I think Im over him but Im not sure... Somedays I can't stop thinking about him.. Somedays I don't think about him.. How do I knw If I am REALLY over him??
well it depends on how long you 2 went out because i myself have had your experience so your not over him and again on the amount of time u 2 go out and how he treated is all up 2 you but i know that for a facta fter a break that and a relationship that was really good you wont be over him but yes as time goes by you will foret about him and you to might become really good friends after that hope i helped =]
~ babiieee x0x0 ~
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15/f okay so on friday (10/17) ill be going out w/ my bf for like a month. we havent kissed or anthing yet i mean we hug but we dont like hold hands or anything like that yet, evne though i realllyyy want to. i guess you can say that were not really the type of ppl that will go around making out w/ eachother in the middle of the hallway. i just dont know what to do. he tells my friends that he is too nervous to make a move or anything but like i dont want him to feel like that i want him to be comfortable w/ me. should i say something, should i wait it out a little bit? i mean we havent hung out yet because ive been grounded and hes been going away for the weekends. i like him so much. and another thing im worried about is that he only likes me because he thinks im hot. pleaseee hellp!
Ok Sweety a MONTH! and NO KISSING yea..ok well thats gotta change his defftnly not gonna make the first move for that its wayyyy to late for that! so ou need to do something the next time you to hang out, like for exapmle get really close to him, touch his hand, smile, flirt alot, get close to his face, touch his face, play around stuff like that! so try it it should work
next thing about that he likes only because your hott...that cant be true you know why he hasnt kissed you yet and its one month so sweety this guys defftnly isnt in just for the game =)
~Y&B~
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there are some upperclassmen guys (i'm a sophmore girl) that i think are really attractive and nice and would like to get to know better, but i dont know how. they have the same free period as i do, but i cant just like randomly go up to them and say hi and sound like a freak. what should i do?
Sophmore year for me was the best! and easy!..sweety you need to show some interest such as a little gelnce now and then, mabbi some looking (but make sure he catches you looking) once in a while..when he knows something is up give a smile lol..after that not much just keep doing that..sooner or later hell have to talk to you GIVE SOME HINTS trust if your as attractive as u say you'll have no problem doing that =)
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15/f.
ive made out with like 7 guys since my first kiss right before i turned 14. and each time my best friend hadnt been watching and most times she wasnt with me when it happened. but one time, her and her bf and i went to the movies and they brought a guy for me and she wanted us to hook up so bad and she was trying to make me kiss him but i felt weird with her there right next to me cause i know she would be watching. i wasnt nervous about kissing the guy. i know i shouldnt care that she watches but i do. like she was so into me hooking up with guy(oh she wasnt like staring the whole time either, they would glance over for a little then go back) how can i get over this "fear" of having people watch me when i makeout with a guy?
Well u know i did that alot to...that feeling of oh my god what if someone sees me..and yea sometimes that fear doesnt go away...and honestly i still have it, you really cant do much xcept learn that know body cares..after all they might even wish they could have a lucky guy relationship like you do. Once you start making out in public the fears just goes away the more you do it..and dont b afraid iff every1 else dont give a crap about it why should you? lol its not bad just try it ..and keep doing it sooner or later it will deffntly go away!
~RESPOND BACK ID LOVE TO HEAR MORE~
*Y&B*
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well i think i like this boy buti'm not sure because i talk about him a lot with my friends and my parents say i can't date him but i really want to. i went out with him once already and i actully kissed him but the thing is we are not together and he tries to protect me to much like if i talk to another boy he gets mad or if it's my offit. but i thgink he likes me.what should i do?
you can do 2 things in this situation
1; you can secretly date him and not tell anybody...and just if your parents ask you were you going say your going out with your fiedn(name) ..lol so they wont think anything.. or...
2: tel you pareants and friends the truth and sya that you really like himand explaint o him what about him you like and everything so upt o you really =)
xoxo Y.b good Luck!
