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Hey everyone. My name is Anastasia, and I love to give advice and help others. I have experienced alot, and can understand most things people go through, so feel free to ask any quetions.
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welli am julie i am 13 well there is this guy(anthony) I really think he is so hott!!!i just really want to go up to him and kiss him!!! but i want to know if he likes me. he is showing the signs of liking me like when i look at him during class he smiles and looks away!!! and he is constantly staring at me and every time i pass by him in class he always immidiately talks to his friend next to him while staring at me...Or like when i talk to one of his friends he always goes to talk to them right after.But even if he does like me i dont no if he will ask me out!!!he might be to shy.but even if he does ask me out what do i say what do i do kiss him??hug him??? hold his hand???
also when do i make a move?? do i make the first move?? is it holding hands or kissing??cheeks???lips??? i vote lips!!what if he doesnt want to kiss me or hold my hand??? what about in public??? i think that would be great if he is not to shy to kiss or hold my hand at skool~!!!how do i flirt back???i really want to kiss him ??? also can you tell me some more signs of him liking me??? i never felt this way about a guy!!!is it normal. am i horny??? what does horny actually mean?? well thanks alot i give 5's for positive feedback
thanx
julie
p.s. I LOVE ANTHONY!!! (link)
Ok. He may like you, but you can never be sure. I think you should talk to him, and become friends with him. By knowing him, and him knowing you, he might be more comfortable asking you out if he likes you. If he asks you out, then say YES. As you get to know each other more (While dating) you sort of move into the holding hands, kissing, w/e. good luck
~Ank


ok, so, I like this guy, and I want to get to know him better. Trouble is, I'm anti-social and I'm pretty sure he thinks I'm a freak. Or weird. Or scary. Anyway, I know some people who are friends with him. Any suggestions? I don't want any sugar coating on this, btw. (link)
ok well i think you should do a few things.

when you see him in the hall say hi, or just smile.
talk to the people you know that are friends with him and see what he thinks of you, and have them start a conversation and join in with them and try to get to know him better.
hope i helped.
ANK


I just started a new job. Well one day I took my break and then came back down to work. I saw another one of the girls that I work with and asked her a question about whether or not we have to tell the manager if we are on our break. Normally I work night shifts and my supervisor is gone by then, that is why we have to notify the manager.
Well anyways this girl came up to me afterwords and said that our supervisor saw us talking, and had asked the girl what we had been talking about!!
I was relieved I hadnt been gossiping, and the girl told our boss the truth that i had asked a question about our breaks. So I wasnt in trouble. But the fact that she even asked what we were talking about made me upset.
Should I have reason to worry? (link)
well that does sound kind of rude, but let it go. if she says anymore about it, stand up for yourself and say "well look, i dont think it's really any of your bussiness about what i talk about.", because it really isnt. good luck.
ANK


wats sumthin good to get my gf for xmas..i think im gunna get her tickets to the blue man group and some perfume but if someone helps me wit sumthing better, that would b awesome (link)
you should get her a few flowers too, IF she is that kind of girl that is...
ANK


Today I went to see my counselor. Please note its nine weeks into the school year. I just realized I failed Algebra 1 last year, and at the beginning of the year, he put me in Geometry. So, Ive been taking Geometry & getting excellent grades in there (: But, today I went to see him because my mother wanted to find out if I could take summer / night school. He dropped my Geometry class & placed me into an Algebra 1 class. Which I wasn't too pleased about. I went to my new class & I really don't fit in AT ALL. I don't know anybody in there, and all of the people were black. [I'm really not trying to be racist or ANYTHING like that, I just felt out of place, I'm white.] & They just STARED at me, like wtf is she doin here! I was so scared no joke.

Tomorrow, I'm going to see my counselor again to find out if I can do anything to get back into my regular Geometry class, because I was doing so well & actually had friends in there. Do you think it'll be possible for me to get back into Geometry, without taking Algebra 1 first?

Please no stupid responses, for Algebra last year I had a really bad teacher & didn't learn stuff well. Thanks a lot. I'm a sophmore, 15/f (link)
its is possible yah. if they say no, have one of your parents talk to them. then it will be REALLY hard for them to say no....
ANK


here is the background knowledge you need to know. I have a lil bro . I am in 11grade. he is in 9th. I am the smart one. top of the class, honour roll and all sorts of crap. My lil bro is on the point of dropping out. for midsemester he got like 5 Fs (out of 10). My mom depends on me to ve the good example to him.
OK
now, today after class, I was on the bench outside od my class. My friend showed me a copy of the Chemistry test we are supposed to get tomorrow. So all of us on the bench (my freinds only) start to work it out and copy the answers for ourselves. NOW, my lil bro just comes out of nowhere and sees me copying down the answers. He was in a hurry and did not say anything but I think he saw me. what to do ?
and if he asks me when he gets home, what should I say?
i don't want him to think copying is the way to go. (link)
you really need to talk to your brother. sit him down and tell him if not to cheat (if he saw you) and if you want you could also offer to help him with his work, that way if he trys hard enough he could get to average level. and i know it isnt realy any of my bussiness, but your honors! why are you cheating?!?! you earned that spot dont throw it away!(umm sry i sounded a little too much like a parent..)
ANK


15/f Try n make this quick:

Last year this guy Rich and I were friends and he likes me but i had a boyfriend. And he openly said how mad he was and that he liked me (jokingly he wasn't like ARRRG mad) and well i saw him once over the summer n it was awesome. but he switched school so i never saw/talked to him. now he's back and im single. problem is he wears eyeliner im kewl with that but a lot of my friends will bitch about that but w/e. but he also smokes pot n cigs. like i dont care n i will never its just it makes me unhappy he does that. but like now i make sure i see him and like he is always like Give me a hug! like old times. and i really think i like him. but my mom said i couldnt date him. should i just like "date" him at school and ease my mom into it, or stay friends with this guy? how can i see if he likes me too w/o saying yo dude ya like me still? ... sorry that wasn't very quick :( thanks so much to people who answer it though! (link)
well, i think you should date him, but i also think you should tell him that he should stp smokeing and stuff. i think you should just ask him out. if he likes you he will say yes, if he dosent you can still be friens with him.
ANK


I just started a new job. The store is new, it's only been open about a week and a half. I've had about 7 shifts so far.

