled, 'ow who did that!' but when I said 'oh sorry that was me' he smiled and said it was ok. and then later when he wasjust fooling around throwing the ball on the roof and catching it when it came backdown I was underther roof of the canopy and he was looking at me the whole time and when I looked at him I blushed and looked away and I think he smiled. (link)
|
I don't really know what your question is.. Is it that you don't know what to do because your friend doesn't like him? Well she should be happy for you. If she isn't, then you should be hanging out with someone else.
If your question is that you don't know if he likes you or not, well he does. Trust me! :) Ask him out while you can. I guarantee you he'll say yes!!
Good luck,
Bella xoxo
|
|
Ok, so I am 13 years old and I liked this guy, so my friend asked what he thought of me and he said he might go out with me. It turns out he was lying. He did it for the fun of it. He then said that I would never have a chance with him. He also said I would never find love or a boyfriend ever. Then what shocked me. He said that I come of very slutty and am a slut. I have NEVER had sex or even had a boyfriend. I was raised by good parents and always wear clothes that don't show too much cleavage or shorts that are too short. I don't wear that much makeup either. Recently I was called a slut again by my friends sister. I am always really nice to people and I don't understand why they all seem to hate me.. Am I a slut?? I am starting to believe it since a lot of people are saying it. (link)
|
Hmmm... Lets see.
-Never had a boyfriend
-Raised by good parents
-Wears appropriate clothes
-Doesn't wear too much makeup
-Always nice
No. They are just being mean to you, and you friend's sister is just jealous.
Bella xoxo
|
I met this really great guy who adores me. He is a genuinely good guy. We've been talking/dating for about 3 months now. I don't know if I want to be with him or not. He treats me with the utmost respect, and wants to meet my two year old daughter. He's great with kids, in school, never been in trouble, and working...but theres one problem. His pants are always practically at his ankles and I hate it. I've brought it up to him jokingly, but I don't know if he gets the hint. This really bothers me but is it worth giving up a good thing?
20/f (link)
|
I'd just go up to him, pull his pants up, and say "There" then laugh. If you laugh, he won't take it as an offense.
Good luck,
Bella xoxo
|
|
Im only 13 but so is he. The first time i saw him i thought he was really cute!! i talked to him and found out he is super nice and funny. He is really sweet but i want to know if he likes me. How can i get him to flirt back?? And i REALLY like him. Please respond!!! (link)
|
Hi! Thanks for messaging me :)
I've been through the same crisis when I was your age (I'm almost 15) and I couldn't flirt at all! I wanted him to flirt back with me.
I decided to keep throwing compliments out there. Doing that will eventually make him flirt sooner or later. Sadly, you can't make him flirt - but you can lead him towards a path where he eventually will. That path is to compliment him a LOT.
Good luck!
Bella xoxo
|
|
What cute nickname could i give my boyfriend? (link)
|
Robbie... Hmmm.... There are many nicknames for Robbie.
All I have is Robs and Rob o.
Sorry, but there isn't much of a selection.
Good luck,
Bella xoxo
|
|
I never thought I would be saying this... but I just started dating this guy 3 weeks ago and I cant stop thinking about him. I've known him for 2 years now, so I pretty much know him. This is my first real relationship and its scary. It's so weird that I miss him all the time and want to spend all day with him. We just have this connection - we get along so well. So, is it love? Is it too soon? 20-female. (link)
|
I wouldn't really call it love. It's more like just missing him too much.
Good luck,
Bella xoxo
|
One day i was going to skool and i saw a guy that i liked and my friends were asking me who i liked and i said his name and most of them seem like they were serious so they went up to his table and ask him out for me and he said yes so i dated him for 2 days then his ex-girlfriend came in the relationship and i was angry forthe day he broke up with me just for a girl that was my bf and she knew that i was datin him so i got angry at her so when i hear his name around i get sad cause i miss him. So i want you answer should i still be mad at my bf? or not? :(
(link)
|
You dated for 2 days. 2 days. That isn't really far in the relationship so I just suggest you forget about him. He obviously still likes his ex, which makes him a jerk.
Good luck,
Bella xoxo
|
|
Okay so this guy is really showing he is intrested in me. He walks me to classes and is always telling me that im preety and stuff like that.. Im a 15year old girl and Honestly i dont want a boyfriend. Im not into the whole relationship thing.To tell you the truth it kind of scares me.. I like being single. Dont get me wrong, this guy is actually super nice and a gentleman but i dont want him to be anything more than a friend. How do i tell him im not intrested in the nicest way possible? Im a person who doesn't like hurting others so i really need help on how to tell him that im not the person that likes all that Relationship stuff. Im too young for that. Please help thanks (: (link)
|
DefinedEyes has a point. When you tell him, he'll be upset for awhile but it's the best thing to do.
If he is really interested in you, he should understand. Just tell him the nicest way as you can.
Good luck,
Bella xoxo
|
|
Ok... Cut the story short. My friend used to like this boy, then she got over him, she found a new boyfriend, who she fell in love with, then she split up with him. I got really close to the boy she used to like... I think I've really fallen for him, but because my friend used to like him, it's hard and I don't know what to do. I get really jealous when he speaks to other girls or whatever... He's really protective, he always tries to make sure I'm safe, he's always telling me to go home, if I'm out on my own, or something. I was far away from home the other day and he was texting me saying "Go home, it's not safe, don't be stupid" little things like that, he always texts me every single day, but I'm confused if he likes me? My friend has started texting him again :( (link)
|
I think you should tell her that you like him. Besides, she is already in love with another guy! Why shouldn't she let you like him when she's in love?
I hope I helped :) and please, let me know what happens at Cookies_Love_You560@hotmail.com because I want to know very badly!
|
I lost my virginity a few days ago and it was kind of... NOT revealing as in I was just wearing my cheerleader skirt and black bra the edges were seethrough but he didn't care he tried to unclip the bra but I asked him what he was doinghe said come on in pretty sure those blobs are huge I said duck you and when downstairs should I forgive him and show him what he wants or not???
(link)
|
Well if you feel uncomfortable, you shouldn't apoligize - He should. It seems like he's using you to GET to you. People really in love do that, and it only seems like he's using you.
When you get a chance, please email me at Cookies_Love_You560@hotmail.com! I'd love to know what happens next!
|
|
How can you tell if a guy is a Player???? (link)
|
You can only tell if he dates a LOT of girls and cheats.
Good luck and take care
-Bella xoxo
|
|
Should I be offended if a guy I'm interested in takes an hour to text back? :/ thanks! (link)
| |
Nope. Just being annoyed.
|
|
I need help. My boyfriend loves kissing me.. he loves to make out and dry hump and stuff but im not to into that stuff.. What can I do to get used to doing it and like...make myself fell more comfortable doing that kinda stuff?? And kissing in public is a big issue for me too. Help? Please? (link)
| |
Tell him. Relationships are about honesty.
|
|