about

Well this is where I tell you about myself so here yeah go:
-I'm in 10th grade in Nevada!
-Im also in softball n volleyball
-Im a flyer for the cheerleading squad
-I love to help people out hehe thats why Im here
-I love to talk a lot, inless Im really tried or something
-I like to dance, go out, watch movies, parti, go swimming, anything in the snow or just hang out w my friends!
Last but not least I lOove my bF!! Eric M! muahs!

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hey sweetie..question!:) my boyfriends birthday is coming up on sep. 3rd..and the same day is our 6 month ann. my first varsity soccer game and his 17th birthday. i already got him gifts, but i wanted to know what else can i get him..or surprise him with. i was going to hang out with him that night and do stuff with him like normal - but make it all about him..but i have my game..are there any little things you can think of? thanks!!

x0x-dani

Hey okai I think you said your bfs 17th b-day, 6 month anniversary nd your first soccer game is all the same day...so first off youll go to your game then you should maybi set something up at his or ur house or go out for dinner or watch a movie like maybi if you can remember your first movie or place you guys went cause thats soo cute like in "newlyweds" nd my bf did that too lol so like go somewhere special that means something to both of you like example: maybi the first place you both met was at the mall go hang out their or where your first kiss was or first dance you knw something to make it special as long as it wont be too much work for you I mean right after a game you do wanna rest nd all so thats the onli thing I can come up with some special place. Good luck, happy earli 6 month anniversary to you too also!
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OK this might be long but i really need some advice there this girl i really like i talk to her and i told her i like her i but i never ask her out and im in love with this girl before i can ask her out she going out with some1 elese and i still love her and i talk about her every day and think about her every day what should i do

aww that is like soo cute I dunno why it just seemed like it is maybi bc Im in a realli good mood neways I think you shoudl go ask her out or have a friend do it you might regret not doing it and you might let her get away what if shes the one right so its simple go ask her out I mean it sounds soo easy and maybi isnt but I htink if you love her truly love her you should go for it you mgiht not find someone else like her soo go get her! :) GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!
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Im 13yrs old n im having some problems with my ex boyfriend..We were together for about 10 months n 2 weeks..I loved him with all my heart i mean he ment the world to me..I told him all of my secrets n everything about my life and sittuations i'v been through..But when summer started things started to go down hill..I never got to see him or nything..N he never called or e-mailed me at all..It made me get all diff. thoughts in my mind lyk "is he cheatn on me, does he trully love me, is he seeing another grl" I was so confused..I cried myself to sleep every night almost not knowing what to do..I finially got the courage to ask him if it would be alright to take a break n everything but we would get baQ together after all my thoughts were outa my mind..We just now reciently made this break lyk two weeks ago..N now all that is on my mind is him..I mean sumtyms ill zone off n have all these thoughts n sumtyms it scares me its really hard to explain but i just dont know how to get over this*Tay-Tay*

Hey I think taking a break might of helped or not but maybi you shoulda just talked to him about it and ask him why hes doing all this I mean you should still go ask him and see wats going on nd why hes doing all this to you and see why he didnt call or nething when u two were together nd also I think if you do go out w him you should try to talk to him nd call inless hes never home nd all but see I learned that if you have a lot of time on your hand you tend to think of ur x or wat their doing but the best thing to do is if you still like him first ask him wat was doing on then go out w him again if he still wants to I mean u opened up to him right you might as well talk to him about it so good luck nd I hope I helped if you need anything else write bac to me kays!
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ok theres this guy that I really like and the problem is he is one of my really good friends. I go to with almost nething. I really care about him. We hung out a few times over the summer. I talk to him about all my guy problems and my family probelms. Its just lately hes been kinda moody. I ask if nething is wrong and he goes no is there something wrong with u? and it sounds kinda mean. Now erytime I mention a guy he gets kinda mad or throws the subject away. The other day he got mad cuz I "lied" to him about liking his friend. When I dont. I just wanna scream it to him I like him. But I dont think he likes me like that . Im known as his friend. besides ery gurl likes him.....what should I say to him. and I need so GOOD advice plz help !!! sorry this is long

