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I really don't know if I should stay with the guy im with right now. None of my family really like him. He's going to college while I chose to stay here and work, so he lives 5 hours away. I've been with him for a year and 3 months, so I do love him. I know he loves me, and he has never cheated or done anything to make me want to break up. I guess the new feeling is just fading, He's really invested in the two of us while im sort of doing what makes me happy at the time, if that makes sense. What I'm wondering is should I just wait this unsure feeling out or cut to the chase and end it? He's my first real relationship, so i just don't know what to do. Give me your thoughts and advice on this.

Thanks.

Dont break up with him because you THINK it isn't going to work out. Break up with him if it ISN'T working out. You don't know yet if this is going to work, so why not just wait it out a little while longer? Who knows, maybe you will make it work out. You'll never know if you don't try. Goodluck.

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