Well i need help fitting in at my school. I dont have the kind of popularity like the other kids do. So if you can help me to fit in please help!!!
Well I mean its alwyas hard to fit in. I was the same way really. I think mabye you should join a club or an afterschool activity you really like. You will eventually make friends there because you have things in common. Hope I helped
Bianca
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well i like this guy at my school. Last year he used to be soooooooooooo annoying but this year i think he's really cute! but i cant tell if he likes me!!! plz help!
here's some signs that he might like me...........................
1. he always talks to me
2.he asked me to sit on his lap (being me i said no)
3. really nice to me
4. he usually goes out of his way just to talk to me ( like one time he was late for class because he was talking to me)
-sammy
Well it sounds like a crush to me. You should try to flirt a little. See how he responds. Get to konw him a little better so if yall go out you have something to start with. Make shure you like him thogh! And make shure he doesnt have a gf because he could just be being nice. Good Luck
Bianca
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I'm thinking of going to a new school next year. I don't want to leave my friends. This new school has more opportunities for me, though. I can't decide. Please help!!!
Well friends are always gonna be there with you if there really friends. So go to this school. Your friend scant help you get a better education though. But this school can. So kit w/ your friends but go to the school becase you could be missing out on so much.I hope I helped
Bianca
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hi there, me again, the guy i slept with, we have spoken but nothing about what had happened, this was like, last week sometime, and his sister has invited me to a party, where i know he will be ther, do i go or not? tell me as it is tonight
thank xx
Well if this guy you slept with is there and he wont talk to you then let it be. But dont let him ruin your time bc you can still have fun without him. So go have fun!!!
Bianca
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ok i really like this guy and we talk online and stuff and we used 2 talk all the time in school and stuff but since schools over i never see him! my friend told him that i like him and he started flirting more and stuff but i dont know if he thought my friend was joking or something. i know i should tell him myself, but whats a good way of telling him without him like freaking out haha. please help cause i need to tell him soon cause i really want him to hear it from me! thanx!
Thats tough. Well since you flirt, put it in a conversation. Like be so in school we should of hooked up and see what he says. Or be like theres something about you I rwally like. Or just straight tell him you like him. I hope I helped
Bianca
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Sometimes I feel like I'm being really rude to people, but I never know. When I say hello, it's kind of under my breath but I smile and I wave to whoever said hello to me. Sometimes someone will say hello when I'm out biking and I'm not sure if someone said hello to me or to someone else on the street, so I only turn and smile. I realized this at the supermarket when someone I didn't like too much said hi to me, and I said hi under my breath and gave a little wave. They moved by quickly, so it looked like I was waving over my shoulder. I want to seem less rude, but how? Am I even being rude?
Its not being rude. Its probly just that hyour shy. theres nothing wrong with that. I mean you dont hae to say hello to everyone you see bc thats just overdramatic. If someone says hey dont be shy and just say hey back bc theres nothing wrong with that. And if you feel like saying hello tosomeone and they dont say it back doesnt mean there rude either. Hope I helped
Bianca
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I have a friend Luke, and I really like him. As in more than a friend. His girlfriend is a really good friend of mine, and his ex is my best friend. Only one person knows that i like Luke, and thats one of my friends. Im scared that if i tell him i like him, we wont be friends anymore, and if i tell his girlfriend that i like him, there will be a cat fight or something. But his girlfriend does LOVE him, she just likes him kinda. All his girlfriends have been asian, and one of his friends said that he liked asian chicks since he was small. The problem is, im not asian. So i doubt that he will ever like me. But i REALLY like him. Please help!!!
