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i know this is dumb, but im scared to im my friend online to tell him that he did a really good job in theater arts today. i wanna say something but im scared he'll b like um thanks watever leave me alone. cuz we dont talk online, just in class...wanna help? =) (link)
Just say :Hi! remember me!?:and if he says not hen say your name.Then tell him you just wanted to let him know that his performance in theater arts today was soooo good and like start talking to him about school and stuff like that!

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ok, there is this guy i like, and we are friends but i like him more then a friend. should i ask him out? my friends say yeah just to see if he will, but will that change our friendship if he says no? (link)
Just tell the boy that you like him!He prbably likes you too!!!If he doesn't just say:i don't want this to hurt our friendship(only say this if he says no to the going out question)Hope everthing works out!!!!

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hey i know this is kind of a weird question, but, my friend lost 54 lbs by only eating graham crackers and hard boiled eggs for 4 months.i cant do that, so i was wondering, are graham crackers good for you? i hate eggs so i wont eat them... (link)
There are plenty of other ways to lose weight!!!you can lose more pounds by going on a thing called the points diet.If gives you a certain amount of points u can use and stuff like that.Just find some diets online and you'll find a good one(don't forget to excersice!)!!

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whenever i get a zit, i get everything out of it, but then the next day its bigger than it was when i popped it! help!

-JeNNi (link)
o my gosh don't worry.DO NOT POP THE PIMPLES!!!TRUST ME.this has happened to me plenty of time just buy acne stuff and it gets rid of pimples like in 2 or 3 days!

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i cant find any eyeliner that will stay on after 3rd period!! can anyone tell me any brands or how to make what ive got stay on? (link)
The brand i use is cover girl and it lasts alll day for me so it probably will for you too.

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hey ive never been kissed, but at my friends party we're playing 7 minutes in heaven. i really wanna get my first kiss from the guy i like (whos invited, but has a g/f whos not) so i dunno what to do!! if u could help i rate =) (link)
Well i think you shouldn't kiss the guy that already has a girlfriend b/c he has a girlfriend!!!!If you kiss him his girlfriend will find out sometime soon and she'll break up with him.That may sound good right now, but...........i hate to tell u but now he will blame you for losing his girlfriend b/c you kissed him and he won't like you ever again.I don't think you should kiss him, just find another hot guy,lol.

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okay so recently ive been hanging out with some friends that i wouldnt normally hang out with them out of school or sports. They smoke pot and they talk about ti all the time. since ive been hanging out with them i have been wanting to smoke it but i know its not the right choice. What do you think i should do? (link)
I think you SHOULD NOT SMOKE POT!!!!I'm serious don't do it you'll ruin your life.I think you should just hang out with your old friends.

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im 13 and in 8th grade and im 5'3...but i like someone thats 12 in 7th grade and is 4'7. i think he's gonna ask me out, but idk what to say cuz hes so short and younger than me....help! (i like him too but...) (link)
It's ok that he is shorter and younger, I think that you think that your friends will make fun of you,but who cares what other people think, as long as you like him.

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there is this kid that is always following me around. i dont know how to say stop with out hurting his feelings. like if i go to the library, he follows me. if i go to the sotre, he follows me, what should i say? (link)
I think you should tell him that you don't wan to hurt his feelings but your kind of creeped out by him following you and then ask him why he follows you around.
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if ur invited to someones birthday party and you dont realli kno them but u have talked b4 awhile ago but one of ur other frnds is frnds wit them and she told them 2 bring u .. should u get them a bday present or wat? like if its a "party" bday party, and ur not real close frnds, should u? thnx i rate (link)
I think you should go to the party and get the person a present, even if you don't know the person that much,still the person was nice enough to invite you to his/her party so you should be nice and get him/her a present.

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Hi! Well I'm new to my high school and there's this girl (Anna) and she was so sweet. She's been new before so she knows how it feels! But anyways, she came up and talked to me in 1st period and was like r u in journalism w/ me? and so she striked up a convo. Then the next day she asked me to go walk around w/ her before class so I wasn't in class all my myself. Then after that we started writting notes back and forth a lot! She even hooked me up w/ this guy I like a lot! I feel really close to her, we talk about stuff that normally I wouldn't feel comfy sharing and I think its the same w/ her! She has lots and lots of other friends but I'm not sure about 1 thing! I know she's my best friend but am I her's and how do I know if I am!?!?! (link)
well I think you should just ask her, if she is that nice and comforting to you,you probably won't be nervous to ask her b/c you consider her as your best friend.Just strike up the question in a conversation.

