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Hey my name Jen and i try to help other people by giving advise. Please feel free to write any questions and i will definalty answer them! Please rate me 1-5 (5 being the best )and please give me feedback and tell me how my advice column is going but dont be mean or rude thankz!

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I have this problem with guys. Like every single time I date a guy and I like them lot and stuff. But I end up breaking up with them in the end. It's like I can't commit to just one guy. I want a long-term relationship but I can't cause I can't commit. Its like when I start getting attached I push him away. How could I commit to just one guy and actually stay with him and not break it up? Any advice or suggestions? Thanks in advance!

wow i just wanna say i feel the same way about myself hahah im just not ready to commit i guess.

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So, I liked this boy and i told him, and he said he liked me too, so we start to get to know eachother better and blahblahblah, then i start talking to boy number 2, and he is so amazing, like the guy i've always dreamed of havin' kind of a thing. We were just friends and then he broke up with his girlfriend and i helped him along with it and we became real close, and we are always like "love you" and such, then boy 1's best friend just got lead on and dumped by this one chick and he was like "I WOULD DIE IF THAT HAPPENED TO ME!" so that just made it worse, like i can't do that too him now. So he asked me out a few days later and of course i said yes, i still like him at this point but i like boy2 more. That night boy2 got back together with his girlfriend and i just got real angry at him for it. And i like "confessed my love for him" you could say. And he said "I was actually going to ask you out later but then you told me your with the other Evan" So, that really screwed things over. Right now i don't have a lot of feelings for boy1 ((the one i am dating now)), but strong ones with boy2, and he says he has better feelings for me than his current girlfriend. But for us to be together i would have to break up with boy1, and he would break up with his girlfriend. So we can be happy together. But is hurting the other two really worth it?
Do i break up with Boy1 so i can be with boy2?

I use boy1 and 2 because their both named Evan.


Please Help??????

whatever makes you happy is the right answer. look at it this way, is it worth suffering when you know you could be with the one you love? dont make a mistake by letting your chance pass you by. If you like boy 2, go get him, he lieks you too. So if you both like each other go out bc if you waste ur time with your other bf and he wastes his time on his gf, your really making it worse for them when ur with them but don't really like them. ohh andd ps evans a great name considering my bfs name is that =p

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OK WEll i HAVE A MAjOR CRUSh ON THiS qUY. && hE liKESz SOMEONE ElSE![ ERR ] WhAT ShOUlD i dO!!??Ugh!! PPlEASE HElP ME bEFORE i gO iNSANE!
SigNEd - xCONFUSEdx

DUHH TELL HIM YOU LIKE HIM =) or you'll regret it

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Okay, well at my camp... there's this guy that both me and my best friend like. sometimes it seems like he likes me, other times her. she liked him probably 5 days before me, and she's telling people that i just copied her! i think she's just mad because more of the time it seems *like he likes me, but i dunno. what should i do?????

Well you can always ask him who he likes but dont get disapointed if its not you..He could just be flirting and have a girlfriend. I think you should tell him how u feel. Hope everything works out! xox Jen

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Hi,
I have a problem with this guy i like. i don't know if he likes me but my friend told him i like him. i never said anything. i did find out that they do im each other and talk about me. she said he will ask me out but i don't know. then he finally asked me out. i said yes. the next day i found him making out with my sister. i walked over to him and i said excuse me? then he ran away. we havn't spoken for 3 days. what should i do? i am 15 and a female. please help me. my screen name is curliefrie92.

Well if he was making out with your sister then obviously hes too immature for you. You need to think about if you can trust him again. I wish you the best of luck xoxo -Jen

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I went to a friend's camp this last weekend. She told me that there was this guys a few years olded then us but he was annoying, stupid, and ugly.Then we went out onto the lake and he came along. He had this really big tube and we were all just chillin on it and pushing each other off. then one time it was just me and him and i justed to like him but kept myself from liking him because of what my friend said. i know it doens't matter because i probably won't see him again but should i of let what my friend say keep me from liking this guy?? please help!

I think you should have your own opinion and make up your mind for yourself. If you like this guy then you could like him, it has nothing to do with your friend's decision weither she likes him or not. Its ok if she doesnt like him it matters that you do! Maybe ur firend will recongize this : Dont judge a book by its cover! ;-) Good luck and hope i helped

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ok I broke up with my bf and from doing that my bf and his friends found me and beat me up pretty badly....i meen no broken bones but still pretty badly....so I was wonderin if he can get in like trouble 4 that because i kno like at school wen kids beat eachother up they dont get in trouble and i was wondering if this is like that...(my ex also did this to his last gf)....and is this my fault because thats how I feel..that its my fault...cuz my ex said that it was and it kind of is because im the one who chose to break up with him in the first place...and thats y he beat me up with his friends...well ya so do u think its my fault 2?

BOYS ARENT ALLOWED TO HIT AND BEAT UP GIRLS you can go to the police and they will get in trouble. I cant believe they did that 2 you, thats just wrong, so tell the police and good luck! Hope i helped

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hey umm i no this sounds wrong, but i think i really like my cousin. i dont know what to do, i mean hes family and all and he lives like 6 hours away and i dont no if he would ever like me but what can i do?

Umm sry but Theres a million people out there im sure you'll find someone else that you'll like. If you want to go out with him then fine butyou might end up on the Jerry Springer show. Hope i helped..

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15/f
okay i moved to a different city about a year ago. there is this guy that is like one of my best friends and everyone knows that he likes me and i like him too((but not alot)). ive gone to dances with him, but im afraid that if he asks me out things will get all weird, and i dont know if i would be able to kiss him without feeling odd.
please help me!

Well since you guys are like best firends you should have no problem knowing each other which is a great for a relationship. Just remember 2 continue being yourself and dont worry about "feeling odd" if you kissed him, if he likes you and you like him it shouldn't be a problem..good luck and hope i helped ;-)

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k.. i dated my ex-boyfriend for 11 months. he broke up with me about a week ago. my friend hooked me up with her boyfriend's friend and i really like him a lot. last night, i went to my ex's house and made out with him and stuff.. and he was all over me.. and today he's going on a date. i can't forget my ex. this isn't the first time we've broken up. i just can't seem to get over him. this other guy is so close to perfect. and i don't want to go out with him if i'm gonna still have feelings for my ex. what kind of things would help to get over my ex? someone please help.

First of all, if he makes out with you and everytihng and the next day goes on a date with sumone else then obviously hes a player and just wants to take advantage of girls. you still might have feelings for him but think about it, do you really want to be with someone who in the future could be cheating on you?, breaking up with you again?...If this other guys is close to perfect see how he is, then decide who you want to be with. Hope i helped Good Luck

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hey i have this really hott guy friend who likes me and tells me but when ever we go out everything if totaly diff we are no longer flirty and carefree we are all serious and shy ..i am totally confused and I am need of advice .... thx alots!

Hey First of all its totally normal to be shy around each other, that what happens when you like sumone. If your not ready yet to go out, tell him you want to slow down things alittle. Otherwise if you guys are still shy think about things to talk about during a date etc. I hope everytihng works out, Good Luck hope i helped

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hey , well this guy has told alot of people he liked me but was scared & he was afraid that he got on my nerves too much that thats why he hasnt already asked me 2 be his girl friend what should i do ? plz help if u can thx 4 tryin !

hey you should go ahead and talk to him you obviously like him also ,you should tell him you want to be his girlfriend and he doesnt bug you alot, well hope i helped

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