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Well first off- I'm 13 and so is my boyfriend Logan*(both turning 14 soon). Well me & Logan will be going out for two months next friday and that weekend I'm going to the beach with him and his family. He really wants to have sex & I do too- but..I'm kind've scared because what if the condom breaks? I really don't want to be pregnant. & I'm not sure if it will hurt or not. Like will I be sore the next day? But I do want to do it & plus if I say no he'll probably get upset. Ahh. Help me please (link)
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wow sweetheart your way to young. I am not trying to offend you because i am 16 and i am young as well. But you guys really should not do it... You said in the column above it that he hides you from his ex. Well sweety thats telling you something. I have been going out with my bf for almost 2 years and we still havnt. If you two both want to. I guess that is your choice, but if i were you i would wait. everyone says losing your virginity is a huge step. But they are not exaggerating. Need to talk more just message me.
-kaitlyn
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hi...im 16/f
here's my problem...im dating this guy named john and hes very nice, caring, sweet...i like him very much but the only problem is that his 7 years older than me...hes 23 yrs old,is it ok if hes older than me? (link)
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yeah i dont see anything "weird" or "wrong" in your relationship with him. I am 15 and it might seem "bad" but i havnt gone out with a guy my age for like 2 years. My boyfriend right now is 22 (almost 23). He is the only one I think I could ever be with again. We have been dating for almost a year. We even picked out are wedding date last night. Septemeber 11, 2010. It has been a hard thing for my friends to deal with. My mom thinks we are only friends. But if you really like him. Its a good person to have around. And 7 years isn't far away. Arnt girls supposed to be 7 years maturer? lol.. Good Luck
x33 K.B.
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yesterday was me and Scott's one month! but we didn't get to see each other...do you guys think you can date someone who you never get to see? i mean does it work? i have only seen him once since we've been dating. i hate it because his parents hate me and my parents hate him because of what happened this summer...and so we have to sneak around all the time..i hate it so much. and all his little friends hate me because of rumors people started about what happened this summer so like none of his friends know were dating i hate hiding it he says he loves me but i don t want to be a secret you know? if he really loved me like he said he would tell his friends..right? i mean i don t know i am so confused i want people to know were dating i mean i love his so much and I've told all my friends were dating...i don't want to be his secret you know? i haven't talked to him about it and i know if i did he would just get mad..so what should i do i need some good advice xox
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Okay sweetheart.. Ummm... Yeah I have a boyfriend that I have been going out with now for 10 1/2 months. And yeah none of his friends know. There is a reason they dont know but I wont discuss it lol. I feel like that I am not good enough for them to know who I am but like it is weird. Only my "closest" friends know who he is and my mom does because she has only caught us talking. He lives over like 200 miles away and I never get to see him. I didn't even talk to him on our 10 month. It was just really awkward. But yeah I guess when everything blows up and no one even cares anymore you guys can "be together".. Just when your 18 get married have kids and live together hahahahahhaa...
x33 Kady-May
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My best friend is with my X-BOYFRIEND! They've been going out for almost a year and a half, and im still REALLY jelous... i have a crush on another guy at my school
how can i get a boyfriend??
-i want to have a guy to love on (link)
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Well having a bf is GREAT.. cause you always feel loved and yada yada lol.. But being single is also good.. But if you "NEED" a bf then try and fine one.. Maybe you should just be independent for a while.. Let a guy find you.. If u like this one guy call him ask him to hang out or just talk to him for a while.. I hope things work out.. email me or write me back -Kaydee
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okay i have a problem, but its not mine, its my friends. my friend has been talking to this person on AOL instant messanger for about a week. let's call my friend Bob and let's call who he's been talking to Mary (not real names) Bob is one of my BEST friends in the whole world. he tells me that Mary and him are really getting along and that she always says how she loves him, even though they've only been talking for a week. he isnt sure if he's scared of her or anything, but he told me that he thinks she's sort of like a stalker and you know stuff like that. theres two ways he can go about letting her go:
1) just telling her to stop being so obessive
2) be a jerk and maybe she'll stop liking him
he doesnt want to do #1 because it would most likely hurt her a lot. but i dont think he should do #2 because thats dishonest and mean. please help!!! what should he do?
thanks so much!! and if you have anyother questions, ask me and i'll give you my email (link)
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ok well if ur friend thinks she is being obsessive he could block her and in a couple weeks unblock her and if she says something about him not beign online for a while and he could make up a lie but that would be lying... there is really no way of getting out of it but lying and like I always say lying makes a problem of the future but telling the truth makes a problem of the past... so he could just tell her the truth and she would prolly be mad at him so much she wouldn't talk to him lol..
~Kaydee~
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i really want a boyfriend! i feel like all my friends have boy friends and i dont! i want to ask this one kid out but i dont think he likes me like i like him. how can i find out? (link)
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Well you prolly could do the whole flirt shit but I just think you should ask him out.. TO HIS FACE.. A note, a phone call, an email, or an im is just an easy way for him to say no faster... Just ask him straight to his face and if he says no dont walk away just say some stuff and tell him u will talk to him later... Hope I helped your girl ~Kaydee~
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Hey, well i like this guy, and he knows, and he seems not to care. but i have liked this guy for ages. but see, because he knows, he doesn't act ne different, like in a away that he wouldn't like me like him... I jus need to know wat to do.. help (link)
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ummm.. maybe he is just playing hard to get.. or maybe he doesn't want you to like him.. if I knew who you were it would be easier.. and if you went to my school.. so if you do just im me and tell me about it.. it would be a lot easier... hint around ask ur friends if they know.. thanks good luck -Kaydee
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Okay, I was at this party last night and it was with a bunch of my guyfriends/friends. The thing is, my boyfriend was with me. These two guyfriends of mine are particularly touchy-feely types, and they like to pick me up and toss me around and all that...I'm small, lol. This one guy, Aaron, dipped me back like he was about to kiss me, and my boyfriend was glaring daggers at him. He was doing that to both Aaron and Kevin through the whole night. He already doesn't like Kevin because he's my ex, but I think he dislikes him more now. My boyfriend isn't usually the jealous type. I talked to both guys and told them to lay off with the touching me, and I told my boy that it doesn't mean a thing, that they're just my friends and they've always done that to me, but I don't think it helped.
