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Q: at my old school i had a whore && dumb bitch reputation what do i do to have a positive rep at my new school??
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hey
well first dont do anything to lead people to this conclusion. at your old school, i dont know why people would say things like that, unless you did or were doing something to make them think that. dont have your rep at your old school on your mind too much b/c this is a good chance for you to start over.
dont be around the girls that already have a bad rep. be around people who arnt being talked about in such negative ways. i know you may not know yet cause your new, but get to know people & make friends with people who arnt being put out there like that.
it all comes down to you. the way you act around people, the things you say and how you carry yourself. if you werent doing anything wrong at your old school, find out why people said those things about you. is it the way you dress? the people you hung out with? your behavior towards other people?
be aware of how you carry yourself overall at your new school. if you can find out why people talked about you you will be aware of it and can avoid problems in your new school.
hope i helped.
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Q: Last year for junior prom i went to junior prom with my friends even though i didnt want to and i didnt like it that much considering i didnt want to do i was dateless and i get extremely annoyed with people at my school. This year I really want a date but its hard considering I am tall african american girl who likes tall black guys . theres not a lot of tall guys and im not close with anyone that i would want to go to prom with. Theres one kid i met and hes a freshman in college about an hr away. I really like him and i know he likes me but idk how...i mean we talk once in a while he will chat me but our conversations are general. when we hang out which we only have a few times we get along he makes me laugh and we hook up nothing like sex though. i was wondering if i should ask him? and ive only hung out with him twice...so how many more times should i hang out with him? and i dont want him to think its weird im asking him to my prom, and i dont want to seem desperate...please help!
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Hey girl
Well considering the fact that you say he likes you and you like him, i dont see anything wrong with you asking him to go with you. I mean its not like only you like him & he doesnt, as you said, you two get along, he makes you laugh and have successfully hung out with each other a couple times. You should ask him :) You dont see yourself going with anyone else and from what youve said about him, he shouldnt have a reason to say no.
Hope I helped and good luck!
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Q: 18 year old male
i've been with my girlfriend for about more than 4 months.. our relationship have been on and off for a while and recently we broke up. But today she stopped by my house and it surprised me and she wanted to be close to me.. she didnt tell me she was going to stop by or anything, she walked home from work which isnt too far from our neighborhood and she said that she wants me, but the problem is out of the 2 weeks that we've been away i've been working my way to get out of her grasp, because we keep breaking each other's heart.. i hate going back and forth like this because i want to have a stable life. one side of me is screaming to have her but another side of me is wanting to pull away.. it affects my school work and my mood.
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Best thing to do right now is stay single and do what you think is best for you. The relationship seemed to already been stressful for you so just chill out with it all for a while and do you. Its good that youre looking out for yourself.
Its never easy letting someone go but the advantage you have right now is, well, you havnt been with her for too long and you havnt fallen too hard. Do you hun, you dont need something like this affecting other aspects of your life.
Good luck and hope I helped.
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Q: all my life ive been handi capped from intimidation in the past 2 years ive had starting relationships but i always seem to get intimidated and cant seem to physically show effection ive lost dozens of women this way any suggestions?
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Hello there =)
First of all, dont do anything you are not quite comfortable with. I can understand how hard something like this can be but honestly, just take it slow when in a relationship. This way, you can warm up to her and get more comfortable with her after getting to know her more etc... And then you'll find yourself physically expressing yourself with her. But be patient with it. If she leaves before you feel comfortable doing anything, then its better she was gone then have stayed b/c relationships shouldnt be built on how physical you are when just starting out.
So before doing anything, take it slow to the point where you are comfortable enough to do anything, because as I've mentioned, dont do anything you are not comfortable with, it wont feel right to you.
Hope I helped and good luck!
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Hello my name is Gina. I'm 21-years-old
and would love to help anyone out.
A little about me: I've been married since I was 18 and have been to hell and back to keep this marriage together. But the only thing that has truely kept us together is our love....and a LOT of work. We have a son who is just a few months old whom I LOVE SO MUCH!
I am honest & blunt in my advice giving, and will probably tell you what you dont wanna hear.....Life isn't easy folks.
I look forward to helping anyone who needs it so please, ask away!
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Gender: Female Age: 20 Member Since: November 25, 2009 Answers: 43 Last Update: April 12, 2011 Visitors: 4046
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