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hay im adina and im a cheerleader at lewisville high school. i love giving advice so ask me anything!!
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Hi im 14 years old. And on thursday dec.7th i had sex with my boyfriend. We used a condom but it ripped. It had that stuff called spermacide on it. But im not sure if any of his sperm got in me,because there was a not big but a normal sized spot on my sheets. I just got off my period like 3 days before we had sex. Im not having any syptoms that im pregnant but im having little pains once in a while at the bottom of my stomach. Im not only scared that im pregnant but i dont know how to tell me mom && dad. They dont even know im having sex. What is the percent chance that im pregnant? and any other advise will help. Thanx alot. im so scared.
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First of all, chill out. Don't worry so much about it because stress can cause your period to start much later then its supposed to. Second of all, you don't have to tell your parents if you prefer not to. Go to a local clinic that is confidential and get checked and get the morning after pill. You can get it within two days after having unprotected sex(or in your case, ripped condom). Only problem is, you have to pay around fifty dollars for it. If you don't have the money, then you're probably going to have to tell your parents so they can take you to get it. Good luck and i hope i helped. Tell me how things go.
Ok..i like this guy we have been dating for like 2 months, today in fact, but i like this other guy..plus my boyfriend keeps talking to his ex-girlfriends, he says he likes me but i cant help thinking that somethings going on....so should i just leave him and go with another guy or should i stay with him, honestly i think someones going to get hurt either way.
To be honest, I don't think you really trust him. It's really hard to have a relationship when you don't have much trust. And if you're into another guy, I'd say you go single and just date around. That way, you don't have to worry about being loyal and worry about your man having anything to do with other girls behind your back.
I love my boyfriend to death but lately he's kinda I don't know how to say it. He's got this little mustache thingy and his hair needs cut and he doesn't wear cologne. How can I tell him about this without hurting him?
You shouldn't have to hide anything from him. Point in a relationship is that you two are able to open up to each other and be honest. He's your man and you're the one who looks at him, so I would say your opinion matters most. Tell him, you respect his style but really prefer him with shorter hair and a clean face. He'll understand, guys are easier to deal with when it comes to being honest with their looks. He shouldn't take it personal. Now, with the cologne problem, buy him a cologne of your choice and just act like you saw it and really liked the scent so you wanted him to try it out.
is it alright to have a crush on an actor as long as you dont go bananas??? like a small one not too serious??? i feel guilty because i do>>>> sorry that this question is properly punctuated> the shift key has suddenly been deactivated
:) hollis
hahaha of course it is. it's not like you're going to go rape them or anything. a lot of people have major crushes on celebrities which is totally normal. there are just some really good looking people at there, and you can't help it if one of them happens to be a celebrity. don't feel guilty.. you're just being like every other normal female!
Hey im 14 and i really enjoy having girl friends not just for the kissing and stuff(dont get me wrong i think its nice) just for someone to like alot and talk to alot and do stuf with! What are some ways to get someone???
well when you meet girls, make sure you look at the things you normally wouldn't look at.. as in personality. comment on how great her personality is, instead of how hott she is. that'll get her going and let her know you're interested in who she is. just make sure you let a girl know you like her for the right reasons, and i'm sure she'll like you for the right reasons too.
i really really like this guy, so how do i get him to ask me out??
you can't really get a guy to ask you out, but if you tell him you like him, then that's giving him a hint that you are available! if he likes you and knows you like him, there's a possiblity that he may ask you out! just don't hide how you are feeling or make him think you don't like him(don't play hard to get, guys hate that).
There's this guy that I really like, we'll call him David. Anyway, David knows I like him, and he says he likes me too. But, he also says that he wants to wait to ask me out, till he gets to know me better. Anyway, he kissed me the other night, and I'm afraid it's going to turn into a friends with benefits relationship, which I don't want at all, but I have no self control around him, I can't help from kissing him back. How do I get him to ask me out sooner?
a kiss doesn't necessarily mean he wants your benefits. a kiss is just one of those ways to help one another realize they are interested. if ya'll keep kissing and nothing between ya'll has happened, then maybe he does want your benefits. talk to him and tell him how you feel! be careful what you say, because he can ask you out and go out with you for your benefits. don't make it seem that easy. i say you stop kissing him and wait to see if something happens. if it happens then it's meant to be, and he really is interested in you for who you are, but if nothing happens then he obviously only wanted your benefits.
I like two guys who are really awesome. I haven't been too close to either one of them yet, but I still don't want to like two guys in case on of them asks me out. I'll call the two guys Ben and Caleb. Ben has always been really nice to me and teases me playfully. Caleb sometimes has been mean to me but never teases me at all. Ben has actually talked to me and he's really cute, while Caleb has ignored me when his friends were around but has smiled at me when no one was looking. I want to give Caleb a chance because he might be nicer if he knows I like him, and Ben already knows I like him and has always been sweet. Any suggestions?
i say you go for ben, because it seems like you have a better chance with him, since he already knows you like him! caleb on the other hand, i don't think you should go for. if he has ignores you around his friends, that is not a good sign. just find out how ben feels about you, and if he doesn't feel anything for you, then you can go to caleb. just do what your heart tells you to, cause no one else can give you a real answer for this problem.
ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for a really long time and im soo in love with him and he says hes so in love with me, but lately he has been acting a lot different to me and he says he is just stressed out about everything like school and stuff but i know its more. then last thursday to friday he was with his friend chase the whole time and literally called me 1 time out of two days and that 1 time lasted like 5 seconds like he didnt have any time for me at all. then friday night i dont talk to him like all night and the next morning he calls me and says he has cheated on me! that he didnt mean to do it his friends kept pressuring him and he was so sorry. he was literally like balling to me n the phone. now i really dont know what to do.. im so confused. im still so in love with him though and he says he wants to be together so bad. he doesnt know what he was thinkning and that his friends kept bugging him to do it. he calls me all the time now and says those friends that made him doo it( i know friends cant make you do anything ) but he said those people are not his friends anymore and he will never talk to them again and the girl he cheated on me with hates him. and i still really want to be with him, and i know thats really stupid.. but its true! can you please help me out and give me so advice.
you can't help that you want to get back together with him. you do love him after all right? well, you are right, friends can't make you do anything! if you truly don't want to do something they are forcing you to do, you will have the guts to say no. have ya'll been going through alot of problems lately? well, it's normal to go through problems in a relationship but if it's been going on for a long time and very often then that isn't normal. being cheated on hurts and some girls don't ever go back out with a guy after him doing that to her, even if it was an "accident". (you can't ever cheat on someone on "accident"). it's up to you if you give him one more chance, or if you don't. if you do, make sure he doesn't do it again, and if he does then i honestly don't think ya'll should be together. anyone can make anything work, it just takes effort and honesty. do you still trust him? trust is a big thing in a relationship so make sure he gets it back!
well see the thing is that me n my girl have been together for a long time and lately i havent been to happen. lik when i am with her i have fun most of the time but when im not with her im just not happen. i dont really know what to do any more. i have just been going with the flow of things for about a week now. and i do love her. its just that most of the time im not happen and things are just so hard and im gettin tired of things please help me! i rate high!
just keep going with the flow.. things don't happen in a day. it takes a while and you just have to keep doing your thing until you see what happens. if you have fun when you are with her, then that's really good, thats a sign that ya'll should be together! what makes you unhappy when you aren't with her? maybe you are just stressed out and she helps you keep your mind off of things when you are with her. just talk to her about how you feel because maybe she is feeling the same way? don't hide anything from her because you should let her know how you feel. and let her know what's making you unhappy when you aren't with her and she can probably do something about it.
Ok. So i met this kid at a show and we barely talked. But then he came over my friends house with my friend's boyfriend. He's basically really cool to me. Hes totally comfortable to do anything in front of people and is crazy and fun but calm at the same time. He's really nice also. Toward the middle of the night, My legs were over his lap and things like that. But toward the end of the night. But toward the end of the night I was laying on his chest and his arm was across my back/neck. Him and I apperently acorrding to our friends looked really cute together and we were like ok whatever. They wanted us to kiss but it was our first time acutally meeting so yea.
To get to the point..I think I like him but I'm not sure. I want to get to know him better but what if he ends up going out with someone else????
gosh there is nothing to worry about. it sounds like BOTH of you are into each other.. the only problem is, one of ya'll has to make a move! if you want something to happen between ya'll before any girl can interfer with ya'lls bond, i say you be the one to speak up. let him know that you like him and see what he says! stuff happens when you speak up.. so don't keep feelings inside!
well my b/f and i have been together for about 7 months now and we are doing really good although sumtimes i think that it is too good to be true. i have been hurt before and i just dont want to get hurt again. we spend alot of time together and we cant imagine ourselfs with anyone else.
you shouldn't think like that, because what's the point in having a relationship when all your worried about is it ending. enjoy the presence and don't worry about the future. not all great experiences end the way you want it to, but it's the memories and lessons you learned and made along the way that count. i admit, i feel that way with my boyfriend, but just have confidence in your relationship. if it's really meant to be.. it'll never end.
okay... me and this guy... i dont know if were "talking" or anything.. we have made out like.. 50 times.. and he calls me everyday.. but.. then the next day he comes and tells me about how hot the girls at his new school are and how everyone knows him and missed him.. and all this stuff... the other night.. his friend was talking to him.. and i was sitting right there.. and his friend was like.. " i can hook you up with any girl you want.. " and he was like.. "na man.. i dont need help.. they already love me" and his school is known for having the prettiest girls in katy... so.. i dont know what to do? please help.. i will give you 5's
he sounds like a player to me. he obviously only wants your benefits, and i suggest you comfront him about it! don't let guys treat you like that because you are worth a whole lot more than that. find a real guy who treats a girl with respect, because this one doesn't.
