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i would get her something something, but when i would give it to her she probaly would never talk to me gian. and i have told her that i love her. not like, but LOVE her. thanks for your help.

Peace,
Cam

What did she say or do once you told her you loved her?

~Loverocks~

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Hi
i really need help with a girl in my school named isabella. she is the best thing ever. i met her in 3rd grade, and now im in fifth.(i know im only 12 but who cares) she is the love of my life, and she is moving to a different school next year with my best friend, who also likes her. i am realy pissed because i have no idea what to do. i was thinking of buying something for her, or asking her out, ut if i do, she will never talk to me again. i knw how to play the guitar, and aot of other stuf. I REALLY need help. Can You Help?

Peace,
Cam, age 12, male

Cam,
If you want to get her a gift try getting her a webkinz. These are stuffed animals that comes with a secret code.You enter the code online and decorate its room and lots of other things. These are between $5-$30 Just depends on where you get it and which one you choose to get.

Also, I would watch asking her out cause some girls at that age don't really like things like that yet. My suggestion would be to tell her you like her but leave it at that. If she is ok with going out she will either ask you or she will give you big hints to ask her.

Here is a site that can help you locate a store near you that sells webkinz

http://customerservice.webkinz.com/storelocator/html/

Hope this helps.
~Loverocks~

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fifteen/female, well here is my problem -
i show no emotion, what so ever it's like i can't cry when i'm upset mad ect, and i just want to cry sometimes- but i can't -i hold it in, because when i do cry i think to myself [WOW ARE YOU REALLY CRYING OVER THIS? WOW SUCK IT UP AND STOP BEING SUCH A BABY ABOUT IT BLAHBLAHBLAHHHHH!] its like that ALL the time i cry or start to anyway, and i don't like it, i don't like holding it in; it's making me become someone i don't want to be and it's driving me insane!!! i just don't wanna be that person anymore i dont wanna hold everything in side; and like i can't talk to my friends about it because i feel as though thay don't want to hear it and i'm talking to much, so really i don't know what i should do; it' has been this way for a long time a very long time and it makes me SUPER mean because i hold everything in i have no emotion really!

in all honesty what would you do? any advice would do me good work so please

If you dont want to show your emotion if front of anyone my suggestion would be let it out in a restroom or your bedroom. Then, gradually work yourself up to showing your true emotions in public. Also what might help is keeping a journal or diary.

Holding it in as you have found out only makes things worse.

Hope this helps

Feel free to ask me questions.

~Loverocks~

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ok so my english teacher is not really the
most liked person but i behave in her class because she will make your life a living hell if u piss her off!well i talked to her alot afta school because when shes not in one of her pissy moods its fun to chit chat with her!well i hav her as a homeroom and study hall teacher and my bf is in there to. we had a talent show and me&my bf were sitting really close 2-getha and he had his arm around me.well the security guard person that i talk 2sumtimes told him to take his arm 4rm around me.well then that teacher came and told my bf she needed to talk to him.well he comes bac and said that she said to lean up and she kept sayn that we wudnt be sittn so close if my dad was here(hes the principle).well the whole talent show she was jus starn at me the whole time.then afta the show she told me the same thing about how we wudnt be doin that stuff if my dad was there and shit.then she was like well if you dont want me to say anything to u guys then ok and i said no that wasnt the case.then when we got back to school in homeroom i didnt say anything to her which most times im really talkative and she said so i guess were on a non-speakn term and i was like no but she kept askn me the same question like she didnt here me so i just didnt say anything to her.well i got home and my dad was like someone told me that you were all layn on some boy and that i cant go anywhere which i never do anyway so it didnt really fase me!but i was jus really pissed that someone would tell.well the next day i asked her if she told and she said yes and that just really pissed me off.before that i kinda trusted her and i came and talked to her alot aND then shes gonna sit there and tell on me.and it wasnt even that i
important .she kept sayn that she told my dad that it wasnt anything to get overly upset with and hes a reall good kid but my dad doesnt care.jus the fact that he had his arm around me makes him overly upset.she keps telln me that if i wanna continue to giv her the cold sholdier thats me but she will still treat me the same way and she still loves me and all that otha shit.and she was like i only told him because i care about
u and all that crap which i didnt understand. well im still really really pissed and i dont know if i wanna talk to her again!! do you think i should give her a second chance or continue to keep to myself seeing as how she kinda betrayed my trust with her!! please help!!again sorry for being so long!!

I agree. If you do give her a second chance. I would just watch what i say or do around her.

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Okay, so there is this guy that I freaking love. I mean, it is true love no joke. He is my soul mate. If I describe him to you, it's gonna make me love sick, but I will tell you anyway. His name is Broox Brown. (It is actually spelled Brooks, but he likes it spelled with an x) His hair is blond and it goes down to halfway down his neck. He is 11 and I am 12, but we are both mature. His lips are shaped like a heart. I love them so much. Also, I love his eyes and his hands. They both show what he is like perfectly. Anyway, I know that he likes me, but he is too shy to admit it, actually, he is not shy, but it's just really complecated. But he likes this girl named Kaitlyn more than me and also he likes another girl named Ellie, but Ellie likes Trevor and Kaitlyn likes Mark. They are going out. He also likes Delany, but i don't think they are right for each other, I have never thought that. We have never been out before, but I really do love him. I just want him to admit that he likes me. So does anyone have an idea of how I can get him to like me MORE and ask me out???

I agree. The only way you will find out anything is to talk to him.

Good Luck!

~loverocks~

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