Well you know I think your friend could be right because when I read where you wrote "he gets upset or ignores the subject when you talk abotu a guy" to me that sounds like he might like you a little more then just a friend and who cares if alot of girls like him it depends on if you like him and he likes you and you should give him a chance and just tell him how you feel about this I mean if he likes you shouldnt you guys go out you should so Im thinking you should go out w each other and you should tell him how you feel about him because he could be the one for you and if hes not trust me theirs alot of other guys so the onli advice Id have to give you and maybi your friends have alreadi told you this to but go talk to him tell him how you feel and see if he feels the same way about you inless you dont want to then you shouldnt or the other thing have one of your friends just talk to him or neone to help you out to see how he realli feels because guys are realli confusing so I hope I helped you out kays! If you need anything else write back!
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what culd/can you use around the house to practice kissing(like if havent kissed eny1/few and you just want to make sure or something)...??

Well Ive seen ppl kissing pillows lol and their hands but realli i think it doesnt help when uir kissing it just happens!
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i'm 12 and my bf is 13. my bf is more experienced than i am and he wants me to do stuff that i dont think i should cuz of my age and i'm not really ready for. i need help to know how to tell him that i'm not ready for that stuff. pleez and thank u if u can help

Tell him to F off j/k...if your not readi then ur not readi theirs nothing wrong with that and pretti much all you should realli have to say is "i dont think i want to do this okai so maybi we should slow down" and if he doesnt understand that dump him because sweetie you shouldnt be doing stuff you dont wanna and u shouldnt be forced to do stuff that you dont wanna be doing especially when ur young and all so maybi you just needa tell him and if he doesnt get that then u can find someone better trust me same happened to me and I learned that im happier without a bf who makes me do stuff I dont wanan do. But this is just advice so good luck and rememebr you can do sooo much better if he treats you like that!
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hey i just moved to florida from new jersey and i have a boyfriend who lives in new jersey. do long distance relationships work out?

Hey I answered this and I guess you sent it twice so just look at the first one kays!
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hey i just moved to florida from new jersey and i have a boyfriend who lives in new jersey. do long distance relationships work out? my sn is cherryliciousxo2 please help me

I would seriously have no idea but if you can trust ur bf and he can trust you then theirs a good chance of it working out and if he n you can be able to visit one another and talk to each other but mostly they will work as long as you can talk/see each other and realli trust each other so good luck w him! If you need anything else you can write back!
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i went to my old crushes house for his Birthday and we played 7th heaven and i had to make out wit my old crush. and i haven't told my boyfriend yet it's been a couple weeks but i'm afraid he'll break up with me if i tell him. should i tell him or not
~GhettoHouchyMaMa

Well this is realli up too you because you know its ur choice but it was wrong that you kissed another guy and then maybi ur bf well say u never should have and never should have played the game but its a parti but if you guys realli like each other you should tell him and he wont get pissed off and he'll still wanna be with you and if not then trust me you will be able to find a guy who would forgive you in this case so good luck and rememebr its totally up to you this is just advice!If you need anything else you can write back!
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i want 2 kno if ur wit a guy n u go to 2 diffrent skools if it can work n also the skools r like very far apart

Well hey it depends what grade your in n what grade the other persons in like if ur in middle school or high school and all, but I guess you pretty much gotta be able to trust one another and I mean it might still be summer where you live so go hang out w each other but in this case you realli gotta be able to trust the other person and if you realli like them it shouldnt be a problem and you should be able to work things out and pretti much be able to be with each other so its kinda a lot of trust you have to have and hopefully you guys well be able tobe together and if not then you guys shoulda never went out but basically TRUST lol! Good Luck
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how will i no if i found the right person. Cause i think i found him but im scared to ask him out?

Hey I think you should first get to know him and if you do then hang out w him and go out because ull never know till you do and then if you think hes the one hopefully hell feel the same way but dont open up ur heart that much to the case where ull hurt urself but just go for it and if it feels right then wow maybi their is someone out their for everyone!
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ok im going into the 8th grade and ive never made-out wit someone...most of the girls in my grade had...ive had the chance to wit a cute boy but i didnt want to and everythin...how can i get more comfortable wit doing it

Not to worri about it soo much I mean if you make out with him then its just pretti normal and you should be comfortable about when you wanna make out with someone and dont do it when you wanan fit in w ur friends just do it when ur readi to and its not wrong that u havent done that and ur in 8th grade just do it when ur readi pretti much is all I can say.
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There's this guy I really like, but he's really wild. I mean really. He's already went all the way and he's only 14. I've only been kissed. But he wants to hang out and start "talking" and stuff. He's really fun to be around and really good lookin too. lol. I would love to get to know him better and maybe even date, but I'm afraid it wont work out because I'm not as advanced as him, but should I give it a shot anyway?

