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This is probably going to be long, and I'm probably going to sound clingy and pathetic, please bear with me.
A little less than 2 months ago, I met the man of my dreams. It sounds bizarre that I'm so sure of myself because it's only been 2 months, but I'm completely confident that I'm in this for the long run. He feels the same way. I spend literally every possible minute with this man. Here are a few problems.
He's going back to college for his sophomore year at SUNY Albany, which is a little over 2 hours away from my house. I'm going to our local community college.
Problem 2: He's a Marine. He's most likely getting deployed for 7 months in December. The thought of going more than a day without him upsets me. Thinking about 7 months without him makes me literally nauseous.
I've become so attached so quickly, which is so unlike me. I've been in love before, but I've never been so in love with anyone in my life. How can I cope with the thought of him not being in my life as often as I'd like him to be? I'm terrified of how much it's inevitably going to hurt. (link)
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First of all you have to realize it's only been two months. BUT I know how you feel. two hours is not that far away. If you truly love each other you will both learn to deal with the distance by talking on the phone,. texting and webchatting.
As far as the marine thing goes,. It will be very hard not seeing him. Maybe see if you can write letters to eachother? Not sure if this will work or not. But this is how they did it back in the 50's. When people were in the war. And their love faced the long challenges and they Got through it.
So as my best friend says,. If it's meant to be it will be,. Don't try forcing anything into something it's not.
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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