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I am Travis and i live in KY and i love it. Most of my friends are girls so i always try to help them whenever needed so thats why i decided to join this because i love to help ppl with whatever i can but i really love to help ppl with cutting problems because i have done it so many time for my friends and i want to make a difference for them and help them get over it. I am a very understanding guy!!

advice

ok....i finally broke up with that guy that i was really unhappy with, but now i feel really extremely lonely. right now i don't know what to do about feeling lonely. i go out with friends and i am trying to enjoy the single life, but i'm not. i just want someone new to come around already but it seems like it won't ever happen.

your always going to feel lonely when you break up with someone cause your usually also with that person but you will be fine and enjoy your single life cause there are plenty of fish in the sea

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do guys prefer "down there" shaved or not shaved while fingering? i know ure going to say some guys like this and others like that, but which is more prefered?
thanks.

i perfer it shaved but on the other hand a little hair where it is not long is cool to

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ok well i asked her about it like one of this people toldme to to do but she wants to wait and i dont want to wait! and i have begged and stuff but she wants to wait what should i do?
andi have so much presure like these guys that arae going all the way with there gf and i just want third base!
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hey what ever you do dont push her thats dumb and if you really love her then you dont need to do it you should just be happy to be around her...and you friends should understand that she wants to wait abd if they dont there notyour real friends

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Do guys like girls with small, medium or big boobs. Small, medium, or big, ass? Tall or short? What color hair? And what qualities?

If you really like someone then them things should not matter to you however i guess if i had to make a decision then i would say i like small or medium boobs, round ass, shorter than me and im 5 11', hair dont care and qualities is a good outgoing personality but can be serious when need be i hope i helpped

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hi,
my girlfreind is cutting her wrists and im really worried about her and want her to stop how do i go about telling her and getting her to stop i dont want her to hurt herself.. please ..!!:(:( i love her heaps but i dont want her to be hurting herself...
im male and 14.
thankyou

well ive been through this with someone but if you really dont want her to hurt herself you got to do anything you can for her...start by saying when she feels like doing it call you and you can talk her out of it...then find out why she wants to do it and tell her how much she would be missed if something happens...any futher advice let me no i go through this all the time with people!!

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well i heard today that my ex cheated on his last girlfriend. that really worries me because i have beent here before. i asked him about it and said it wasnt true. i really want to trust him but i have had trust issues with boys since my first boyfriend cause he was abusive and cheated. i really dont wanna go through that pain again and dot know what to do about it! i need seruous help this time!

Tell him that you want the truth from him and if that dont work or he does something to get away from it find out who his ex is and call her and ask then if you find out he's lieing to you then you can either give him another shoot or kick his ass lol well good luck Love ya, (shooting stars) travis

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I feel like I cant talk to my boyfriend anymore..well, i cant stand him. I mean, I love him, but he does the stupidest things and pisses me off all the time, yet he can be soo sweet. Like, he'll call me a tramp one second [[and ya know, say hes kidding and he loves me]], but hes getting me this Ring with our names engraved on it that costs well over $200! [[we picked it out together]]..but just earlier today, he calls me and tells me he deleted the voicemails i left him, so i tell him i would call him back [[since one of the voicemails said i was going to go take a shower and id call him when i was done]] so he flipped and was like, "fine go do whatever" and he hung up on me. An hour later, he tried calling me back, but i was still pissed about him hanging up on me. What should I do now?

i know that you might love him but i would really get rid of him because no girl deserves to be treated like that i mean its ok if you are ok with him saying things like that but when it reaches the point where it bugs you then tell him and if he dont stop leave him but give him a shot to make it up to you GOOD LUCK!!

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i told a guy i like him over 4 days ago and we haven't talked yet! well, we don't talk on the phone becuase we dont have eachothers phone numbers but we talk on aim a lot. i have to talk to him soon because waiting 5 days for something that i wanted to know 5 seconds after i told him. Do you have any ideas about what to do. and i don't want to sound like a stalker. lol

umm lets see here i would just let things go for that time and try to become friends and get to knoe him better because he might be thinking that he really dont know you but he really wants to get to know you!! good luck!!

