I know they say getting over one's first relationship is the hardest but it can definitely be done. Why do I feel that the only true way to get over a relationship is to find someone else? Even if it's not love in the beginning, it might be later. Though it is so wrong, why does it seem so right?
My ex broke it off with me because we lacked communication issues from the start. I had trust issues with him, as well. Being my first relationship, and not his, I was very picky about the way things were but I always thought honesty was the best policy. I am also going to move cities away from my home soon enough as well. What should I do? Sometimes I miss him like crazy and other times, I'm alright. We don't really talk as much, at all, or anything. I tried occupying my mind but sometimes, the pain keeps coming back.
I won't say it is very easy getting over someone. But at long as you maintain a positive outlook you won't really get depressed. Keep telling yourself that it wasn't going to work out anyway. And think about the faults because of which you guys broke up.
And to avoid thinking about him occupy yourself with something .. Something that will keep you busy for most part of the day.
And dating someone else is not a solution at all. How can you give your best into another relashionship when you're not over the first?
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you're right. i just have so many questions i wish could be answered.
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