Okay, basically, what I'm asking is, is there anything I can tell him besides what I've already said to make my boyfriend stop with the jealousy? (link)
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Tell your boy that if you wanted to be with the other guys you would have been with them already.. if he is one to get jelous then just spend a lot of time with him.. make him know how u feel about him.. hope i helped
-Kaydee
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I like my boyfriend, and i like to be around him. but im not sure if i really like/love him. Im 15/f. He says he likes me too, but we dont really have that much in common. I had my heart broken in the past and well i really dont want it to happen again so i was wondering if maybe thats why im not really into this guy. I want to be because he is awesome and one of the nicest guys i have ever met, but sometimes i think about things to much and then i start thinking he really isnt that interested in me. What would you do in this situation? (link)
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If i were you I would give my self some time to mend.. if you had your heartbroken it is going to take a while for you to have REAL feelings with a guy.. but if you really dont wanna break it off with him, then get together and talk about what you are looking for out of the relationship.. I hope it works.. -Kaydee
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okay,well,me and my ex-boyfriend went out. Then broke up 6 days later. Then got back together. then broke up a week later. Then made out sooooooooooooo many times. Then we went back out. Then a rumor got passed and we broke up. then we went back out because we still liked each other. Then we broke up because i cheated on him. Then we got back together becuase i broke up with the other guy. And now we are broke up again because he liked my cousin but he doesnt know shes from across the country! okay...how do i get him back? I think i still like him! Ha! Ha! (link)
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ok I bet everyone that answers your question is going to say break it off with him but no.. I was off and on with a guy 6 times and all we needed was a break... Im not with him now because of stuff but yeah.. Call him or meet him somewhere and ask him how he feels about you.. If he says he still likes you then ask him if you guys went out what he would promise (like no cheating, lying, ect.) Good luck keep me posted.. -Kaydee
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ok, i have this boyfriend which i love very much and hes moving to california in 30 days and im thinking about breaking up with him because i think it would be better to not see him b4 he goes so i wont be as devistated s i would be watching him leave in front of me so should i break up with him or not? (link)
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if u love him miles shouldn't make a difference..
-kaydee
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i wrote a question earlier today picking in between parties. i picked to stay home with my boyfriend. he came over, and he was drunk. he's always a little mean when he's drunk. we got into this huge fight about nothing and we broke up. i started bawling and he said i was overreacting. i haven't stopped crying since 11:30 and i can't stop. i feel worthless and stuff because everytime we fight, it's my fault. what can i do to get over him because i won't stop having feelings for him? and what can i do to stop this feeling of worthlessness? please help me. i can't stop crying (link)
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Awww.. I am sorry.. I read ur ? before too.. if he is that big of a dick i think u should just get over him.. I know it is hard... Maybe later when he gets sober he will know how much he has lost.. try talking to him later about it.. sorry hun.. -Kaydee
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ok the other night i was at a party/sleepover and me and my friend got dared (for 10$ each) to make out with each other. we did it because we figured it wasnt a big deal and we were getting ten dollars each. but then everyone started taking turns doing it and i ended up doing it at least three times. im not lesbian or bisexual but i feel like what i did makes me one now. not that its a bad thing but its just not what i want to be. does what i did make me a lesbian? i dont know what to think about myself anymore.
please help!
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well same thing happened to me.. we all just were at a party and made out with eachother.. if you know you were doing it to experiment then thats what you were doing but if you actually feel bisexual or a lesbian than thats who you are.. but if you dont know just think about it.. dont regret doing any thing ......... good luck
-Kaydee
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To get down to it, I'm a 15 year old girl and a 22 year old guy likes me. I've known this guy for a few months and have become really good friends with him. I didn't know he actually had a crush on me till a few weeks ago. This guy is really nice, very sweet, he always cares about me. He always wants to know how I feel and how he can make it any better. He calls me practically every night. He trusts me and I trust him. We've talked about our feelings for eachother... I used to not think of him as anything more than a friend, but now I think I am starting to like him more. We see eachother at least once a week, usually with groups of other friends but I have been alone with him a couple times, once to his house. He has never tried to pull anything on me... he respects my boundaries, yet he shows he still cares. My parents don't like that I even talk to a 22 year old guy on the phone. If they ever knew I wanted to go out with him, they'd freak. I'd like to give him a chance, but I don't know if it's worth hiding from my parents and the fact that he's so much older than me makes the possibility chances of it working slimmer. Any advice on what I should do? (link)
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umm I know exactly where you are coming from.. im 14 and a couple months ago I was having a relationship with a 25 year old... we broke up a few weeks ago after my mom found out and called the police on him.. i always felt that I had to lie to him because he was so much older.. it was kinda uncomfortable.. If he is a good guy I think u should totally go with him.. but its a big risk if you wanna do it you have to be ready for it.. good luck -Kaydee
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