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When life gives u lemons, make lemonade. Then, throw it in the face of the person who should've gotten you the oranges you orginally asked for.

What we do is determined by what we are. What we are is determined by what we think. What we think is determined by what we experience. What we experience is determined by what we are exposed to and what we do with that exposure.
(MIKE VANCE and DIANE DEACON)

Life is like a book with many different chapters. Some tell of tragedy, others of triumph. Some chapters are dull and ordinary, others intense and exciting. The key to being a success in life is to never stop on a difficult page, to never quit on a tough chapter. Champions have the courage to keep turning the pages because they know a better chapter lies ahead.
(RICH RUFFALO)

Because you're able to do it and because you have the right to do it, doesn't mean it's right to do it.
(Dr.LAURA SCHLESSINGER)

We are born with our eyes closed and our mouths open, and we spend our whole lives trying to reverse that mistake of nature.
(DALE E.TURNER)

You can have anything you want if you want it desperately enough. You must want it with an inner exuberance that erupts through the skin and joins the energy that created the world.
(SHEILAH GRAHAM)

We all have the ability. The difference is how we use it.
(STEVIE WONDER)

Everything is a once-in-a-lifetime experience.

Every great mistake has a halfway moment, a split second when it can be recalled and perhaps remedied.

One person can make a difference and every person should try.

The one thing worse than being alone is not being alone and wishing you were.

Real difficulties can be overcome, it is only the imaginary ones that are unconquerable.
(THEODORE N.VAIL)

The goal in marriage is not to think alike, but to think together.
(ROBERT C. DODDS)

Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not, but remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.
(EPICURUS)

When you look in the mirror, you are looking at the problem, but remember, you are also looking at the solution.

Live your life, so you don't have to hide your diary.

Dream what you dare to dream. Go where you want to go. Be what you want to be.
(CALVIN COOLIDGE)

The first thing of importance is to have confidence in yourself, in your abilities.
(KATHARINE GIBBS)

Become a 'possibilitarian'. No matter how dark things seem to be or actually are, raise your sights and see the possibilities-always see them, for they are always there.
(NORMAN VINCENT PEALE)

DAVID COPPERFIELD just might be the greatest magician and illusionist of all time. He is definitely a legend in his own time. Here are some of his most inspiring quotes...
'The easiest thing in the world is to come up with an excuse not to do something. I found that the most important thing in life is to stop saying,'I wish,' and to start saying,'I will.'
'Before there can be wonders, there must be wonder.'
'Whenever I pursued my dreams, I discovered something astonishing-I discovered myself. My secret has been to consider nothing impossible. Then to treat possibilities as probabilities.'
'Passion is everything.'
'I learned that there were two ways I could live my life: following my dreams or doing something else. Dreams aren't a matter of chance, but a matter of choice. When I dream, I believe I am rehearsing my future.'

Miracles do not happen in contradiction to nature, but only in contradiction to that which is known to us of nature.
(SAINT AUGUSTINE)

The world is composed of givers and takers... the takers may eat better, but the givers sleep better.

Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.
(ROBERT FROST)

Love is a fruit in season at all times and within reach of every hand.
(MOTHER TERESA)

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I had a nightmare that i was laying in a casket thirsty. this nightmare was so creepy. i'm scared that this is foreshadowing thati will die. but don't plenty of people have weird nightmares liket his that mean absolutely nothing at all? i'm scared haha is that a stupid reason to be?? I'm re doing my room and i liked this ruffly one and my twin says not to get it cause it looks like a dead girl's blanket so when i took my nap i was trying to figure out what would look good in my new room and maybe thats why i dreamt that? also, i began to think that i might be bisexual and i keep talking to this one guy who my sister likes and i'm scared that she'll find out and i commented a bisexual girl's picture on facebook saying your so pretty girl (link)
Well in my religion as a muslim and in the books which explain the meaning of dreams,says that when you dream that your going to die, means you will have a very long life, its stupid i know lol, but that's how they explain it. A dream is always a dream, and even if something does happen to you, its not because you dreamt of it, dreams are not visions. You definitely just dreamt of that because of the 'dead girl's blanket' thingy. You shouldn't worry at all.
About the sexuality part... It's completely normal to feel attracted to your own sex and the opposite sex, its like we come into this world, and you don't choose your sex, so you start to explore, and its as if there comes this certain point when you define your own sex, the point when your sure that you can only be with guys, or only with girls, or you feel its normal to be with both. Maybe your not quiet at that point yet, your not sure yet, you're confused, and there is nothing wrong in being confused, we're all confused all the time, but usually what you should do is, to let things fall into place on their own, don't over think the issue, don't try to force yourself by making yourself believe that there are signals telling you that you are bisexual, if you are, then you will be, then you will end up doing something with the same sex, but if you are not, then you will feel disgusted when you actually confront that abnormal desire. There is a difference when you sit behind your computer screen and comment on a picture, and when you actually see someone infront of you and you are about to do a sexual act with them, then you will know what you really are.


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