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so ive liked this guy for a very long time and i started liking him bc he started giving me hints that he liked me...so we started becoming friends and close enough that we text each other about once a week or so. now i thought he was going to ask me and soon and then the most popular girl in my grade is in our math class and she has no friends so she sits up front next to the class nerd.anyways i sit next to the guy i like and diagnal (or however u spell it) from him is of course that girl and she has only done little flirty things like write her name all over his binder. so today at the end math class when we were handing in our papers she walks up to him and puts her hands around him as if she was slow dancing and i couldnt handle watching it but he didnt do anything back but have the biggest smile on his face. he didnt put his hands on herthank god. put when the bell rang she put her arm around him and walked all the way down the hall like that and he did the same thing just smile...so anyways what should i do because i cant watch her do this any longer..on day was hard enough and i wanna text him saying something like..ohh what happened with you after math class today but idk what to do..plz help..thx in advance :)
haha young love...( dont owrry im young to) lol but that really cute your jeloius and its normal since oyu like himalot if seems ..hehe so just chil out and heres what you shoudl do:
1. you can fire with fire and do the same thing back to him and make him like you more..and oyu have his number so yea umm TXT him!! hhaa his your man not hers ..you saw him first wow...
2.you can just tlak to him about it and ask him out ( dont no mgiht be helping a little)
3. wait and see what happens ( but carefull with this one you wait to short might not be good eougn wait to long might be late ...
so i sugject you try what ever you want ..
xoxo y.b good Luck! any othe rquestions dont hesisitae to ask =)
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sigh, ok sorry if this is long...
alright so you know how once you get something you want, things change? let me be specific. Here is what you need to know:
I'm 17
I got out of a long relationship a year ago.
Since then, I haven't been with another guy
I was sick of being in a relationship basically.
It was great for a year but then i wanted to get out there again, on a certain level.
I just wanted to have fun, nothing serious.
Now, i had this guy friend for two years and he would always flirt with me, even when I had a boyfriend. I liked him, he was fun and cute and very chill, however i could never picture us together as more than friends, even though i found him attractive. OK also at the time my best friend had a HUGE crush on him so...
But that was last year. Since then i broke up with my boyfriend and my best friend not only got over him but she also moved three hours away. So when i started feeling like i wanted to have fun, i thought of him as the perfect candidate. I talk to my best friend still and when i told her she told me to watch out because he might really like me and want a relationship. I just let things go their natural way and he ended up coming over my house one day to watch a movie, but we hooked up instead. The thing is before he asked i told him the truth- i dont want anythings serious. He said yeah me either so it was ok.
Now the problem:
I started feeling like maybe it wasnt the smartest thing to do. He said he was single but i didnt really make sure he was. truth is i have no idea, he flirts with a lot of girls. then i started thinking he was a player and i was OK with that because after all, i just wanted to have fun too. I dont know, like i said, things change. I started doubting myself on whether it was ok... So now finally the questions:
1. Was it ok to do what we did?
2. Is it ok to keep doing it because id be up for it still. I like him but not enough to get involved so i thought it was perfect.
3. Should I tell my best friend (we kinda promised to tell each other everything but this...I dont know)
Anyone who can help me figure this out, I appreciate it!
Thanks! =]
Well sounds like a great deal of fun...haha well i guess it might have been ok to do what you guys did beacuse before anything you both agreed on what both of you wanted so yea it was ok...Mabby its not ok to continue doing it beacuse one of you might start to like each other alot and then not like the agreement and the fact that you both are fliritng with *other* people ...beacuse there might be fight about that later..on the other hand if your sure you wont like him and that your cool with what ever the whole filritn thing then sure continue as mcuh as you want..BUT make SURE you WONT fall for him =) and yes you should tell your best friend since you guys promissed and proomisses are promisses and plus theres a reason you call her your *best friend* so tell her ..i think she desreves to know and who knows mabby shell help you out even more...she is the one that porbably knows you pretty good =) ..so hope i helped ..=) any other questions dont hesitate to ask me
xoxo Y>B good LUck!
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Im so confused right now! So I like this guys at school but my friends make fun of him for some reason. And he doesnt like my friends. I think hes mad at me too because i say hi and he stares at me and walks away. and my mom hates him cause hes a trouble maker. He hates Iowa because he just moved here. I try to get his attention and it kinda works. What should i do so hell talk to me?
Well at first theres nothing confusing about this lol...yo could try to make your friends stop making fun of him and start being nice to him and saying hi to him in the hole ways so that mabby he hates IOWA because he doesnt have alot of friends...and i thik he likes you to only he doesnt know it yet.so first try covonsicing everyone of what kind of guy he is so that they can all stop and start being nice to him ,then thats when you com in everyday just say hi to him in the whole way ans in you have any classes wiht him in try to make some eye contact and and some flirty smilies ..sooon he bound to talk to you in some ways lol
xoxo Y>B good Luck!
