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I am a 41 yr old female. He is a 48 yr old male. The marriage between us is making me ill. I jumped too quickly (i admit). I also am very much attracted to 2 long term friends I have had online but as much as I feel for them, it is doubtful for they live thousands of miles from me. I want out of this marriage but no way to do this. Nowhere to go at this time. I can't take a lot of how my current "husband" is acting. It is completely different since we married & moved in together. He made me think (in my vulnerable state (needing a step stool to start over) , that all was taken care of. When he arrived that all changed. Feeling guilt, shame & hopelessness.
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Have you thought of reasons your realation ship is going wrong with him. Each person takes 50% in this realationship together. I dont think is right to be falling for other guys (or almost chating) when you're married. You DO NOT know this guy on this network so you can't be in love with him because you really dont know him at all even though you think you do, You don't. If you really want out of this marrige nobody's in your way but just realize what could happen. Just be as safe as possible and take in to consiteration that maybe this other guy is fake or not who you think it is because like you said he lives far away. What are you even doing on that site anyway? Well good luck
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As much as it can be hard to hear advice that you feel guilty for because you know it is wring...I respect your answer.. thanks you :)
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