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Hey there (: I'm Bryttnii ♥ I'm a Senior. I'm 17 and I seem to have been through a lot in my seventeen years. I love giving advice & recieving advice. I'm here to give you my honest opinion & responses to your questions. I don't give the answers you want to hear, I give the answers you need to hear. I've had an advice column since I was 14. But of course, I made a new one that I stay on constantly! I take Cosmetology in school and I love it. I get my Cosmetology license in 9 months. I'd like to go to college for Criminal Justice and be a Detective ;] Speak to me about anything.




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so my boyfriend and i have been together for 6 months and he lost his cell phone so i have no way of calling him and talking unless he calls me and he goes on AIM once in awhile so its like we go 1- 3 days without talking and it drives me crazy he doesn't think there is anything wrong with that am i being stupid or is there really something wrong with that??

and another thing is he didn't necessarily accuse me but he asked if i have ever cheated on him.. he asked so randomly and i said no i haven't why would you even ask that? and he got all defensive and said hes been thinking about it for a long time and just needed to no if i have.. but it was so weird and then he told me he had to go.. so i asked if he cheated on me and he said of course not and then he just signed off.. without saying by or anything .. and he hasn't talked to me since and that was Tuesday .. does anyone have an advice on what i should do ? or say to him?

It could be something, or then again it could be nothing. If ya'll have been dating for 6 months, then you should be a little more open to eachother than people who date for a month. The facts are, normally when a guy asks if your cheating, he's insecure. It could mean, he's cheating on you and just wants to know if your doing it too, OR it could just mean he thought you were and just figured he'd ask you.

Boys show emotions in weird ways sometimes, but then again so do girls. My opinion, if you only talk every 3 days and you've been dating him for 6 months, something is definitely wrong with that picture. Talk to him about it. Find out what's going on, because you shouldn't be stressing over something that is his fault, ya'know?

Good luck and hope all works out.
x0*- Bryttnii.

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Okay, since I've been with my boyfriend, his ex has been harassing me.
Threatening to kill me, late phone calls, prank calls, throwing harsh sentences as she goes down the hall.

We took it to the principal, more than once, he never done a thing.
I had to spend the last three days of my sisters senior year at the house while she still went to school.

This summer she's even egged my boyfriends house, four times.

My mom went to file charges with the CDW.

My boyfriend ex is phycho, seriously. She'll never stop.

We've even called it truths, not once, not twice, but THREE TIMES!

And she just wont stop.
She's now accusing me of harassing her, saying i called her, then she asks for my number, she's just wanting an excuse.



Its gotten so bad, that mom and dad are threatening to change schools if I don't do something about it.

I would fight her, but the truth is, I'm afraid of the embarassment of getting whooped.


Please help...if you need more info I'll be happy to give.

Honestly, I've been and am going through kind of what you are. The only difference is it is with one of my ex best friends. She would call my house leaving threatening voice mails. Call my house at 2:00 in the morning when my dad has to leave for work at 4:00 a.m. She would post things about me MEAN things at that, on her myspace. She would go to my work tearing everything up out of spite & call my boyfriends house telling him to tell me to watch my back. At school, she would say things to me in the hallways & to all her friends. The sad part is, I let it get to me. I wasn't "scared" of her. But I guess the things she said just kinda hurt me. I didn't go to school for 3 months because of it. I would have turned her in to the police, but I felt as if that would just make it worse. So now, I've learned to just ignore her because I know I'm a good person & don't deserve all of that. I shouldn't be miserable because she wants me to be. So my advice to you, is just really ignore it. Eventually it will all pass over. I wouldn't normally give the advice to just ignore someone, but considering I've been in the same situation, it really does work. When she sees that she isn't getting to you or your boyfriend, she'll learn that she doesn't make a impact in your life at all. If ignoring her doesn't work after a month or two, then take it to the next level. Don't fight her, that will only make it worse. Because considering teenagers now days, whether you fight her or not your still going to be considered a wimp. If you lost the fight, she'd tell everyone she whooped you butt. If you won, she'd still tell everyone she whooped your butt. So you really can't win. The only thing you could really do is get a restraining order if things got way out of hand. If she came near you, she could be arrested. I hope everything works out & I'm always here if you need to talk about it more. GOOD LUCK! (:

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In my old school i liked a teacher.Is that normal?

Normal as can be =] I, as a girl, have had a few teachers that I thought were sexy lol. But when you feel open & close with a person it's normal to develope feelings for them or even a simple crush ;) ♥

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