Hi, i`m Kayla. I do my best at giving advice. I love to answer love life questions. I know alot about that because i`ve been through alot. Feel free to ask meh anything. I`ll be here to answer it as well as i can.
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Theres this girl I really like. Ive known her since I was about 11. Im nearly 16. I want to ask her out on a date. My real question is simply how do I melt her heart, what words do you suggest I can say that will melt her heart. Also what body language should I use to tell her that Im interested. Im a brit. Thanks alot. I rate 5's for great advice. (link)
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ok. This is a hard one, but i`ll do my best. Tell her she is beautiful or gorgeous, not hott, fine or sexy. Hold her hand at any moment even if it just for a second. Kiss her on the forehead. Recognize the small things . . . they usally mean the most. Pick her over all the other girls you hang out with. Play with her hair. Tell her funny jokes, tell her stupid jokes, just tell her jokes. Treate her the same around your friends as you do when your alone. {not joking} Look her in the eyes and smile. Laugh at her jokes, no matter how stupid they are. Like her for her, don`t expect her to be perfect. Body language. Don`t be sloppy, girls don`t like sloppy guys. Sit up straight and be polite. Put your arm around her. >if you want to hold her hand< Well i hope i helped. Best of luck
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i've liked this guy for 2 months.. a few weeks ago, i found out that one of my best friends likes him again [ they went out in the beginning of the year ]... he likes her. this girl always gets who she wants, and i don't know why, she dumps everyone she goes out with after she gets bored with them. i really like this guy but he likes her. is there anything i can do to make him see me and not her?
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You can`t throw yourself at him, but you can try and just talk to him more. Show him how nice of a person you are, and how sweet you can be. Show him that your friend is not the only girl on the earth. Hint to him that you like him and maybe he will catch on. Best of luckk =]
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Alright.. I really like guy1 I mean really.. he is like my best friend also.. he has liked me before but we never went out.. me and guy1 don't even hardly talk anymore tho..and there is guy2 he's really sweet i uste to like him i probably would start likein him again, but he's not really a person that is popular and he asked me out last night but i don't know if i should.. what should i do wait for guy1 that i really like or forget about the guy1 and wait and see if i start like guy2? (link)
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i think you should wait it out. see what happens. i`m sure you would much rather be with guy1. so just wait a little bit. and eventually he should come around. best of luck =]
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when people usually go on a date to like the movies, does the guy usually pick the girl up? or can they just meet there (link)
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dear dating,
my friend said that he`d rather pick the girl up and also pay for her. =]
hope i helpeddd ^-^
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hey, well on may 27th that will be a month for me and my boyfriend. we ALWAYS talk in school. together we are very romantic and flirtasious. but out of school i only talk to him online. we NEVER go out anywhere and weve only talked on the phone once and it was for 15 minutes. this weekend he is grounded so he cant go online. i havent talked to my boyfriend since friday. we didnt have school today where i am because we got this bad storm and everything was flooded. so if today is monday and i havent talked to him since friday that means thats 2 day without speaking to him. the floods are still pretty bad and we might not have school tommorow either. what should i do? p.s the fact that he is grounded isnt stopping us from speaking because even when hes not in toruble we dont speak either. cait♥ (link)
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well. how can you have a real relationship with someone if you never do anything together. yall need to go out one night or hang at each others house, it`s not healthy yo only see your boyfriend or girlfriend just at school. best of luckk =]
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i am 16 and my boyfriend has been talking about getting married he said he was going to ask me to marry him soon...how do you guys feel about teenage marriage? and why do you feel this way? i need ohter teens advice! thanks xox (link)
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dear teenage marriage,
i feel that you need to finish school first, cause getting married is going to ruin the rest of your high school career.
you`re only 16, you have a life to live, you don`t need to be making any commitments this young.
best of luckk =]
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okay so i have this shirt and i am having ppl sign it for the end of the year well my ex b/f keeps wanting to sign it so i finally let him and he said "ass" so i changed it to "ask" well after my last period at school he was waiting outside my door for me and he asked me how i liked what he wrote i said i liked it but i changed it to "ask" then he was like well let me wright something nice on it so i let him it said "fuck u" and he was laughing well then i changed it to "have fun u" and now he wants to change it again he is even trying to get inside my pockets to get the marker is this a sign that he likes me still (he was the one that dumped me) (link)
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it`s just signs of him being and asshole. don`t take his shit. thats what he`s trying to get you to think. then he`s going to break your heart. don`t get your hopes up hun. best of luck =]
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what turns a guy on or makes them think your hot?...in a non slutty way. How can you get a guy to want you easily?
true experts needed! (link)
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ok. i asked my guy friend and his replys were.
1. when they play with his hair.
2. when they cuddle with him.
3. when you give him little hints that you like him, but dont be stuck up his but. like leave him some slack, dont let him think you obsessed.
4. when he can just sit there and look in you eyes and admire you.
5. when you are sweet.
ok mhm thts all he gave meh.
best of luckkk =]
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My boyfriend is going to another country to be with his family. We've been together for just 4 months and i don't know if our relationship's worth keeping or not.
Please help me!
P.S.
I'm fifteen years old, by the way. (link)
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dear another country..
the only thing i can tell you is you can`t really rely on what other people have to say to you about this one. we don`t know how you feel for him. (do you love him?) and if so, is the love strong enough for yall to stay together? then you also have to think will you beable to really go with out seeing him? hope i helped =]
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I really am Inlove with my ex. I broke up with him about 2 weeks ago. I was going through a really hard time and I kno I made a really big mistake. This girl that is suposed to be my friend is trying to go for him but Im trying to fix things with him. I really do love him and I just want to be with him. What should I do?
