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EX BF!!!dunno what to do...
OK soo my bf broke up with me a while ago for alot of reasons but mainly because of the long distance relationship we were in.It hurt me because I really liked him and though he liked me the same and all his promises etc but I finally got to agree,its not easy too be with someone you only see once a year.I was starting to get over it(well i though so)until I heard he was back with his old gf who lives in the same country as him(whitch he left 4 me).My true problem is that now my parents decided to send me where he lives(in 6 months)we havent talked since the day we broke up though he said he would've continue to call me. so he doesnt know about my parents decision yet...
WHAT AM I GONNA DO??
PLEASE HELPPPPP!!!what should I do when I get there/or now??
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CALL HIM GURL!!!! and tell him that your coming there if he liked you alot hell be soo happy but its kind of weird i know but just say your coming...or txt him its must easier to say in a text then on th ephone bu tyou deffntly have to tell him...no matter hwat you do Tell hiM!
XOX Y.B GOOD LUCK!
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I say you start to talk to him and get to know him as a person because there's no use trying to get him back (if that's what you want to do) if you guys can't even be friends. Keep the moving thing quiet until it gets closer. Get to know him (and his girlfriend) and just be friends with him. If he reacts to this with at least being your friend, he'll be more up to getting back together if it works out when you get there. You have to remember that even though the whole reason that he broke up with you was good, the "lots of other reasons" may be stupid and show what kind of guy he is no matter how close you live to him. You do have to remember that he has a girlfriend, so don't be the boyfriend stealer. Make sure he knows that you are happy for him. If he brakes up with her, then is a wonderful time to tell him that you are moving down there... but don't sound like "You dumped her? good, I'm moving down there and you can go out with me again!" Although I'm sure you would be glad, I would wait until something came up the next time you talked. Plus, you have all the time you need once you move down there to become friends with him again. Don't be too nervous or obsessive with it. I hope this helps a little, and good luck with your guy. I hope things at least work out as friends between you two...
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