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I'm 'sort of' a shy person. Especially when it comes to the guy I like. : p
I don't even know if you can call it shy..I just get nervous around him and just mummble. Whaaaaaaaat can I do? I never have the confidence to tell him anything, and I never know what to talk about. Help? : ] (link)
I think you should let him do most of the talking,but when a topic comes up that he says start talking about it, just pretend that he is your best friend and talk to him don't be nervous,or talk about things that you know he likes like maybe sports or something like that.just be yourself!: )

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Ok there is a guy a like aand he thinks I'm cute and he and his friend asked if my friend and I wanted to go swimming and we said yes. But should I change my mind? I'm scared because what I fall or trip or something.


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CameronLover1 (link)
I think you should go for it!If you like him don't be embarrassed!!just have fun and be yourself!Just imagine it as if you were hanging out with your best friends!!
HAVE FUN!!
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K well I go to Lehman Intermediate... LIS... and i have the chance to transfer to another school in the district JTL... idk i think i want to but i dont want to leave behind the friends i have now... even though its not many and its not like im moving im just goin to a different school... when i was younger i went to Resica Elementry butthen i got transferred to another school and all the ppl from Resica got sent to JTL... so i know ppl in JTL and i miss them all.... and The boy that I LOVE is in JTL... and like my friend Joanna will go with me to JTL... i havnt even talked to my parents about it yet, I wanna be able to start over.... like the ppl in JTL dont really know who I am like i can be whoever I want going into that school...and i dont want to make my now friends mad at me... idk please help!!

:( =/ (link)
I think you should probably move to JTL b/c it sounds like you really want to go there, I mean you can still hang out with your friends from LIS like you said your not really moving somewhere else,just to a different school,if your friends don't understand your feelings maybe they aren't your realy friends.JUST FOLLOW YOUR HEART!!


alright..well ive been with ryan for now 6 months..and still my ex-bf brian is still in love with me (we went out for 9 months) he doesnt act it..or be an ass to me or anything, its just i know he still loves and cares about me. it kinda gets annoying that he still does..how can i ask him to just move on? (link)
I think you should just sit down in a quiet area alone with him and tell Ryan that you have moved on and so should he, I mean if your never gonna like him again I think you should tell him your feelings.
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ok..there;s this guy *dan* and he liked me a long time ago and then i started to like him but all he did was break ^ we me n hurt me really bad..recenlty we started tlkin..n we fell inlove..blah blah..well all my friends are yellin at me cuz they think he;ll just hurt me again..i dont tho..i could b wrong but oh well..then there's this guy *james* he asked me out and stuff and i guess i really like him..but like i still luv * dan* and now *james* is all pissd at me and sayin shit ..all i want is to be *james* friend..cuz i luv *dan* but he won;'t..hes bein all possesive & shit..and all my frinds r tellin me to 4get * dan* n giv *james* a try..cuz hes like perfect & hell treat me better--which maybe true..but i need to go out w *dan* its jus sumin i hav to do..even tho i ikno ill prolli get hurt,,idk help =(..i feel bad *james* really likes me..shuld i giv him a chance? or trust *dan* after he hurt me 3 times? sorry so long (link)
Well I think you should talk to Dan and tell him that if he will go out with you and treat you right,you guys would be a good couple and that you really kind of like him a lot,but if he says no i don't like you,I don't think he is the right kind of man for you,I think you should get a little closer with James instead of Dan
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Ok - I recently got a petsitting job about 3 weeks ago. It's great and I love it!!! But my boss is hitting on me. He's a older guy around his late 40 - 50`s (I am not good with age) And his wife owns it. She is the sweetest lady. Well me and him went on a client interview and somehow he brushed aganist my butt with his hand, I was thinking hmm ok whatever. Then just at different times it seem ackward, he was like after you and wanted me to go first and different things like that. Well when I first meet him I sorta did have this weird feeling in my stomach, but just thought it was nervousness. Well then I had to go over his house to pick up invoices for the clients. And I walked up and he was on the pourch and before we went in the house we were talking and he reached towards my lips and I backed away I am like what what he's like you had a hair .. and reached again well I took my hand and like rubed it across my face I am like oh ok. And that was weird. Well I told my mom about it and she said that that is very weird and everything and it's up to me if I want to quit my job or not. I mean I love it so much, it's just that freaks me out. My mom said whenever I was going someplace and we knew he would be there, she would go with me. But I'm just afraid since he knows my schedule what if I go to a clients house and go inside and he's in there .. or what if he's stalking me watching me walk around the dogs. Whats really weird too is that he always wears sunglasses and smokes cigars. I don`t know what to do tho. Also their was a misunderstanding about one day I was suppose to work and he like curked out on me. Then when I had to go to his house (my mom came with me) he was like calm. It's really weird. What would you do?? :-/ (link)
I think you should talk to your boss and tell him that you know what he is trying to tell you and you hate it and if he wants you to work for him ever again he shall stop the nonsense and leave you alone.I mean he has a wife!
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