Well I had that problem. My bestfriend was dating the boy I was obsessed with but she didnt know. I got in the middle of it. I told his mom I likd him so she told him. I thought he only dated americans. So he was talking to me and his gf (my bf) found out and we stopped being friends. Then she broke up with him. So we dated for 3 days. He still felt for his ex so he broke up with me to go back out with her. So ive learned to not interfear bc if I would of waitied for them to break up naturally I would of had a better shot. So just put urself in her shoes.. would you like her to interfear?? I wouldnt
I hope I helped you
Bianca
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Hey! Im only 13 yr's old..my mom messed up in the past and its taking college classes to get a good job, and my dad has a disease and so he cant work that often. My parents are also divorced...so My family doesnt have to much money. It sux having to much money..so I was wondering, are there ne jobs out there for 13 yr olds ( I am mature ) besides babysitting?
I do rate very high and send feedback..but i rly need help!!!
Thanx!!!
Thats a good question. But unfortunatly not very good ones. U usually have to wait until you are 14. But you van moe lawns. Bake stuff and sell it. rake yards hold fundraisers or even have a garage sale. ect. But not in a professional place. Hope I helped and good luck with your family. Just remember to stay strong and never give up. Its so nice that you are triing to help out.
Bianca
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a while ago this guy that i used to like found out that i liked him and he said that to him he just considers me as a good friend and he said that he liked this other girl.(shes in my p.e. class) now he ignores me and avoids me like if i'm invisible. well once in a while he'll say hi. so i decided to move on since he probably isn't the one for me and when i see him flirting with other girls it gets me upset. like today he asked the girl(the one he likes) out and she said yes. and it just gets me depressed. right when i think i'm over him he pops up in my head and i get really upset. what should i do? how can i get over it?
Listen I had the same exact problem. But the boy I liked would try to do stuff with me but then go to another chick. Yor going to have to try and move on. If the love is true, hell come to you! I moved on and now i am way better bc now I have a great boyfriend and the other boy tries to flirt and he knows he cant ne more and HES JEALOUS so try and move on bc I bet there are other better people looking at you and feel the same way towards you.!!!!
I hope I really helped you and if you need more help Wb
always,
BiAnCa
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I have this in school and I would consider her one of my best friends. She has a boyfriend and I really like her boyfriend. I don't know what to do. I have asked some of my friends that don't know her but they tell me the same thing, don't do anything. I wouldn't want to lose her as a friend so I won't do anything. But know what if they break up and he likes me? do I go out with my best friends ex-boyfriend??
thanx
Last summer I went through a problem just like that.... Its long so scroll down to the last paragraph if you just want an answer and not a story!!!lmao
I went to my bff bday party and my friend was totally checking out my bfs bro. So I got them hooked up. Even though later that night I was gonna holla at him. But I always put my friends befor me. But I became insainly jealouse of there relationship and started having him over everyday during summer. Finally they broke up. Like 2 days later we started gonig out. After 3 days he was a coward and got his friend to break up with me. I didnt really care. But I lost my bff bc i went out w/ her bro. my other feriend and a bf in one summer.....
If I could go back I would. But now they go back out and I couldnt be happier for them. And all of us are friends again.
What Im trien to say is dont interfear if he likes you that much then he would go for you.
sorry solong I hope I helped!!!
Bianca
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theres this one guy in my drama class that i used to like but then hes always talking or bothering me after or during class. how do i get him to stop? ignoring him doesn't seem to help...
Well mabye he likes you too. You need to try and talk to him and see what is going on...
hope I helped
Bianca
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if you have snymore questions you can e-mail me at queenbianca2004yahoo.com
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Hey..I wanna call my ex bf and ask him to hang out..like go to a movie or something. Hes a nice guy and hes single..he flirted with me last year..when i call him what should i say? im pretty sure he wont turn me down..so im confident..just start me off? lol thanks
Well Me and my bf broke up too but I still call him. He and I still talk to eachoter. I just say hey wanna hang out? I mean he dont come over ne more bc I never call. But say I know me and u are just friends....
well just call as friends. rate me
Bianca
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soemone asked me to make a salute for them, how do i do that? what the heck is it?
sorry no clue!!