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haha lollll..
yeah my friends get pissed at me for this
and tlel me im gonna get rappped but..
through myspace .lol..
but like ive met him and stuff
so its all good haha
how bout youu?
well mines worse..haha not myspace but night club..this how it looked
grind...MAKE OUT..grnd...MAKE out and that happend for about 20 minutes and he asked for my number and we were planning to see each other and stuff but i dont some how when ever he says his gonna come over im like (scared ) haha..so i dont no ill just see what happens hehe....but dont you feel like when he says i love you its like he doesnt mean it ..but it sounds like he does but i tno he doesnt cuz i knew him for about a h week now.. now..
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thanks fo helping mee.
and yeah atleast someone understands how i feel.
hes so sweet and everything and like when im talking to him im all happy and when im not its like goddamnit haha
but i havent talked to him since like 330 and its almost 9 :[ and it sucks.
i wanted to ahngout with him today and hes like i cant and i think its cuase hes hanging out with his friends
and of course his friends are those girls..
so im all gya and worried cause idk if hes doing shit behind my back
but like i dont think he is casue he gets all concerned and yesterday when we were talking hes like youll never hurt me right and im like never ever and im like i hope you never hurt me and hes like never no matter what
and he told me before if i ever lie im gone cuase he hates liers and thats what makes me think hes being true to me and not doing other shit and sutff but idkkk.
i hate when i get like this haha
but yeah thanks for listeninggg :]
ugh..yea...tell me about me about he just txted me sayin if i mind if goes out tonight an dim like no ...and told him that im **busy** and not to txt till 11ish haha..so yea he tells me the same..he goes like yea u never gona hurt me and im liek no...and im liek never gonna hurt me he says no...god and its like we cant trust them Beacuse we dont see them.....i know it does suck ....so if you dont me asking...how did u guys meet??
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well, in a previous question i asked, i asked how i tell a friend of mine(M) that i heard something about him.
well i told him last night, and everything fell apart. he told me the truth, and the truth was what i heard. i wanted sooo badly for it to be a lie. and i just freaked. and at the same time, another guyfriend of mine (B) was getting pissed at me because i lied to him. he just happened to be next door so M and i walked over to where he was because i needed to talk to him. he totally ignored me. i chased after him and apologized countless times and he stil wouldnt listen. so i got the vibe he hated me and stopped in my tracks, turned around, and walked back to where M was. i was too upset to talk to him, so i left his house and didnt even say bye. he didnt say bye to me and didnt even wanna ride in the car that took me home.
and now M is not calling me (mostly because i told him not to. but he needs to realize that i only said that because i was about to start bawling my eyes out,...which i did when i got home last night) and i have calmed down. right now my emotions are some weird mixture of depressed, hurt, and alone. and i just need to talk to him. i just want to be near him. but he lives so far away and i still cant drive. and besides, hes gone today.
how do i let him know that i dont hate him for what he did, that it just hurt me? and how do i let him know i want him to call me?
well you cant..just say something liek that and then exepect to anywyas call...guys take that as you actually mean that trust me i know ...you dont wait tilhe call you..beaucse the turht is he wont ...so you call himhe wont pic but leave him a vioce messege and tell him everything....you need. or have (M) tell him or something or somebody....send him messges on facebook/ myspace aim/msn messengers anything but his not going to make the move first..you need to let himknow and thats when he realizes ..tell him everything right now you told me..(and eveyrhone else...that you wanna to be near him and your not mad at what he did you were just hurt....tell him if he likes you or even care sa little hell undertand..and he wont care nad just let it go..trust me ive been thgough this kind of guy gets mad and hates you stuff lol
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just a simple question. what is cheating. cause honeslty i don't know. i mean i know sex and kissing is but..is there more to cheating than physically? cause sometimes i feel like i might be cheating on my boyfriend even though i've never done anything sexually with anyone else.
