sunshine1232's advice column

17/f

So my best friend Laura has been getting really really close with her boyfriend lately. So close, that unfortunately I feel like she's been shutting me out. =(

We'll make plans with each other, like to meet up somewhere. But usually what happens is that I'll text her saying like "I'm here. Where are you?" and she'll text back "Oh sorry, I went out to breakfast/lunch/dinner/whatever with John. I'll meet you in like half an hour"

It's other stuff too, like the three of us will be walking in the hallway, and then it'll be time for John to go away because Laura and I walk to class together, but lately she just branches off with John and says to me "I'll see you there, kay?" Like no..it's not 'kay'.
When all of us (and I mean our entire group of friends) sits together at lunch, those two will be at the end of the table, ignoring everyone else. It gets on my nerves. It's like everything not having to do with John has become way less important to Laura.

=( I don't mean to come off as like a controlling bitch, it's just that me and her have been inseparable since like fifth grade, and now she keeps blowing me off. I'm feeling more and more shut out from her John world.

Your not a controlling bitch you have every right to
feel the way you do i think you should talk to Laura & say that your feeling left out seeing as she's spending more time with John & less time with you even though he's her boyfriend she's got to somehow balance both you & him and spend equal amounts of time with both of you so you aren't feeling the way you are tell her you two have been
friends since fifth grade & you don't want a boy coming in between your friendship you need to tell
her how you feel that way she'll know & she'll possiblity start treating you differently(:

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(Rating: 5) Thank you love =)

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