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you should tell him, tell him about the hard times (it will let him kno you really care for him) tell him you didn`t mean to do it. don`t give up. best of luck =]
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Okay so, when my boyfriend & I are together (which is like 3 days out of the week or more) we get along perfectly fine.. but the days we aren't together & we are talking on the phone or internet, we always argue about something, normally over something stupid. And either me or him is always in a blah mood. It's totally different when we are together though.. we're very happy and don't argue one bit.. and can't stand a minute apart from each other, everyone says how happy we are. We love each other.. but we dont get this. (link)
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the reason yall argue is because yall miss each other. its normal. don`t worry. it will get better tho. best of luckk =]
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i have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half now & i want to do some things to make him see how much i love him..ive done the writting notes and stuff but i would love if someone could give me ideas on sweet things i could do that dont cost any money that will show him that i care and that he will love (link)
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-make a coliage of pictures of you two.
-make him a little scrap book.
-call him just to tell him how much you love/miss him.
-invite him over to watch a movie just to cuddle.
-kiss him on his fore head >guys like that too<
best of lucck =]
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Its a long story but I'll just ask my question.
this guy I liked told me that he used to like me, but he talks to me about the girl he likes now and asks me if she likes him, well when he told me he used to like me I almost said something. but then he said "but then I thought that could never happen" AND YES IT DEF. COULD!! so what can I do OTHER than the obvious, which is telling him how I feel, which I will do if worst comes to worst.
THANKS! (link)
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chances are he feels the same for you. (what if the "girl" he is asking you advice about is you? have you ever thought about that? i`m sure he still likes you if he told you he used to. i think the best thing you can do is talk to him about it. don`t come right out and tell him everything. do it slowly. make him ask, make him wonder what you want to tell him. start talking about it one day, then kinda leave it alone so he can go the rest of the day wondering.. wanting to talk to you. best of luckk =D
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Ok so there's this guy... well I went out with him twice and broke up with him both times.. the first because it felt really weird going out with him and I was young so I don't think I was ready for a BF. The second time he took it too fast but I never stopped liking him. I still like him- a lot- now and I had one of my friends ask him out for me but he said the third time is NOT the charm. We act really friendly and we hug a lot but its still hard knowing that we aren't going out. I think he said no because he didn't want me to hurt him again... Please help! (link)
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this must be hard. ok. the best thing i can tell you to do, is just kinda hold back, give him hugs and stuff, but don`t try so hard. "play hard to get" it always works. if he has went out with you 2 times, he obviously likes you, and i`m sure he still does. he`s just probably scared that you might break up wit him again. so just kinda lay back. and he should eventually come around. best of lucck =]
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Hi. I'm a 15 year old guy and i like this girl alot..we are very close friends but i want to be more with her....the problem is she has a boyfriend that she rarely sees and he isnt a "good egg"...and i would like to send her the link to the song broken by seether..if you think it would be a good idea let me know..and we went out 2 times already but it was 2 years ago and i tried to move on but i cant get over her...Tell me what you think...Thanks (link)
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ok. things like this are really hard. because i know exactly how you feel. i think you should send he the link. then it will probably hit her like wow, he really does care about me and like me. wow he treats me better then my boyfriend. best of luck =] hope it works out.
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this may sound dumb, but i have a crush on this kid that i never meet. I see him everywhere and we kind of exchange looks, but i dont know if he notices me or i just want him to. He friends with a few of my friends, but how can i talk to him without making an akward, or embarissing situation? (link)
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ok. the best thing for you to do is if he is somewhere and you are also there and he is hanging out with people you know, go up to the people you know and start talking to him where he can hear you so he can think your a cool girl, then turn slowly and act like you don`t see him and be like ooh hi i`m (your name) i`ve never met you before. thats what i would do, then it should slowly evolve from there. best of lucck. =]
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i feel like love doesnt work for me. i've went out with alotta guys this year but i feel like none of them are rght for me and i think im about to give up? i need sum advice of how to be better in relationships that way i wont give up on boys so easily
i rate high! (link)
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don`t give up. the guy you will fall in love with will come sooner or laterr.. just because you haven`t fallen completely in love dosn`t mean give up. just take your time and don`t fall to fast. take it slow. best of luck =]
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at the beginning of this year i met a guy. this guy is 4 years older then me but he liked me, a lot. we never talked and he made me nervous. 4 months went by and i had big feelings for this kid. around christmas time we spent a week together. i fell in love with him, i honestly did. once we got back from christmas break, he moved, never said bye to me or anything. he just got up and moved. i was heart broken and it was really hard to get over him. he will have been gone for 4 months on may 19. i just got over him, not thinking about him every day. then the yearbook came out and seeing his senior pictures in the yearbook killed me. it brought back all my old feelings and memories. i thought i hated him for doing this to me, but now i cry again over him. how do i get over him.... after i thought i already had... will it always hurt this much... (link)
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i can say that it is the hardest thing to try to get over someone if you are in love. but if you talk to other guys and start going out and having fun. eventually he will get off you mind. i mean you will always remember him. (esp. if he`s your first love), but just try your best. cause i kno exactly what its like, and its not easy. best of luckk =]
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