Well I had today(saturday) off. I knew I didnt have to work again until Sunday. The problem was that my boss left a message at 10 in the morning today saying that she needed me to cover someones shift at 5 today. I didnt actually get the message until after 5 pm because my answering maching wasnt working. So by the time I phoned the store the manager said my supervisor was gone for the day. I know that I wasnt scheduled to work today but could I get fired for not atleast phoning her? I talked to my friends and they told me I am worried for nothing and that I am allowed to have a life, but I just wanted to check here first. (link)
well, the only way you would get fired is if you have to meanest boss in the world. your fine. just make sure you tell them you didn't get the message until after 5. and besides, even if you did get the message, you woulnd HAVE to come in.
ANK


I'm very shy but I want to be more outgoing, i'm popular but I think I would be more popular if I was more outgoing, What should I do? (link)
over time, try to talk more and more. even if its just to your friends at first. the trick is to talk to EVERYONE!! hope i helped
ANK


Ok I am in High school and I have 3 freakin rumors going around the school about me and my best friend. This girl is telling me that me and my best friend are lesbian lovers, which is so not true, because I am straight, and now I have people talking about me, and also I have another rumor which isn't as bad, but that one is that I am going with this boy, and that I am a slut. Its going around the whole school, and it upsets me, and makes me want to cry. I don't know what I should do. I haven't had these problems, til I met this one girl. (link)
i had somthing like that happen with me too. well one thing you can do is dont talk about it and when someone asks just denie it. if you find out who spread the rumor, talk to them and tell them to stop...if thet will do anything. or you could ask your crush(or someone) out and date them and then that would prove those rumors wrong. but trust me, it will ware off....good luck!
ANK


I have a really bad reputation for being mean. I can be, but I'm not constantly.

How can I get people to see me differently over a period of time? (link)
well try not to show your anger around people and ry to talk to more people, but when you do, dont be mean. im guessing someone started saying that about you and it went out of control.
ANK


In my Math class(7th period;last period), I sit in a table of 5 people(including me). There's only 2 girls (including me..) and 3 guys. I usually talk to the guys. But anyways. In the math classroom the teachers have phones that the school can get it touch with the teachers and stuff since the school is so big. But somehow i got the number and me and then 2 guys just call the phone and let it ring and as soon as he answers, we hang up! Lol =). And this is during class,too.With our cell phones. I know its stupid and immature but its soo funny because our teacher just gets soo mad.
I told my sister this and she started laughing. But then shes saying how i should stop because my number can come in the bill because the school gets a bill and they could call up the number(my number) and if they find out its a student then i could get in trouble. Can i really? And will blocking my number be any different? Those are the only 2 questions i have. So thanks! (link)
wow thats funny. ok well in my school we have phones too, and i dont think they could trace it....but you school may be different. i would stop, but if you want, before you dial the number press *69 then your number will be blocked.


Ok I like this boy that I'm like best friends with. Well today online I was gonna tell him that I like him. I was in a chat with him and 2 other friends. I was aksing who i should like. Well then my cpu broke. i didnt see the rest of the chat. Well it ended up him telling one of my friends that he likes her and I was just about to tell him that I liked him right before my cpu broke. Now he likes my friend and I'm really sad. How can I get him to like me?

I need Advice fast!
I rate 5s for most people (link)
ok, well if you beleve him then beleve him, but talk to your friend. then i think you should go IM him and say somthink like: mark, i have a crush on you." and then see what happenes

hope i helped
ANK


ok yall i need some help.ok the thing is that i like this guy but he is in the 6th grade and im in the 8th.he is as tall as me not imature so--- sweet cute and possibly likes me to.i think he does cause he always flirts with me but no one else.i dont no if i should or not. i think he is 12 or 11 and im 13.which isnt that bad .but the thing is if we do become bf and gf i dont want ppl thinkin i was just desprate or any thing like that.cause im not i just dont have alot of self confidence with askin guys.so idk wat i should do.plz help i rate high. (link)
well first of all if people dont like it...they dont like it. o well, tough for them. i mean, i know how it feels to be judged by who your friends are or who you date, but just egnore it, it will die down soon enough. so just ask him out, see what he says, if its a no, try to move on, cause he probably isnt right for you anyway. hope i helped...ANK


Okay so i hang out with these girls in school but never out of school. I want to be really good friends with them but i dont know how to. What do people like in a friend? (link)
well, it varries from person to person, but most people like poeple who are trustworthy, careing, kind, truthfull ect. alot of people like friends that heve some of the same interests as them, so if you want to be good friends with them start by finding somthing that both of you like. hope i helped.
ANK


Ok so there is this girl on my bus named jessica. And were arent friends or anything. And she told the kid across from me that her stepfather beats her. So me and the other kid decided that we would tell the guideance counseler about it. Well the other kid goes to Vo-tech during the day so he wanted me to tell the office. So I did. Well somehow Jessica found out that I was the one who told and now shes mad at me. She is being really nasty to me what should i do? I mean I was only trying to help (link)
well i think jessica didnt want anyone to find out about it no doubt, but when it is all over i think she will realize you did the right thing (if it was actually true) if it wasnt true...then she will be mad, so i would be ready. but in my opinion, and in many others, you did the right thing.good luck!




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