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okay. well i just moved to this new school about 3 months ago & i absolutely HATE it, but i know i will love it next year.. buttt i have a choice of going to my old school which i love! and plus my boyfriend lives there .. , buttt my mom really wants me to stay where i am now. :(

if u know you love your old school then you should definately go there.

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Ok, i saw this quote online once, and now idk where to find it. It's long, but i remember some parts of it. It's like "things have changed between summer ending and school starting" "we no longer talk in out circle of friends" and like "nothing will ever change so much that we're not all best friends"

cood some1 plees gimme that quote, or a place where i cood find it. thanks, i rate high for any help at all

lets face it, we've changed .. we've all changed. Somewhere
between summer ending & school starting, we've all gone our
own directions. Hearts were broken, friendshipss diminished,
new loves started & new people came into our lives. We no
longer spend all of our time together in our circle of friends,
we no longer talk for hours about nothing at all. Some of us
are findng love while others are trying to let go. Even though
we've changed we all know that even though we're all finding
our own place in the world that when we find love, let go of
a love, or when the tears fall or a smile spreads across our face
we'll come to each other because no matter where this crazy
world takes us & no matter what happens nothing will change
so much that we're not all best friends forever

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Whenever I am done with school, I go to track. After track practice, I go home and get home by around 5:00. I eat dinner, then watch some shows and go on the computer (like now, but it's only to get advice!). I end up starting my homework at 9:00 PM, setting my alarm for 5:00 to finish it, sleep through my alarm, and wake up at 6:00 with no time to do my homework. I always finish it on the bus and get off the hook, but I really want to stop and do my homework right away! How can I do my homework with plenty time to spare?

Do your homework before you get online or watch TV. OR start doing it during commercials and dont get online till you finish it. then you will have the rest of the day to go online and do whatever you want, and then in the morning you wouldnt have to stress about it.
belive me i would know, sometimes i dont start my homework till like midnight...and then i end up not finishing it.
hope that helped =)

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im mad scared of spiders and the other day my math teacher threw a dead spider on my head and i was freakin out and cryin and i told the principle and now the teachers caliin me a liar ugh i hate him

Ya, you should get witnesses and tell ur parents about it so they will come and solve the problem for you.
goodluck =)

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I am a preschool teacher at a church. The church supplies us with a yearly budget for craft supplies and snacks. My assistant is in charge of getting snacks for the students. She charges these at a grocery store on the church's account. When I checked the receipts I saw that she had charged two inexpensive personal items for herself and the chruch paid for it. She is my friend or atleast I thought she was. The church never asks for the itemized receipts only the total amount. Should I report her?
Thank you

you should talk to her about it and tell her you think she should pay the ammount of money that it cost back to the church, if she says thats shes not going to pay the church back then you should report her.
hope i helped

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I moved to a new school in the 8th grade and i am now on 9th. I had really good friends but i let them go becuase they werent popular and i kno its sounds really dumb and shallow but thats how i used to think i really want to become friends with the popular girls and they arnt liek snobby or anythign they can keeo secrets and they r just as good as real friends. But i dont know how to become good friends with people anymore.

Ok, that was really really really dumb of you. Choose ur friends by interest, not by "popularity" because thats nothing.

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I dont get it, i have friends at school but on friday nights im always home or at a cheering game, my life is so boring and now that its 2005 I want to make it exciting. Everytime im on aim all of my friends away messages are up saying that they are at one anothers house. Should i maybe invite them somewhere so that I can start hanging out too? What if they already have plans, then what do I do? I need to get out more and spend time with teh people I want to spend time with. Im always hanging with guys or talking to them, im not a slut or anything just siometimes they are more fun to talk to.

Ya, i agree, guys are definately more fun to talk to and all. You should just ask them if they want to see a movie or something, just bring stuff up.

Best of luck

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i just started my new school and im the only 8th grade new student!!! everyone has already went there and i really wanna be happy! Does anyone have any suggestions? Does anyone go to that school and is in 8th grade?

lol, i live in sacramento but i dont go to that school. My suggestions is just be urself..lol, seriously though, dont waste ur time trying to impress anyone, just be friendly. im sure it'll be alright. Goodluck =)

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hey..i'm headed to High School in a week..9th grade..in a few advanced classes..bio,geometry..spansish..etc..anyways..
what are some things that are a must have for high school? like as far as notebooks,folders..?stuff like that..
also..i'm very unorganized when it comes to my school papers and such..so plz keep that in mind when thinking of things i should buy..
thanx a bunch..

On the first day you never know what ur gonna need, so its not even worht it to guess...they usually just give you a list of things you need in each class and say "you have until the end of the week to buy them" =) Goodluck with ur freshman yr!

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heya im going to be a freshmen this year so its my first time in a public school. i was wondering if most people use backpacks or binders or w.e cause i heard that most people dont and i dont want to look outta place.. any comments would be helpfull and i rate well
~thnx~

Most people here in California wear Jansport backpacks or something like that....but not roller backpacks, lol dont buy those...and they put their binders in them. =)...but if you heard most people dont then ask someone were you live because maybe its different here.

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how can i get the guts up to ask my mom for tampons?

Why would you need guts to ask for tampons? I mean its not that big of a deal, just make up an excuse for it ....

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I have this friend and i love her sooo much but shes really attached 2 me...i dont wait to go up to her and tell her but i still wanan b r friend but i just dont want her everywhere i go...what should i do?

Maybe she's like this because u've been an awesome friend to her and she doesnt want to lose you. I dont realy know..but just try to understand her side of it and dont be cruel because if shes realy attaches she'll take it personally.

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okay i have this guy friend and see i dont know if i like him because i havnt seen him in a while and he gave me a hug today and i liked it and then he told me he got a girlfriend and i got mad does that mean i like him?

Most likely. I mean if you didnt like him then you wouldnt realy care if he had a gf. =)

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My mom always complains about me never being home. She says that she thinks that i dont love her and only want to talk to her when i want something. (im sure everyone is gonna say that their mom is like that too), but are there any ways that i can 'hang out' or spend time with my mom with still being able to be as social and hang out with my friends as much as i do? please give me some ideas to have fun with my mom (i know that sounds lame) but i know it would help me to be able to do more stuff.

My mom said that to me yesterday, the thing about only talking to her when i want something, i dont know..just ask her about her day and stuff like that, maybe then she will be convinced that you care about her and all. And ask to tag along when she goes shopping or something like that, you can talk on the way there.

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