well no....cheating is chaeting...its mostly physical contact...i think it IS just physicall contact
if your just talkign to a guy ( No flirt)
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ok my boyfriend lets call him nick really loves me and i really love him too. ok we told each other that we loved each other about a month or two after we started going out. we have only been goin out five months and we have already had sex it was his first time but not mines. im 14 and he is 15 i just want to know if im moving to fast because i have also put him over most of my family but i also dont have the best family either but thank you and i will appreicate any advice you have to offer.
im 14..to and i had sex more then once..and i had the saem b.f he was 15..and he never had. sex..but i never had sex wiht himm lol went out for 8 months ..so no i dont htink your moving fast beacuse i love you after a month of dating ..dunno that might of bee kind afats..but if uve been togethe rfor 5 months then sex is ok =) and your family i dont think you should out him before your family though beacuse b.f come nad go but fmaily no matter how bad or good stays....ythgough anhtyhing..so mabby you should put your family first =)
xox y.b good luck!
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k soo i hooked up with the guy i like over spring break Mike & i gave him a handjob & he felt my boobs up. & i realized afterwards that he was just using me.. he just wanted to see my boobs. he said he had to go to work & we cna finsih tommorow.. & later & when i asked him if he wanted to hook up again on myspace he said he had a g/f. & before that he told me that he didn't like anyone.& i knew he was lying. & on top of that i asked for his number & he gave me a fake. & i cusssed him out on myspace. & then at school, i told my friend colton that i hooked up with him i told him how that guy used me.. & he told his friend carolina & she's friends with the guy i hooked up! & i think she told him.. because when i came home i got on myspace & he deleted me from his friends so yeahh. & i realized why. & he's mad at me & i don't know what to do.. pleasee help me!!!
First calm down ....and take a long breath its not the end of the world..alothough it mgiht feel liek it ,,,but its nt lol..so let me get this straight you basically hooked up with this guy and you thoguht he used so you told somebody qand then thye told somebody and then he got mad beacuse you told..ok well the only hting is you need to add him back on myspace and oif he doesnt except his deffntly mad.so after that try to talk to him in school and if he doens tt lak to you ask one of your really good friends to talk to him or write hima anote and apoligize for what you did ..and just you were hurt by it..and that you didnt mean...anything
xoxox y.b Good Luck!
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I like this guy. We get along pretty well, I'd say we're friends, but we've never talked in an intimate setting before. I don't even know if he likes me, really.
He does make a point to talk me fairly often though. It's always the same question "Did you do your Calculus homework?" (the class we have together) He knows I didn't do it, because I never do, but yet he always asks, lol. Sometimes he looks at me, I think, but I can't be sure.
Anyways, I'd like to get to know him a bit more, and most importantly, find out if he likes me or not. A mutual friend of ours is having a party in three weeks, and I think/hope he's going.
Idk, honestly. I'm confused. He doesn't have a screenname. We've talked on Facebook before, but I don't think he gets on often. And I can't just blatantly ask for his number.
Well dont just ask for him number lol..try gettign to know him in diffrent ways and rust me there are alot of ways. one you can ask around about what he likes....and then have diffrent conversations not only about calculus ...and even that is good..ask himt to help you...in it and then after you guys are done just i dont no walka round or somehting and chill then you guys can really just talk about anything ..beacuse there is nothing thats goign to distract you ...and you guys would have plenty of time...you can ask him whats kind of girls does he like and what are his interets and those questions wil lead to tother questions and then you can soon find out what you need to know
xox y.b good luck!
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OK soo my bf broke up with me a while ago for alot of reasons but mainly because of the long distance relationship we were in.It hurt me because I really liked him and though he liked me the same and all his promises etc but I finally got to agree,its not easy too be with someone you only see once a year.I was starting to get over it(well i though so)until I heard he was back with his old gf who lives in the same country as him(whitch he left 4 me).My true problem is that now my parents decided to send me where he lives(in 6 months)we havent talked since the day we broke up though he said he would've continue to call me. so he doesnt know about my parents decision yet...
WHAT AM I GONNA DO??
PLEASE HELPPPPP!!!what should I do when I get there/or now??
CALL HIM GURL!!!! and tell him that your coming there if he liked you alot hell be soo happy but its kind of weird i know but just say your coming...or txt him its must easier to say in a text then on th ephone bu tyou deffntly have to tell him...no matter hwat you do Tell hiM!
XOX Y.B GOOD LUCK!
