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Hi everyone i'm 23 yrs old and a young mom i have a situation and would like some input,I've been going over this so many times and don't know what to think.Today my boyfriend of 2yrs and myself got into a heated argument and I wanted to go home (we live apart but stay over at times) anyway i got all my things threw it in his truck and in the process scratched the interior leather roof of his truck and he flipped out our 3 month old was strapped in the back during all this and i was sitting in the back with her . He got out and started calling me a bitch and to get out i refused because of our daughter was still strapped in and he tried pulling me out and when i didn't get out he punched me twice in the stomach out of anger of what i did.My question is he going to do it again, am i in the wrong for starting it by throwing my things ?and should i stay for the sake our daughter? I'm still in shock and don't know what to think of the situation its the first time something like this happened.
WOW...this touched me deeply... im 22 yrs old also a young mother...so what i say to you is coming from the heart... GET OUT! i dont care how much you love him care for him or want a family with him..you can not let your daughter see those things or grow up thinking thats okay..i made the choice to leave my daughters father right after she was born because we to got into an argument and he hit me..no matter if he only did it to you its unsafe for your daughter..stand up and fight for your daughter and get help...go to the police get his rights taken away so you have 100% control over your daughter..your strong enough to handle this situation so prove and show your daughter the right thing to do in life and to never put up with a BOY putting his hands on you..take time to yourself and the right MAN will come along and be a real father figure for your daughter to look up to.
message me if you need anything im here...my daughter is now 6 months.
I'm an 18 year old female. I lost my boyfriend, to be honest my fiance, last summer. It's been long enough that I know I should be able to accept that he's gone but I still wake up with an empty feeling in the pit of my stomach. I just need some help, maybe another perspective on how to deal with this.
Hey i dont really know how i can help you cause i know most likely you dont wanna listen to a 16 year old..but i know the feeling i lost my dad last July when i was 15 and it still isnt the same i still wake up thinking it was all a dream and that hell be up ready to take me to school..its just so weird cause its like we never thought something like this would happen but its gods path he made for them..i know its hard but you still gotta be strong and keep ya head up and kno he is still right by ya side..do you have a bear that he gave you cause it makes you feel like hes still there if you sleep with it..that may sound weird but sometimes its just good knowing your holding something he once held..i hope i kinda helped you out in away..just e-mail me bak if you need anymore help..*BabyGurl*
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So I really like this guy and I want to talk to him about us... a lotta people who hang out with us think he likes me too... but I just don't know. I want to talk to him about it but I don't know how to bring it up without sounding really forward. I also don't want to mess up our friendship if he ends up not liking me. I don't want things to get weird when we hang out if I tell him I like him and then he doesn't like me back... so I guess I just want ideas on how to bring it up and talk about it and what I can do maybe to flirt more with him and things. I already flirt a lot with him... but more ideas might help.
-Karen
Hey well...all i can really say to do it to be forward and tell him how you feel and what you think about him...tell him that you like him and let him tell you how he feels about you...your friendship will workout at the end yall just have to make sure of that before you start going out...i hope i helped...--BabyGurl--
Im 13 and me and my bf have been goin out for about 4 months now. I really love him with all my heart and he's like my soul-mate. He cares 4 me and loves me a lot to! (also 13).
I've been in a past relationship where the guy took kissing and making out for advantage.. and I still haven't really healed from it. My bf wants to make out and says he respects me not being ready. He asks me when I will be ready or if I ever will. It seems like all he wants is to make out.. Wut do I do?
i think you should make out with him because thats kinda away of showing someone you love them..and 4months without kissing is really long.!.i hope i helped..
i was staying after school waiting to be picked up and the 1 guy that ive liked ALOT with me. (he kinda had feelings for me but he is so hooked on his gf) well my dad called my cell and said my Aunt DIED, and he'd pick me up in an hour. so i started crying histerically, and Tom just came over and comforted me and i layed there in his ARMS crying. he literally wiped my tears and layed with me the whole time. Once i stopped crying he leaned over and kissed me. and then... we started making out for minutes straight, it was the most amazing/beautiful thing EVER. eventually i had to leave, & later Tom called & said how perfect that was & never had anything special like that. well he asked me what to do about his gf cause theyve been together for a year & he doesnt know if he should TELL her or NOT. hes really confused. so what should he do about his gf do you think he should tell? i dont want her to be mad at me and have all her friends threaten me and stuff. please help i dont know what to do about the whole situation, this is too much... (DONT TELL ME ITS WRONG WHAT WE DID CAUSE no shit I KNOW THAT ALREADY!!!)
well i think he should break up with her because for him to do something like that shows that he likes you...i mean what other guy would do that ya know..so yeah i think he should talk to her about it and tell her cause its only the right thing to do..and yall should really just get together!.i hope i helped.
