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Hi, I'm Courtney. I want to become a pre-school teacher :] and I've been though a whole heck of a lot, so feel free to ask me anything, i'll do my best to help ! xxo."i refuse to sink."
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hey! am sorry if this is too long..i just need some help! ok am a girl and there is this girl that hates me so much. ok this is how it all started. we were in school in algebra and before algebra we have lunch. when we come back from lunch this girl is always late to class. the door of the classroom is always locked. she always comes late and expect somebody to opened the door for her. well me and my friend always sit next to the door but we dont open it for people because they should get to class in time. well when somebody opened the door for her she came in and started saying this "stupid B****** dont open the F***** door . they are so R*******"..she just kept on arguing. we just ignored her. this all happened on november of 2009. now she always stares at me in class,and sometimes when am walking down the hallway she looks at me or when am sitting down and she comes inside the classrrom she stares at me..and i herd her talked about me..i really dont know what is her problem seriously..i dont want to go up to her because i know something will ahppen because she has anger issues and so do i..so can you please tell me a good advice because this girl is getting on my nerves :(
wow. people can be so immature. you're totally right though, everyone should get to class on time.. its not your fault she was late, so her problem with you is basically just because she just cannot admit that she was wrong. just because you sit by the door doesnt mean that you are the one who has to open it. this girl is outta control.
my advice would be to ignore her and be the bigger person. all she wants you to do is feed into her anger so she can get a rise out of you. trust me, she WANTS this to bother you, but if you dont let her get to you.. she loses once again and you come out on top. dont stoop to her level or confront her or any of that. let her stare at you. let her talk about you. people will just get tired of hearing about it and she'll get a bad repuatation.. if she doesnt already have one.
just be yourself, and thats all anyone can ask for. if you let it bother you, she wins and this is obviously a game for her.. dont play along. im telling you, just smiling and not letting her glares or crap talking get to you will kill her more than anything. but if things get really bad, and she either gets physical or is harassing you, tell an adult like a school counselor or your guardians.. because bullying is NOT okay, on any terms, and thats when action should be taken.
good luck ! if you need anything else, you know how to reach me :] hope i helped, xxo.
(Rating: 5) thank you soo much!