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Hello everyone. My name is Marissa Sage. Many call me by one of my many nicknames; Ritz, Rissy, Rissa, or Miss Sage.

I am 18 years old and I live in the state of New Jersey. Many of you might know it as the harborer for Great Adventure, the amusement park. For those that don't live in the U.S. it is one of the 50 states.

My education is mostly different from those my age. I am an early graduate of highschool. There is a program called Jump Start that allows us to graduate early and attend a community college not to far from my house. We are allowed to take 3 college credit courses that will be transfered to a university or the college of our liking. That of course will not happen until after two years of completing the required classes.

As for my major I am still trying to decide which path I wish to take whether it have to do with writing or another interest of mine. In any case I am poetic. I not only put words on the paper, I illuminate the page with the essence of my thoughts. A picture will evolve with just a few strokes from my pen. The words will have a life of their own. The rhythm of my words, flow as the streams of the mountains which drain toward the pool of dreams. Easily my emotions leak from my pen onto the blank pages, projecting the inner sight of my soul. The enthreal world, I enter, to capture the purity and truth. Eternally will the universe listen, with or without you.

I have a boyfriend, Alex, whom I care very much about. He is a musician, a bass player. Being with him is all that I really need, he has made so many drastic changes in my life. For that I am thankful. March 17, 2005 marked 2 years for us. Many of my friends are envious of the love that we share. Though we have learned not to let anyone come between us.

Thus, comes the end of my tale. If this is anything you want to talk about I will always be around to listen. I am glad that I could express myself, hopefully everyone will read it. Sorry if I made it so long.

Yours Truly,

Marissa Sage

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I was going out with this boy for 2 months and I decided it was best we brake up and stay friends but when I broke up with him I thought he was going to doit and the same day we broke up he got together with his ex.When I found out I fell and started crying I still do cry about it when something reminds me of him I really want to stop and move on but I still see him at school and all I want to do it get with him again but I don't know what to do I miss him so much and I still care about him as much as I try to find a reason to hate him.Please help!!!

Even though you want to find a reason to hate him, right now it won't happen. Your heart still cares for him. Since he got back together with his ex so soon it is ovious that he was no good for you to begin with. It is going to take you time to get over him but you need to take it one step at a time. Try to keep your mind off of him by doing other things, read, hang out with your friends, write etc. Gradually you will be able to get over him. Trust me. I hope this helps, good luck hun.

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So this Saturday is prom and I am going with the guy I like. What is some small ways I could let him know that I like him like what can I do? Thanks!

You could always be honest and just tell him straight out, after all he is going to the prom with you and that is always a good sign.

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Okay I am like head over heals in love with this girl. The problem is though is that she has this guy. And she loves him alot. But she Loves me too... What should I do?

This girl is oviously confused about her feelings, you should just give her time to think about what she really wants to do. It is going to hurt one of you but in this situation that is one of the outcomes. Try not to make it seem like you are coming onto her to strongly otherwise she might feel as though you are trying to get her to lean more towards you. I am sure right now she considers you a friend so don't let your feelings for her ruin a friendship, if she doesn't choose you then at least you can remain friends. I hope this helps, good luck.

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So this kid Robert and I were "talking" for a while, but now he goes out with Emily, who's my friend. And Robert still calls me. And he always talks about how stuff Emily does annoys him. And he always calls and we end up talkin about Emily and how he doesn't wanna call her. And he gets mad at me when I don't talk to him at school and stuff, but he says he doesn't like me.. It confuses me... HELP!!!!

You need to explain to Robert that he needs to get his feelings straight. If he claims to not like you then why does he call you and talk about how his girlfriend annoys him. Tell him that if he is not happy with Emily he should tell her not be talking to you about her. Good luck, I hope this helps.

