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Hi, I'm Courtney. I want to become a pre-school teacher :] and I've been though a whole heck of a lot, so feel free to ask me anything, i'll do my best to help ! xxo."i refuse to sink."
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Am I emotionally cheating? I've been dating my boyfriend for 8 months and everything has been great. But there's a new guy I work with that I keep thinking about. What do I do? I don't want to think about or like this guy I work with, but for some reason I'm attracted to him. I still have feelings for my boyfriend though and I for sure want to be with my bf. What do I do? I don't want this to sabotage my relationship- I'd never cheat on my boyfriend physically but am I being dishonest to him by having another guy on my mind?
everyone has different oppinions on this, but i think yeah, it is emotionally cheating.
to have a crush on a celberity or something is one thing, but to start liking/thinking about a guy you know and work with WHILE you have a boyfriend is cheating. its also a bad sign because if youre starting to notice another guy, your missing something with your boyfriend that this new guy has and you really need to think about it.
lets put it this way.. if your boyfriend was woring with a girl and he kept thinking about her and was attracted to her.. and he didnt tell you, would you feel like youre being emotionally cheated on? and what would you want him to do ? tell you, or keep it a secret and just go on liking her when hes with you ?
and yeah, i believe you wont physically cheat on your boyfriend, but these are things you need to think about.. put yourself in his shoes. how would you feel ? yuh know ?
talking to your boyfriend could help, like i always say: comminication is key. and if you explain to him whats going on, you probably wont sabotage your relationship, but if this is really on you concious and its making you feel guilty, then you either have to stop thinking about the new guy [if thats possible] or talk to your boyfriend about all of this.. because theres really no other way to solve all of this.
good luck ! hope i helped, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. xxo.
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