Bianca
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Ok...this might take awhile. I'll try to make it as unbiased as possible.
I know this girl from school named Bry*. I am not a close friend of hers, I just occasionally talked to her in the mornings. I knew she talked about this guy, Blake*, that she liked. I didn't know his age, what he looked like, or anything.
But some friends and I saw Bry at the movies and she introduced us to Blake. I didn't remember any of this--until I met Blake.
We got along really well and all, and he asked me out. We only knew each other on the net and had met each other once beforehand. We really liked each other so we're a couple now.
News spreads fast, apparently, because the day we started going out, Bry found out. I didn't know it was 'her' Blake at first, but when I found out I had fallen for him and there was really nothing she could do. (I know that sounds mean.) But Bry has a BOYFRIEND (for two months now) and she has sent all her little friends to bother Blake, and to bother me as well.
It's really irritating...she sobs about how her friends get everything she wants, and how jealous she is and 'I thought we were friends?' All her little minions are trying to convince Blake not to go out with me. I've been called 'nasty', 'tomboy', etc. etc. and I feel some of my friends may have less respect for me now...always asking if me and Blake have 'done' anything (kissed, etc. etc.) and I have not kissed him yet, just an FYI.
What should I do? I don't want to be known as a crush-stealer or whatever, and Bry had a boyfriend in the first place! I am just angry that this should happen. I mean I still want to be her friend...but without all the shit inbetween.
(FYI I'm 13, female)
Well I think if she was a real friend she would be happy 4 u! And you are making a major mistake about caring about this problem! Yuo need to stop thinknig about it and let them try but if he really likes you he wont listen to them. Talk to him and tell him not to listen to what they say! Try acting like you guys dont care!!
I hope I helped,
Bianca
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well after seeing my ex yesterday.....today when we were talking he keeps on talkin about other girls and everything and that they are cutter and prettier than me and it really hurts....he keeps on telling me how all the other girls are all over me and it really hurts b/c before i went to see him yesterday, he thought i waz da finnest gurl and sweetest and everything and now everything itz so weird...im so sad...wut do ya think????? am i not good enough for him :(?? he is not that fine but he is okay....
brake up w/ him ..... you don`t need a guy like that
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ok i am going into 7th grade and i am scared to get my period and when i do i am not gonna no what to do...please tell me every thing to no about them PLEASE.
ok its easy! chose between tampons or pads.... then always keep a few in your purse for when you start!When your period starts it means your body is ready to have sex...but i recomend you wait until your married!!!! Every thing will fall into place so don`t worry!
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i was with this guy and he broke up with me and i still have feelings for him and im in summer school so is he in class he is always starring at me and talk to me a whole lot more than he did when we were together how do i find out if he still has fellings for me if im to shy to ask. i am 15and a half
Totally ask if the spark is still burning!
Bianca
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I want to tell this guy I like him but he has a girlfriend!The first time I met him he told me he liked me!I have a feeling I have waited too long and that he doesnt want me anymore!But I think about him all the time and I am in love w/ him!Signed,bummed love
I am 13 and a female!
Well tell him how you still feel!!! He might be bumming w/ that grl bc/ he wants you!!!
Bianca
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Hiya.. first of all.. you're adorable.. and it's awesome how you're helpin people out.. anywhos.. alright.. here's how it goes.. My mom and my real good guy friend dylan's mom work together.. we've always kinda had a thing for eachother.. but never did anything about it.. a few months ago.. he started to like my friend katie.. but she decided she didn't like him or whatever.. and so me and him started talkin again.. and we flirt like crazy.. seriously.. it's out of control.. but we're such good friends.. and I'm not 100% positive I want something to happen.. it's just kinda like he's always been there.. and I do like him.. infact.. I like him a lot.. but we're such good friends.. I just don't know.. what do you think about this?
You should ask him out and go out with him. Or if you are shy.... send him signals so he knows to ask you out! Hope I helped!
Bianca
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