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Well me and boyfriend have been goin out for 5 1/2 months. He comes over sometimes and when he does we always go out on the back patio, by ourselves, before his parents comes and gets him (we're both 13). And of course we always make-out... but sometimes it seems that someone is watching us. Like my parents are peeking through the window and i dont want my parents to sit there and watch me and my boyfriend make-out!!!!! I dont know for sure if theyve seen us or not but my mom said that from now on that we have to sit on the front porch and turn on the light. Kinda obvious, huh? Should i say something to my mom and/or dad or not? I just dont want to say anything to them if they havent seen us... :/

It seems to me that your mom might have seen you either that or I'm sure they can tell what you would be doing. They have already been through dating. It might be a good idea to just sit down and have a discussion with your mom, that way if it turns out that she hasn't seen you it won't look as though you are accusing her. Good luck, I hope I helped.

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ok, i have this friend, actually she is my girl friend, her name is kelly, and kelly is really good friends with amy. but amy is one of those people that her mom babies the HELL out of. and my mom keeps tellin me to try to stay away from those types of people cause in highschool and colage they are the ones who end up doing drugs-sex-alchohal (sp) ect... and i really want to keep kelly away from all that. But like i said, they are really good friends. i feel really bad for trying to break up their freindship, but i am affraid if kelly is exposed to all that, then she will too...im just really worried about her. should i go through with my plan to break them up (both friend wise and im posotive amy is atleast bi-if not completly a lesbien) or should i just try to ignore it and nothing will prolly happen. please help!

First before you go through with any plans, sit Kelly down and express how you feel about the whole situation. Once you tell her I'm sure she will understand and have no problem with talking to you about it. Secondly, just because Kelly is hanging out with Amy does not mean that she will follow Amy's path, Kelly I'm sure has a mind of her own and will be the one making her own decisions about what she wants to do about her life. Good luck and I hope this helps.

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this is a really long story. to start out, were all 14, in 8th grade and catholic. well there its this couple (Anne&Bob). theres a girl(cat) whose a friend of ours...ive never really been able to stand her but i do to be nice. well Bob and i think thats Cat is hitting on Anne in a lesbian kind of way. shes always hugging on Anne (well on a lot of girls but now mostly her) and sitting on her lap and playing with her hair.shes kissed her on the cheek before but she never kissed her bf.. she dumped him last b/f for no appereant reason, shes constantly telling Anne that she loves her (anne thinks its just "sisterly" love) but basically, Bob and i have decided that she is bi but isnt going to come out anytime soon b/c her family is full of strict catholics...how should we/i approach Anne about this? Anne and Bobs relatioship is changing b/c anne feels like she needs space after being crowded by Cat all day long. they are good friends and Anne is one of those very emotional type people that is very concerned about being fair and looking at peoples feelings....i just dont want her to get into a situation like that and i doubt her bf would want her to either. btw, anne would never be gay...ive known her about twice as long as Cat. if you have any experience with this please help!

First before approaching Anne you need to go confront Cat, it's not nice to make assumtions without actually talking to them about it. See if you can find the reason why Cat acts the way she does, she could just be a friendly person. I hug all of my friends, we joke around and sit in eachother's laps as well so she might just be the kind of person who is just as friendly to males as she is to females. I hope this helps. Good luck.

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I'm just curious at your guys opinion. What's the best way to get a guy? Like him or not.

The best way to get a guy is to be yourself, be honest, and don't try to push yourself on them.

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Well, I've just recently gotten out of a relationship with a guy I really cared about, and another one of my exboyfriends is one of my best friends. I think I must be rebounding, but I keep flirting with my ex and I don't want to, because now we have such a good relationship and I don't want to jeopardize it, but I can't stop myself! I don't know what to do, because he'll flirt back (just as a joke, I think) so it confuses me even more! How do I stop flirting with him and stop thinking about him?

Sometimes flirting can be all in fun just make sure he doesn't get the wrong idea about it. Maybe you aren't rebounding and you do really like it but you are still not ready for a relationship. Perhaps you could not be around him so much, that way it will lessen any chance of you flirting with him.

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I amgoing to a party on Friday and there is gonna be alot of making out.. and I have done it before.. it is just this guy is gonna be there and we prob will make out but how do you prefer it?? Liek slow fast alotta toungue??


I really wanna impress him! soo leave good stuff

Simple dearie, don't rush into it. If you want it to be perfect and impress him just go with it, let the kiss happen.

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