I thinnk you should give it a try I mean who cares what hes done and what youve done...If he likes you and you like him then maybi you guys should give it a shot and if he does try to do stuff with you and ur like afraid or not readi then tell him that u realli dont wanna but that doesnt mean u shouldnt hang otu w him because u should so good luck
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Well I'm going withtwo guys at the same time!!I love both of them and they don't know bout each others presence.But the thing is that I don't want any of them to come to know!!Could u plez advice me on how I can go out with both of them at the same time??

Women if you loved them you wouldnt do this to them this is NOT a thing to be doign and to be happi about like put urself in their position would u want a guy to be cheating on u when he says hes loves you NOOO so maybi u needa break up w both or stick w one because cheating on someone is sooo not love!
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Recently, I broke up with my boyfriend because I was always thinking of someone else. I know it's a lame excuse for breaking up with someone, but, that's why I did it. Do you think it was wrong to do? Because..my ex still wants me back. Believe me, he's tried everything he possibly can. I just..I can't do it. I know that if I go back to him I'll never be thinking about him, but another guy. And to be honest, I'm not too fond of my ex, but he's disgustingly obsessed with me. Oh my god, seriously. Lmao. So someone help me, here.

No dont go back to your ex inless you want to and that is soo not a bad excuse because i did the same thing "i liked some other guy broke up w my bf to go out w this other guy never did and wanted my bf back and got him back n thought he was a jerk later on n broke up" lol so do wat u want not because ur ex is madly in love with u or anything kay just do it because u want to, i mean u might as well make urself happi right so do wat feels right for u!
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there is this guy who i really like but he doesnt even know i exsist what should i do to have him notice me

Hmm all I can think of is maybe smile, talk to him, and try to be urself that will work but mostly talkign will work just introduce your self then talk to him and be confident kays! Good Luck
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i was jw...is it wrong to maturbate???is there a lotta people that do it???please answer...thank you

I would realli not know lol because Ive never done it but Im guesssin most ppl do it because if they didnt u wouldnt hear about or even know about so Im guessing ppl do it and its a normal thing and Im diffently sure its not wrong :)!
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when you call a guy that you met through someone else, what do you say to them?? answer asap!!! i rate!

Hmm well are you shy lol bc then its hard but if your nething liek me you will NEVER shut up! lol neways just talk about stuff like nething like get to know him...his age,his school, wat he likes to do, how his summer is going, wat hes been doing, if he plays ne sports, if he ever wants to hang out with you again or just talk and stuff if you realli want ask him who he likes just make up a conversation no one likes a boring quiet person right GoOd LuCk with your phone calls! :)!

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Is it nice having a boyfriend or are boyfriends annoying? I'll rate really good, thanks so much!

Good n Bad because its good because you can do the whole cuddling kissing loving each other thing to one another and all and that never gets boring lol but then again you have the whole problem thing that gets annyoing and trusting and all so its good n bad just depends on wat kinda guy u get lol or if ur a good gf i guess well good luck n think wat u think u should its all up to you!
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okay, so here's the situation..in 7th grade i used to be how do you say it..the ugly duckling..then in eighth grade my body matured and i was still unhappy with myself..then people started complimenting me and i have had no trouble finding people to do stuff with..not meaning sex but...yah know..i just don't know what to do ..because as much as i want a boyfriend im soo used to my usual thing..i don't know what to do..what if i cheat on that boyfriend..or what..is it like wrong not to have boyfriends..becuase i don't think im ready for a relationship..maybe in time but i mean right now im not gunna settle down ..but is it wrong or what?

If ur not readi then ur not readi n dont let that bother u because u should wait which is a very good thing waiting will be good so that way u knw when ur readi n just dont russ urself into having a bf because its not wrong or anything im sure ur parents are happi lol n plus boyfriends most of the time just cause more stress in ur life n trust me u dont wanna get involved in that! Inless ur Readi that is!
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