So me and my bf are insane about eachother and we've been this way for a bit i guess... anyways, we always hook up behind the stage at our school and we make out only, because i myself have a purity necklace.. well i always wanted to get felt up idk why i just never saw it as bad because dr's touch boobs, i touch my own boobs, my friends joke around and grab my boobs, how would it be any different if my boyfriend did? anyways, as we were making out today he slid his hand up my shirt and under my bra, and he kept squeezing them. it felt amazing, but like, i feel soooo guilty. he's a senior in highschool and i am a sophomore. we get along great and he's like my best guy friend too not just a bf, so i can tell him anything, ya know? So, yeah i never thought i'd feel this guilty. Do you think getting felt up is a sin if it's the only limit i have until i'm married?? anyways.... one time when i was on the phone with him i told him if i was ready and we were dating for a long time, i'd do everything else EXCEPT sex... and now i really take back telling him that......... after being this guilty from just being felt i'd never want to do more-ever.. so yeahhhh, i think i'm gonna telll him. anyways, is being felt up against my purity necklace? i blessed it myself and when i put it on i made sure i promised that it'd only protect me from having SEX til i'm married. nothing else..... just sex..... i made sure with God that we were clear. if youw ere me, what would you do? is being felt up a sin? is everything but making out against my purity necklace? How am i supposed to feel? someone helpp me ): btw, i'm 15 years old, gonna be 16 this may. Easy five points
Don't freak out it isn't a sin and you shouldn't feel so bad, pray to god about it to clear your mind, then you need to talk to your boyfriend. If you feel THIS guilty about it he should probably keep his hands on the outside of your shirt. Plus don't forget that often times getting caught up in the moment can lead to sex. I thought I was a very strong person but passion is something that is strong. Making out and kissing is perfecting fine and normal. Just don't forget that your a child of god and YOU want to stay pure no matter what he wants "if he loves you he will wait" and if your as close as you say you are he will understand your feelings and respect you. This doesn't mean he won't want to... that's natural but you won't be put in a situtation where you will feel guilty again. Make sure you talk about this possibly on the phone or out in the open, not in the middle of making out.
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