Question Posted Wednesday October 15 2008, 8:50 pm
14/female
ok, i dont think a guy had ever liked me,well aleast i never knew it so i want a guy to like me. any tips or ideas?? i know flirting is a sure way but after a while you have to step it up....
Well it helps if you aren't really shy, because it's hard to talk to someone who doesn't really talk. Anyways, always be open and friendly. Let the beauty that you have within you show through. Whatever it is that you are good at: sports, school, music, ect, be proud of that special part of you. Comb your hair, dress how love to dress, and be happy and optimistic about life. Nothing is more attractive to a decent guy than a girl who loves herself for exactly who she is. Happy attracts happy and insecure attracts insecure, so be what you want in a guy. And plus, you'll be happy too. I wish you only the best. [ iwantthetruth's advice column | Ask iwantthetruth A Question ]
Sunshine_Ellie answered Thursday October 16 2008, 2:51 pm: Well there are tons of magazines that have articles like "10 easy ways to get a guy to notice you" blah blah. Personally, I think you should just be yourself and do what feels natural to you. Don't try too hard that you're humiliating yourself every time you're around guys, Just go with the flow and things will just seem.. right. You know? But yeah flirting is a sure way to get a guy to like you. It shows that you're interested. Plus if a guy already likes you and you flirt with him then it'll let him know that it's okay to make the move. There are other ways to get a guy to like you as well. Ask questions about him. Like whats his favorite music, movies, tv shows, hang out spots, ect. It's an easy way to find something you two both have in common. From there you should begin to build a friendship which if you play your cards right, will eventually turn into a relationship and so on. So I hope I helped and good luck ;)
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