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ok so me and this guy reallllly like eachother
and we say iloveyou to eachother and stuff and were pactically going out but the only thing is that he doesnt live that close and like hes perfect in every single way
what he says and stuff keeps me smiling soo much
and he tells me im beautiful and we call eachother baby and he tells me im his princess and angel and all this cute stuff and i call him my teddybear
but lately ive been thinking all this is just a lie. and i dont want it to be nad ive been really down casue like he will go out and stuff and tlak to me later in the night and like everything would be perfect at night before we go to sleep but then its like all my worrys are gone but then it comes a new day and im stuck here thinking hte same thing
like on myspace his friends that are girls will says hes sexy and be like mwuah i love u and stuff and i dont know if i should tkae it seriously cause two of them have pictures with him and one of the girls has her name nad then in parenthesis i love you hunnie and her mood is loved.
yesterday i told him ive been sad cause i think im losing him and he said htat im never losing him adn that we will be togehte forever
i dont know if i should confront him or like what to say if i do. i dont want him to be mad at me or anything but i feel like i might be getting played.
someone help me and tell me your opinion.
thanks
HOLYY SH!t your excatly like me..liek im reading this and i have theEXCT same thing like no joke same with i love yous and lives far away exactly one in one....i feel the excat same way that im losing him and that his always out a.dn im here and we can never see each iother an dits like ok this cant work...but i dnt htink his playing you he wouldnt waste his time with you a giurl that lives far away ,,,,,when he has everyoen else would he?? nO duobt it so he must liek you for sure.and i dont think its love....beacus eu dont see him you just talk to him over the ocmputer and phone..so do i u sau i love he says it back..but your worried that everything sig ing to be bad..its not nothng iswrong with this..ebeaucse if yopu guys each othesoemtimes you will misss each othe ralot and always have somehting to tlak about when u fdo each other..and there wil be laot of kissing haha si just let it go wiht the flow i no btohers you and all but trust me he wouldnt waste time with yo if he didnt liek you =)
giv eit time ..
xoxo y.b HOPE i helped =)
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So i'm pretty much the typical good girl but i've recently been talking with a guy in my english class who is the opposite of me. He uses drugs and skips classes, and there are many rumors going around about him all the time.
I didn't expect him to be a frequent reader of philosophical novels... we discuss ayn rand and many other topics in our english class and i'm kind of falling for him.
the thing is, all my friends hate him. i love my friends a lot and i wouldn't want to hurt them by getting too close with this guy.
what can i do?
sounds like the *bad Boy* type haha it normal..to fall for guy like that ..he must be gorgeuos haha...and his your typical high school bad boy...why dont you try getting to know him alot better,,,,and tel yor friends when your ready...or atkeast one of your most turstworthy friend..if there your friends theyll understand..you and why you like him and mabby they wont like him but they wont hate him and if he falls for you then you can proove al your friends worng..and they wont hate him.so just try my advice get to know him and see if his not like the actually typical bad boy ------>>> uses girls , has sex and then walks out...
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my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost two months, and i used to really like him. i had liked him for almost a year and then once we got together (maybe after a month or so) all of my stronger feelings for him just faded away. i was positive that i was in love with him when we were just friends, but now i can barely stand him at times. it seems like i can't even flirt with other boys and that sometimes bothers me. i feel like i was waiting for just so long and then once i finally got it, i wasn't into it anymore. this has really been bothing me because i don't know if i should break up with him or just wait and see. i'm his first "official" girlfriend and i'm afraid i'll crush him if i break up with him. please help me!!! what should i do??
you said you van barely stand him at times..you at times.. so he must not always be lke that..and i think mabby you should just wait and see if you change your mind beacuse its normal for people that have been dating to feel like ewww i dont like him anyhmore i dated a guy for 6 months or 8 not sure and all the time i wuold be like omg i hate him i shold break it off. but i knew that if id id i wold miss him sooo much so i never did and the feeling went away when me and him where together and happy.sop jjust wait and see and if nothing changes then ou can lie to yourself just let em go..its life [eople reak up and come together so yea he wil be reallu cryshed but eventually he'll deal but for ow give ahcnabe another one...and try talking to him if thats possible and your not scare dbaout it
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xoxox y.b Good Luck ! (p.s. tell me how it goes )
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