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Hi, I'm Courtney. I want to become a pre-school teacher :] and I've been though a whole heck of a lot, so feel free to ask me anything, i'll do my best to help ! xxo."i refuse to sink."
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my ex girlfriend is goin out with my real close friend and im not mad about it but idk how i feel about it and maybe it does bug me but i cant tell for sure and im now single but i dont know if i should stay that way because ive been through 2 girlfriends back to back and its nice hanging out with my friends and not worrying about some girlfriend but i feel lonely and i keep getting bummed but then again i like to be kinda freaky like i wear mask and stuff like that and i do random crazy stuff to people i dont know but i dont know if i can just rely on my friend to help me but there is a girl who is 2 years younger than me and lives far away and we kinda like each other but ill never get to meet her so idk wat to do ...please help me with whatever you can,thanks.
thats tough :/ but honestly, things like this happen all of the time, and your ex going out with your really close friend IS going to bother you no matter what, and thats the worst part. its probably gonna turn into the whole, "you want what you cant have" sorta thing and its going to take a toll on your emotions. like.. now you feel lonely and all of this, but you shouldnt because you have friends.
surround yourself with people who care about you and who you can have fun with. live the single life for a while and if someone special happens to come along, then okay, go for it.. but for now, you just need to have fun. you said it yourself: its nice hanging out with your friends and not worrying about some girlfriend.
.. so go with that emotion for now, just have fun and be carefree. you deserve it.
and for the girl who is 2 years younger than you that youll never get to meet.. i dont think you should try to make it work because if youre never going to see her, youll be making yourself and her miserable to try and make it work when you know it wont. but you should talk to her about it and tell her your feelings..
but the one thing i want to really stress to you is that you shouldnt settle with ANYONE.
good luck ! hope i helped and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me :] xxo.
(Rating: 5) well i forgot to mention that i do like this one this one girl im starting to like but everybody would make fun of me for it and i no this cuz my friend who goes out with my ex did but we were joking with each other bout it but he still thinks it weird and i hate that i like her cuz shes not like so real pretty girl but i dont care but it will be social suicide to ask her out just i dont know wat to do