I am 13 and a girl. i like a boy and he is my friend and we went out and then he dumped me 3days later and he still liked me or thats what he said. now i like him again but he is going out with some girl who i dont no! what do i do to get him back?
don't try to end something someone has just to make yourself happy. he's obviously moved on, and you should too. meet more guys and hang out with your friends. don't force yourself to be in a relationship because being single isn't all that bad! enjoy it while your young!
I reallllllllly like this guy.. and he and I went out before.. and yeah we hooked up in eveyrthing.. but i regret it tootally!!!! and thenw e broke up after about a week :( and then he and I kept talkign and stuff and were realllly tight.. but now we like never talk.. and he acts as if he hates me or something.. but deep inside of ME I really want him back!! is there anything I can do to make him want me again?
i hate to tell you, but there is absolutely nothing you can do to get him back if he doesn't like you anymore. sometimes you just have to move on it if it isn't meant to be. ya'll did break up for a reason right? you probably feel you need to have him back because you want someone there for you, but he doesn't have to be the one to do that. you can find a billion more guys who can do that for you, but be careful who you choose!
There's this kid, Sam* and he was dumped by my best friend, Katie* in February.. Sam is the nicest kid you will ever meet..and Katie I think is just boy crazy. Well anyway, Sam and Katie went out for over 2 years on and off. Sam lives about 2 hours away though. Well this real jerk starting going out with Katie and she doesnt like him and is actually kind of attached to Sam still..but Katie wants him to dump her, because she doesnt have the heart to dump him..so my job is to try to make him break up with her..and its all confusing..but any suggestions?
Sorry Its long
if she had the courage to break up with her boyfriend of two years, i'm pretty sure she has the courage to dump her boyfriend now. if she doesn't, she obviously has strong feelings for him. she should break up with him, because if she doesn't, it isn't fair to the boyfriend she is going out with now. don't try to find a way to get her boyfriend to break up with her, because that is just a waste of time. she should just do it herself.
hey adina this is brittany and i really need your help i mean me an my boyfrind have been dating for a little over 9 months and i mean he all ed me up last sunday and was crying on the phone saying that he doesnt know if he loves me anymore an that i need to give him a wekk soo i did and i dont think that he is coming back but i dont ko what to do i mean i really love himand he told me evernight that he loved me and that he had never loved someone soo much as he does me and i dont understand how it could change like this over night and my world has crushed he use to say all those sweet thingd like you and casey say and do all the things youand casey do and i just want him baxk everyone things that he and i are meant to be but i hate that sayign if it meant to be let it go and it will come back but i don want to i am heart broken and ilove him i have never loved someone soo much, he helped me out ofthe deppression that i was in after the whole cheerleading thing and he help me to stop somethigns and i really tryuley love my teddy bear.....how do i get my teddy bear back!! please help me i am asking you to...
true love doesn't end over night like that. if he truly loved you, it would be impossible to stop loving you over night. maybe something has gotten in the way of his love for you, or maybe he's busy and hasn't had much time for you. maybe he isn't telling you the whole truth, but maybe he is. you just have to wait to see what happens, and if what happens isn't want you want, you have to move on. it's going to be hard, but you can't force someone to love you if they don't anymore.
this guy we said we would be friends but at times hes really firty with me and acts like he likes me. he will call me and stuff but then the nexy day he will be different and not call me or talk much to me. what does this mean? i really like this guy i think my age is what bothers him the most i am 3 years younger than him but age isnt everything. what do i do? i rate high.
age is nothing but a number, and if he doesn't realize that, he is worthless. he should know that it's inside that counts! he is probably afraid of what others think. it all depends if he is sweet and flirty with you when no one is around or when there is people around. you should talk to him about the situation, and if he isn't supportive about it, let it be and move on.
ok well here is the deal. Im a freshman and i have been going out with a senior for two days now. but i decided to break up with him today because i felt like we had no chemistry. but i still like him and i was wondering if you think i should talk to him about wanting to go back out with him when we get back to school on monday or just stay his friend?i rate!!
that isn't right.. you don't break up with someone then go after them again asking for another chance. just move on.. if it didn't work out the first time, it probably won't work out the second time. plus two days isn't enough to really have anything for him, so it shouldn't be that hard. you will find other guys, just don't make the mistake you did with the last relationship.
see here is the thing!i like this guy named chad but my friend taryn liked/likes him, and i know he used to like her but he told me he didn't anymore and now i like him. he even invited me to one of his baseall games and everthing should i go and continue likeing him or wat?
never go after your friends guys! that's a big no no, especially if you want to keep what you have with your buddy. a friend taking your crush is a big heart break, and you really don't want to do that to her! chad may leave you for someone else he likes just like he did with taryn. put yourself in her shoes, and you'll realize that taking her guy is a big mistake. it'll be okay if she is totally over him and has a new interest, so just keep in touch! let him know you don't think it's right to start anything with him at the moment, and respect if he doesn't agree. it'll just show he isn't worth it, and trust me, you will find better guys in the future.