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okay, to start off, when i see a hot guy on the street, i automatically think "they're hot" and when i see a pretty girl on the street, that NEVER crosses my mind, i just say to myself, "i wish i looked like them, i wish i had their body" etc. but there was this myspace with "i'm horny, fuck me" as the name, and when i looked at her pictures i got horny. they were of a woman's body, lubed up and she was covering her breasts and her vagina. an di watched a video on youtube of a woman dancing and stripping, and it showed her butt. i'm fifteen and female, and i admit to masturbating, and when i masturbate to men i get turned on, but i tested myself and thought about women, and i just got grossed out. could dirty pictures of women just turn me on because i wish i LOOKED like that, or should i question my sexuality, taking everything else i've said in this question into consideration. help please, i rate high.

ok well i dont think that you are really bi but i think that when you masterbate that you think about guys but if you were in person with another girl that you would really enjoy yourself but that really does not mean your bi thats just means that things turn you on

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okay so theres this guy who i really like i mean for the first time im actually in love. i liked him since the begining of the year and we barely EVER talked but i knew he liked me a little so yeah. and about 2 weeks ago he asked me out over myspace and we've only went out for about 7 days then he dumped me to be with another chick. at first when he dumped me i didnt have any feelings but know i feel like dying so bad i mean i really love him ALOT. cuz everytime i talk to him i feel so diferent and its such a great feeling and now being dumped by the guy i really love just hurts so bad. half of me hates himand half of me loves him like crazy. how can i get ovr someone who i love alot and if you can try to give me a great advise ill rate you very high! thx
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my advice is that you need to try to be as good as friends with him as you can becasue if you do that then you dont have to worry about him leaving you then maybe after he see's how good of friends that you are he will realize that he still likes you and ask you back out...atleast thats what i would think but i hope evrything works out!!!

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okay. so im having some trouble. im 15/f and i never have a boyfriend and i mean never. occasionally ill have some random ones pop up but i just never feel anything for him. They all tell me that im their 'little sister' and i just dont get it... I mean, [im not big headed or anything] im not ugly, i actually am very satisfyed with my looks.. i dont get it. like, i am very popular, not because of what i wear, because of how i act... i just dont know how to get and keep a steady bf... any suggestions?

thanks in advance

i am sure that it is not that your not a good person to go out with but you have not had a good person to try to go out with i mean i have went out with two girls that i was there first b/f and it just takes time ...the way it sounds is that your a great looking girl and fun to be with but with the line that your like a little sister is all because your to nice and dont get into fights that ofen i mean i got the line were to good of friends many off times but if you get that take advantage of that and just be friends anyway friends you have forever a b/f you may not ...GOOD LUCK!

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Hi, I really like this guy I used to work with. I've liked him for 3 years now. We used to have a little thing where we looked like we were going out but we weren't. Well he came over the past few nights and it seemed like he really liked me but since those few nights he hasn't called or talked to me. Can anyone tell me what they think about this and whether or not I'm just wasting my time on someone who is using me. What should I do?

i cant really tell if he likes you or not but i would try to give him a call or something because maybe he thinks you dont like him cause you dont ever try to call him or anything... GOOD LUCK!!

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15/F Alright, so I have been dating this guy, ryan, for about 6 months. I can honestly say that I LOVE him. Bu, lately he has been acting distant, strange. I was talking to a girl online and as soon as he found out I was talking to her he made me stop. It's just weird. And This may be a little TMI but the last time we were doing "things" He just stopped and said, "I can't do this." He's never done rhis before, What do you guys think, and any advice on how i may be able to figure out if he is?

well i really dont want to say this but the way it sound he has done something with this other girl and does not want you to find out ... it might not be that he is cheating on you but it might mean that before you two went out he did something with this girl and he afarid what you would do if you found out but my advice is to sit down and talk about it and ask him if he cheated on you or what is going on just let things out and relex... if he did cheat on you give him another shot to get away from that girl and this might be mean but tell him untill he leaves the other girl your not going to do anything with him and then if he dont leave the other girl that your going to leave him...i hope you get everything worked out GOOD LuCK!!!

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14/F
I like this guy from another school he soo awesome were gonna go 2 the movies soon but I donno it werid. I'm pretty sure he likes me. We hung out the entire time @ my schools class trip. All my firends know that I like him and some of the popular girls in my school know too. This kid im sort of firends with was makin fun of me cuz i never made out with anyone so my other firends was like you don't know what happened @ the class trip. He found out it had 2 do with this guy (who he knows) ugh im afraid hes gonna say that I was telling everyone we made out or something, I sent him a txt saying if he tells u anything ignore him but sence everyone know she gonna think im so werid prude kid who tells everyone how obssed I am. Ugh i just donno what 2 do.

well chick lets see dont worry about things like that cause if the guy really likes you then he will not listen to anyone else and believe what you are telling him or maybe he will go along with it... but however dont worry about it guys understand and your not werid but relex everything will work out..i hoped i helped

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14/f. Any advice on making the first move? And building up the courage to do so?
Thanks

well if you really want to make the first move then you must have confidence in yourself and just do it believe me if the mans a guy hes not going back down no guy will just make sure you thinks its the right think and just believe in yourself and have fun!!

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