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OK. So i have posted so many questions on the same topic. But i haven't gotten any real good advice. All of my answers usually say "just go with what you think is right" or "its better to do it and say you did the to not and regret it later." so i hope you can give me better advice. like what i should specifically do.
So i have like this guy for a long time. Ive known him since elementary school and he lives two houses away from me. I think I'm IN LOVE with him. now don't say "i think your too young to be IN LOVE" or "you need to wait and see if these feelings leave. if they don't then....." because I've heard it all before. I know for a fact that I'm IN LOVE with him. so i know that he likes me because he asked me out at the beginning of 7th grade. I said no because my mom doesn't approve of neighbors dating. because if we ever break up then it'll be awkward because i see him all over the place. but i like him so much that i am willing to hide it from my mom. But another reason why i know that he likes me is because, not too long ago, we were walking home together and he touched my ass. on purpose. so if that's not flirting than i don't know what flirting is. lol. so i have no idea what to do. do i ask him out myself or just wait for him to ask me out? please help me. and im sorry that this was so long. thank you in advance.
Well my method for attracting boys has always been to flirt with them until they asked me out. First of all, I think it says more about their character if they have the balls to ask you out, especially if you rejected them the first time. Second, it's kind of traditional for the guy to ask the girl out haha it seems stupid but in my book, that's just how it goes. Anyways, that might be the one thing that is keeping him from asking you out again, because you said no the first time. No one likes to get rejected, so perhaps he just fears rejection again. So I still don't suggest you ask him out. I think you should keep flirting with him MAJORLY. DON'T let up! When you guys talk, do you ever get into discussions about who the other person likes? You should definitely bring it up if you haven't because that is a major sign that someone likes you, and hopefully he isn't completely oblivious so he will catch on ;) So my answer is just flirt with him a lot...if you are already doing so, turn it up even more! Also, don't worry about hiding it from your mom...she'll find out when she does and she'll still love you. Adults expect teenagers to screw up so it probably won't come as much of a surprise if/when she finds out :b Goodluck!!!
-Jess 16/f
(Rating: 5) thankyou. this is one of thye best advice anyone has ever told me.haha. and ive only got maybe 5 good advice. haha.