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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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theres this guy.. ha, typical right? well he told me he was going to ask me out but he wanted it to be perfect... he then flirted with my bestfriend. They were staying stuff like they wanted to go somewhere romanticc and that shit. Well i confronted him and he was so upset and we made up and all and everything was good... so i had my other bestfriend hit on him after a little bit he starting flirting back.. i KNOW this is horrible but i still like him and he still likes me and i dont know what to do.. i know if i became his girlfriend he'd be faithful (he never TOTALLY cheats)but i still dont trust him.

If you can't trust him now when you guys aren't even in a relationship, how are you going to trust him when you are? It's a big blow to the head when he's going around flirting with your "best friends". Do your "best friends" flirt back with him, and do they know you're crushing on the guy? If they do, they aren't be very good friends in the first place. Friends SHOULD NOT flirt with other friends crushes, that's just wrong and down right hurtful.

If you want to take a chance, and go for it since he hasn't really "cheated" on you since you guys aren't together. Maybe he would be different if you guys were in a relationship. Try it, but keep your wall up, just in case something does happen, you won't be so crushed about it.

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(Rating: 4) my first friend didnt know that i liked him, and i told my second one to do it to see if he would flirt back. But thanks! (:
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