When life gives u lemons, make lemonade. Then, throw it in the face of the person who should've gotten you the oranges you orginally asked for.
What we do is determined by what we are. What we are is determined by what we think. What we think is determined by what we experience. What we experience is determined by what we are exposed to and what we do with that exposure.
(MIKE VANCE and DIANE DEACON)
Life is like a book with many different chapters. Some tell of tragedy, others of triumph. Some chapters are dull and ordinary, others intense and exciting. The key to being a success in life is to never stop on a difficult page, to never quit on a tough chapter. Champions have the courage to keep turning the pages because they know a better chapter lies ahead.
(RICH RUFFALO)
Because you're able to do it and because you have the right to do it, doesn't mean it's right to do it.
(Dr.LAURA SCHLESSINGER)
We are born with our eyes closed and our mouths open, and we spend our whole lives trying to reverse that mistake of nature.
(DALE E.TURNER)
You can have anything you want if you want it desperately enough. You must want it with an inner exuberance that erupts through the skin and joins the energy that created the world.
(SHEILAH GRAHAM)
We all have the ability. The difference is how we use it.
(STEVIE WONDER)
Everything is a once-in-a-lifetime experience.
Every great mistake has a halfway moment, a split second when it can be recalled and perhaps remedied.
One person can make a difference and every person should try.
The one thing worse than being alone is not being alone and wishing you were.
Real difficulties can be overcome, it is only the imaginary ones that are unconquerable.
(THEODORE N.VAIL)
The goal in marriage is not to think alike, but to think together.
(ROBERT C. DODDS)
Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not, but remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.
(EPICURUS)
When you look in the mirror, you are looking at the problem, but remember, you are also looking at the solution.
Live your life, so you don't have to hide your diary.
Dream what you dare to dream. Go where you want to go. Be what you want to be.
(CALVIN COOLIDGE)
The first thing of importance is to have confidence in yourself, in your abilities.
(KATHARINE GIBBS)
Become a 'possibilitarian'. No matter how dark things seem to be or actually are, raise your sights and see the possibilities-always see them, for they are always there.
(NORMAN VINCENT PEALE)
DAVID COPPERFIELD just might be the greatest magician and illusionist of all time. He is definitely a legend in his own time. Here are some of his most inspiring quotes...
'The easiest thing in the world is to come up with an excuse not to do something. I found that the most important thing in life is to stop saying,'I wish,' and to start saying,'I will.'
'Before there can be wonders, there must be wonder.'
'Whenever I pursued my dreams, I discovered something astonishing-I discovered myself. My secret has been to consider nothing impossible. Then to treat possibilities as probabilities.'
'Passion is everything.'
'I learned that there were two ways I could live my life: following my dreams or doing something else. Dreams aren't a matter of chance, but a matter of choice. When I dream, I believe I am rehearsing my future.'
Miracles do not happen in contradiction to nature, but only in contradiction to that which is known to us of nature.
(SAINT AUGUSTINE)
The world is composed of givers and takers... the takers may eat better, but the givers sleep better.
Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.
(ROBERT FROST)
Love is a fruit in season at all times and within reach of every hand.
(MOTHER TERESA)
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Hi, I'm fifteen and female. Like most girls, I have a guy best friend, he has been my friend since 3rd grade, I am now in 10th grade as is he. He's my everything, I got to him with every single problem and he helps me and everything is fine if I handle it the way he tells me. I think I can honestly say he knows everything about me, I talk to him on the phone, I text him practically every night, but we don't hang out outside of school, I know you're probably thinking "if your best friends, why are you only together in school?" I don't really know the answer to that. He is in three of my periods in school, first one is band, the other lunch and the last, history. His guy friends are in band so we don't talk to each other then. In lunch, I bring him his favorite pack of crackers because he loves them, he always smiles and is happy when I have them for him. Then, there's history, I suck in that class and he always helps me, I could text him at 11.3o on a school night to ask for help on the homework and he will answer me. He's just the best. He makes me happy. He used to like a girl that did not treat him right and I did not like her one bit, after things cooled down between them I told him I didn't like her and he said "I really appreciate you looking out for me. We're only friends now, I'm over her." and I was sooo happy. Everyone in my high school says he likes me. My closest friends they can tell just in the way he looks at me, you can see in the eyes when they're looking at someone they really care about. He normally never starts conversations but in the last few we've had, he started them. He plays songs on his guitar for me when I'm sad because he knows I like that but he's still to afraid to sing in front of me. He also writes songs on his guitar, he sent me one and it's about knowing that these 2 people were meant to be together, it was adorable, I asked him who it was about and he said he writes his songs about his friends because nothing ever happens in his life. He tells me some things he doesn't even tell his guy best friend about his brother. He wears one of my fun bandz rubber band animals, he said he wears it all the time, even in front of his guy friends and that says a lot, even though the night before he was going on and on about how much he hates bracelets. I also got him to go to a dance, after about 20 texts of me saying I really want him there, he came and sat at my table with me and his friends. Lastly, he kinda suffers with low confidence and such so he can get kind of depressed, he has this girl who likes him a lot but he didn't have the heart to tell her that he doesn't feel the same so he had me do it. What does that mean? Did he want me to know for sure that he doesn't like her? So, do you think he likes me? Thanks! (link)
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Okay first of all, him telling you to tell the girl that he didn't feel the same way about her is not an indication that he likes you or a way for telling you that he likes you, it just sounds to me like he's a really kind person, so he didn't want to hurt the girl by telling her personally.
Second of all, you two sound like really good friends, and you sound like your pretty tight and close together, but nothing of what you said gives an indication to whether he might like you or not, cause it might be just actions that best friends do, and i mean, you've known each other for so long, so he's so used to you ,and you share everything together and stuff, so you became like a one person. But i can't tell you if he has feelings for you or not, and all you can do is to wait and see, if he has feelings he'll show more obvious signs or he'll tell you, but for now, you can't ask him or hint around, cause if he's not feeling anything, then that might cause problems in your friendship.
Third of all, even if he likes you, do you like him? I mean do you have feelings for him as a date? or Is it just because you think he might like you, so the excitement makes you start to think that you might like him back? cause sometimes when you get together, you start feeling that things changed, and you start missing when you were friends and you think that you were better off as friends. So its not really easy, its a change, cause if things don't work out, and you try to get back as just being friends, it might be complicated then.
Just stop over thinking about it, and let things happen when their time comes to happen, and if your meant to be together, you will be, let things fall to place on their own, and for now, continue to be happy with such an amazing friend like him, such a friend doesn't exist everyday, he sounds pretty great and he sounds like he really cares for you, so don't lose him.
Hope i helped, if you need any other help, please be free to contact me. Best of luck.
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