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I have been best friend's with a boy for two whole years. he always makes me laugh and we always have a good time. He broke up with his girlfriend in October. since then she has not left him alone shes basically like a stalker. and because there not dating she takes it out on me, calls, IM's, and talks a lot of things behind my back. She told people she wanted to kill me and that she wanted to hang my dog, now thats just immature. i am sixteen and she is fifteen and im not the least bit intimidated. Today as i walked by in school she yelled shit at me and now im just frustrated i tryed being nice and telling her i dont like him like that but i shouldnt have to explain myself or be nice to somone whose arrogant. I am not a fighter, but i honestly believe the only way to gain respect from her is to hit her. The only thing that is holding me back is im an honor roll student, im one of those kids that cares about school and hates missing it.. stupid i know. I dont want to go tell a conselour or anything, because things like that always get worse, because my friends have been through it. I just need some advice on how to approach this girl, and what exactly i should do to avoid getting hit back. i really need your help, thankyou (link)
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Hey. Well first fighting is no way to solve it. You never know, this girl might be trying to get you to hit her so she can press charges or something. You should have a talk with you best friend and have him try and talk to her to get her to leave you alone. What she is doing is harassment. You should tell an adult because saying she wants to kill you and hang your dog is illegal. Stalking is illegal too. You should talk to your best friend to see if he can get her to stop, then maybe threaten calling the cops on her for harassment and if that doesnt work then really get the cops involved. With you being nice to her shes not taking how frustrated you are with her seriously. -helen
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Last semester for me wasn't really well for me. I was without the person that I truly cared for and obviously missed. I know he has a g/f and I understand that and i KNOW he has a j.o.b. But, when i asked him about it some months ago, he said he was just being a guy b/c that's what guys do.And yeah, I called him my x,x b/f's b_____, but we've talked since then and we seem fine. But I don't get it, you know. How can you be friends with someone for nine months and tell them that they're your friend and that you love them, and totally ignore them for the next 3 months? How, why, and how do I deal with this? I'm ready to let go, and believe me I will for my sanity, but I don't want to. Why is he doing this?
Also, the same guy hooked me up with his friend? Why? Anyway, we went out for 5 months.And he ended up cheating on me with his x g/f. And I feel so screwed up now. I mean, I find myself thinking about him daily and this was like 5 months ago. I don't feel really passionately about him but for some reason I can't get rid of him in my mind and it bothers me so much. My x,x, b/f's friend (the one I'm having problems with) tells me that my x,x b/f wants me back. But he hasn't asked me b/c I look too mean. I don't know what I would do if he asked me out again.
I'm so lonely and desperate. My social life hasn't been that great and my life at home sucked so much. But I was fine as long as I had...as long as I had them. And,now they're gone and I feel so screwed when I usually am strong enough to deal w/ stuff like this. So, why does it hurt so much and how do I let go? (link)
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ok well first off .. once a cheater always a cheater. move on dont even deal with his s**t. hes not worth it if hes putting you through hell. if your lifes not that great dont let him add extra stress
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im not quite sure how to explain this but ill try .. see two of my best friends whom i LOVE to death are great.. we always have funn. But when all three of us are together, they act different and i dont like it, so how do i bring this up to them and what do i do? i NEED to let this out because im sick of trying to be nice and hiding how i really feel because by doing this im letting them walk all over me, and if i dont hide how i feel, then i turn into a bitch again.. theres no really RIGHT way to do this.. somethings gonna end up bad and someones gonna end up mad at me.. what do i do??? (link)
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you should talk to them both privately and tell them that this is bothering you and that you feel as if they are walking all over you make sure you are doing it seperatly with each of them or they could gang up on you. make sure that at the beginning of the conversation you tell them to let you finish before they interupt or you will never finish what you need to say. write it down first it will be easier to say. =]
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so yeah, this os probably going to end up being really long so you can just leave now if you want...so yeah, some little background.
...so up untill like the beginning of this year (senior year of highschool) i have always been reeeaalllly shy. i only had a few best friends (granted, they were mostly girls) but no one that ever LIKED me. then, as soon as i hit senior year, i changed, a LOT. its like my whole outlook on life changed completely, i figured that this is my last year in highschool so i might as well go all out. ive gotten really involved in school clubs and all that, im a LOT more confident, ican actually talk to my peers without being too shy...and i think people are starting to notice it...so far this year ive had three girlfriends, and ive flirted (which i NEVER did before) with tons of other girls...so now i have my girlfriend of three months nd i KNOW im not gonna leave her, i love her to death....but at my work (i work for a city park so i only have 7 coworkers, including my boss) but yeah, at my work theres these two girls that i talk to more than any others, and i flirt with them like crazy....their both kinda cute, but i couldnt really see myself going out with one of them...but the other one...thats where the confusion starts. so yeah, me and this girl flirt more than anyone else, including my girlfriend...it gets really bad. i know im not going to leave my girlfriend for this girl, but id still like to get to know this girl better and see what happens with that...is that normal? i mean me and this girl really kinda just "clicked" nd it seems to me that she really likes me. she knows that i have a gf, but shes always sayin that that doesnt matter. so the question i pose to anyone willing to answer...is it incredibly wrong to flirt with this girl? i KNOW that theyll never meet eachother because the ONLY way theyd meet eachother is through me, and im not about to let that happen...so is it okay that i keep flirting with the other girl? what should i do? keep in mind id like to hear arguments for both sides, to keep flirting with and to stop....so yeah, thank you sooo much in advance... (link)
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im going to be honest .. i flirt with guys even though i have a boyfriend but we go to different schools and i feel like i need male attention but the other part of that is that the boys i flirt with dont mean ANYTHING to me .. i think that it is alright to flirt as long as both of you dont want anything except the flirting. if you care about this girl and you like her than it isnt fair to your girlfriend and you need to choose. if it harmless flirting than dont worry about it .. its not that big of a deal because you are her boyfriend and you love her.
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hey every one im 16/m
well i wonted to know how can i stop a girl from likeing me i have tryed every thing from acting stupid but its not working at all she follows me to class every day and i dont wont to be mean but i dont wont her by me at all but tha bad thing about it is she wont say nothing at all all she will do is wave so i dont kno can some one plz tell me what to do (link)
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just be forward and tell her that although she is nice and you like her as a friend you have romantic feeling for another girl (even if thats a lie) keep me posted -helen
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hey!!! I need help!!!! There is this guy I like at school. He is really cute, sweet and funny. Everything that a girl wants right. Well here is the problem... he is a popular jock and I am popular but not like him. But here is the thing.. I think that he likes but he wont admit it. I have tried everything to clue him in that I like him. What should I do??? PLEASE HELP!!!
*thank you so much in advance* (link)
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do you have any mutual friends? because if you do then you could make plans with all of you to go out sometime and when your out try to get some alone time with him and tell him you like him. its better to tell him than to wonder.
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Im going into my sophmore year of High School, and for some reason, this past year I have been getting really harassing phone calls/voicemails, messages on myspace, and IM's from screen names I dont know. I never did anything to deserve it, but people keep calling me a slut and a whore. I dont understand why they are calling me that, and I dont know how to stop it. Its so unfair :( (link)
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im not trying to be mean or anything but did u do anything to someone that would make them want to hurt you .. i mean maybe u didnt know how bad somehthing you did would hurt someone .. everyone reacts differently and maybe you would react differently than this person. it sucks that they feel they need to harrass you .. but just think back .. if you think of a person .. confront them .. it might make things easier
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