ok im a guy and im 15 and i have sum question i have been in a 14 mounth realtionship wit my gurlfriend and for the past 4 mounths we have been breakin up and just fightin becuz the 1st time we broke up she thought i cheated on her but i didnt and the snd time i thought i wasnt gettin any attention cuz she was over her friends house allll the time for like weeks at a time and so we broke up again its been about 6 weeks since we broke up and now she wants me back but we have been findin out alot about eachother lately like she messed around wit a few boys and i messed around wit two gurls but she cheated on me like the last week or so we were together and got fingured by 2 other guys and me i....had sex wit this other gurl that was her "friend" she says but the gurl didnt consider her as a friend and i have a convo were her "friend" says shes not her friend and i made out wit another gurl the day after i was wit my x-gurl (sex). but i really really feel like im in love wit this gurl and she says shes in love wit me but i cant get over the fact that she cheated on me and i dont want to seem like a punk if i do get back wit her u no wat i mean (lol cuz of my friends)and wen we r togther it feels so right and i was her 1st and she was kinda mine cuz i have to tell the truth i believe that u should wait till u find who u want before u have that great 4 sec ya no so i had sex but "I" never finished till me and her made love and so i consider her my 1st but i never told her that. (should I?)but i love this gurl i really do and she said she loves me and i dont see y its not workin out PLZ HELP me!!!!!
Well first i think that you should tell her that she was really your first dont keep things from her.and if you really love her i dont think that you should have had sex with her and then the next day go make out with a girl that had to really hurt her.and for her to forgive you had to take alot of her heart.she may have cheated on you but hers wasnt has bad because the one she got fingered by wasnt one of your friends.yeah the girl may have said she wasnt her friend but she also could have lied.DONT think about your friends there not the ones in the realtionship! so what if your a punk your happy right.to me it sounds like she really does love and care about you if she forgave you about what you did i just think its fair that you forgive her. You two should get back together and see how things go. i really do hope i helped.
i was only on her side cause i know it took alot of heart and i do hope you two get back together just write back and tell me if you do. i hope i helped you out.
i dont know why, but my boyfriend dumped me. its been lyk 2 weeks. my friend asked him if he would go out w/ me again. he said he didnt know. i called him 1 or 2 timez and he said he wanted to hang out soon. o yeah, the reason he dumped me wuz b/c we didnt c eachothr alot...ok, anyways, do you think we still have a chance or not?plz tell me!thanx
Yes i still think yall have a chance because i went through the samething you just have to put more work in yalls realationship (hope i spelled that right) and make sure yall see eachother alot more then you did before and it will work out trust me i know im still in my after 15months! i hope i helped.!.
i like this guy at skool and he really loves me and he asks me out all the time.hes not very popular tho and im afarid that ppl will make fun of me. plz help me!!! thanks
Ok dont take this in the wrong way but why dont you care what people think.?. all you need to do is think about you and him and how he would fell if you told him no and he found out its because he doesnt fit in with everyone..from me i think thats just rude to care what people think and you not going out with him hurts his feeling and then hes going to think something is wrong with him and not know what when he could be the sweetest guy youll ever know so think about it before you say no and hurt his feelings.
He's 20. I'm 16.
My current boyfriend started as a crush. We didn't rush into things we started out as just friends. Now that we are together he has changed. I think he tries too hard to please me and becomes irritated very easily. He seems so insecure and ...well ... just different from the person I knew when we were just friends. Our phone conversations have become a so unbearable I hardly return his calls. HE senses that there is some tension but I don't think I can explain to him exactly what's wrong. How can I get him to be himself around me again?
The first thing you need to do is talk to him about it..i know its going to be hard but you have to..something like this may help you come closer. well i hope i helped. if you need anything else just IM me @ MiAssIzLykeWoh13.
Oh yeah and if the age has ever had anything to do with it. just know that age is nuttin but a number and its nothing big.!.
I'm 13 and i'm havin a lil bit of guy trouble.Ok there is this really cute guy i know but we havent really seen much of eachother.Well the thing is when i was in 3rd grade i really liked him but then i moved when i was starting 4th so i never got to really talk to him again.Now it's summer '04 and im goin to start 8th.So one night i was stayin at my friend's house and he had told her to call well we were havin too much fun to call him so she gave me his sn and we started talkin to eachother online.It turns out that he liked me in 3rd grade also so he asked me out & i sed ok but then we broke up cuz we weren't sure if it was going to work out.But he always asks me how my love life is so the other day when i asked how his was he sed bad so i just went ahead and asked y is it....he answered cuz i broke up with you.is that really believable????He has also been talkin to one of my other friends and telling her that he likes me and everything but i don't know if he really does or not.I mean i kinda like him since we've been talking to eachother but does he really like me too?plz help.
Guys are like that..i have an ex-boyfriend that does the samething they just really do that to see if you have a boyfriend or whats going on with your life.its just another way of getting around the question...if you like this guy tell him how you feel and really try to work it out with him and start your 8th grade year as a good one.!.
Hope i helped.! :)