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=\ boyfriend probs.
15/f okay so on friday (10/17) ill be going out w/ my bf for like a month. we havent kissed or anthing yet i mean we hug but we dont like hold hands or anything like that yet, evne though i realllyyy want to. i guess you can say that were not really the type of ppl that will go around making out w/ eachother in the middle of the hallway. i just dont know what to do. he tells my friends that he is too nervous to make a move or anything but like i dont want him to feel like that i want him to be comfortable w/ me. should i say something, should i wait it out a little bit? i mean we havent hung out yet because ive been grounded and hes been going away for the weekends. i like him so much. and another thing im worried about is that he only likes me because he thinks im hot. pleaseee hellp!
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It took me like the same amount of time to kiss my boyfriend. I didn't want to hurry into things, and I think he kinda got the hint.
There's a chance that maybe he's uncomfortable. He'll come around soon, don't worry.
I, also, am not one of those people who like to makeout in the hall and whatnot. That's just something to do in private.
If you want to hold his hand, I think all you have to do is take it in your own. It's just that simple. I mean, I know you might want him to make the first move and all, but maybe he needs that push to know it's okay.
If he says he's nervous, ask him. That's what I do. I usually just end up saying, "you're not nervous, are you?" and it comes out naturally and normally.
And you say you're worried that he only likes you for your looks. Well, that's another thing you should ask him. Just be like, "what about me attracted you to me?". Just act normal about it and things will go very smoothly.
Hope I helped !
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A month without even kissing is a pretty strong argument against him only liking you for your body, first of all.
When you're alone, give him a hug, then pull back just enough so that your faces are a few inches apart and just stay there until he figures out what you're inviting him to do.
If he tries to pull away, don't let him, and keep your face close to his.
He will get the hint eventually. Smile at him afterwards, so he knows he did something right.
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Ok Sweety a MONTH! and NO KISSING yea..ok well thats gotta change his defftnly not gonna make the first move for that its wayyyy to late for that! so ou need to do something the next time you to hang out, like for exapmle get really close to him, touch his hand, smile, flirt alot, get close to his face, touch his face, play around stuff like that! so try it it should work
next thing about that he likes only because your hott...that cant be true you know why he hasnt kissed you yet and its one month so sweety this guys defftnly isnt in just for the game =)
~Y&B~
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Do what you desire. I'm sure if you make a move first he'll be happy. He's telling your friends that he's nervous so you must be special to him. If he ends up acting weird about you just holding his hand or kissing him then tell him you can't change what you physically and mentally want.
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