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about

My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.

I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.

Much love, Teza

advice

okay so I am in a stong long distance relationship and have been for avlbout a year now. I love him and I would like to say that I trust him. But yesterday at one AM of all times a girl from his past texted him " cashually " asking what he was doing so he answered saying the usual nm how r u. Now she has responded.... I am ... Annoyed aggravated.... Angry. I mean its not like I can exactly tell him who he can and can't talk to. Help!!!

It's a natural things for girls to feel a little jealously, especially when an ex tries talking to your man again. But listen, if you really trust your boyfriend like you say you do, let it go. He is allowed to talk to anyone that he wants, as do you. He has an innocent conversation with her and I don't think there were any intentions. If this girl keeps texting him and talking to him, let him know how you feel. Explain to him that you don't like it and just be honest. It's important to tell him how you feel or else you'll end up feeling bad about the situation. I'm sure your boyfriend respects and loves you enough to not talk to her if it really bothers you.

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