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When life gives u lemons, make lemonade. Then, throw it in the face of the person who should've gotten you the oranges you orginally asked for.

What we do is determined by what we are. What we are is determined by what we think. What we think is determined by what we experience. What we experience is determined by what we are exposed to and what we do with that exposure.
(MIKE VANCE and DIANE DEACON)

Life is like a book with many different chapters. Some tell of tragedy, others of triumph. Some chapters are dull and ordinary, others intense and exciting. The key to being a success in life is to never stop on a difficult page, to never quit on a tough chapter. Champions have the courage to keep turning the pages because they know a better chapter lies ahead.
(RICH RUFFALO)

Because you're able to do it and because you have the right to do it, doesn't mean it's right to do it.
(Dr.LAURA SCHLESSINGER)

We are born with our eyes closed and our mouths open, and we spend our whole lives trying to reverse that mistake of nature.
(DALE E.TURNER)

You can have anything you want if you want it desperately enough. You must want it with an inner exuberance that erupts through the skin and joins the energy that created the world.
(SHEILAH GRAHAM)

We all have the ability. The difference is how we use it.
(STEVIE WONDER)

Everything is a once-in-a-lifetime experience.

Every great mistake has a halfway moment, a split second when it can be recalled and perhaps remedied.

One person can make a difference and every person should try.

The one thing worse than being alone is not being alone and wishing you were.

Real difficulties can be overcome, it is only the imaginary ones that are unconquerable.
(THEODORE N.VAIL)

The goal in marriage is not to think alike, but to think together.
(ROBERT C. DODDS)

Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not, but remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.
(EPICURUS)

When you look in the mirror, you are looking at the problem, but remember, you are also looking at the solution.

Live your life, so you don't have to hide your diary.

Dream what you dare to dream. Go where you want to go. Be what you want to be.
(CALVIN COOLIDGE)

The first thing of importance is to have confidence in yourself, in your abilities.
(KATHARINE GIBBS)

Become a 'possibilitarian'. No matter how dark things seem to be or actually are, raise your sights and see the possibilities-always see them, for they are always there.
(NORMAN VINCENT PEALE)

DAVID COPPERFIELD just might be the greatest magician and illusionist of all time. He is definitely a legend in his own time. Here are some of his most inspiring quotes...
'The easiest thing in the world is to come up with an excuse not to do something. I found that the most important thing in life is to stop saying,'I wish,' and to start saying,'I will.'
'Before there can be wonders, there must be wonder.'
'Whenever I pursued my dreams, I discovered something astonishing-I discovered myself. My secret has been to consider nothing impossible. Then to treat possibilities as probabilities.'
'Passion is everything.'
'I learned that there were two ways I could live my life: following my dreams or doing something else. Dreams aren't a matter of chance, but a matter of choice. When I dream, I believe I am rehearsing my future.'

Miracles do not happen in contradiction to nature, but only in contradiction to that which is known to us of nature.
(SAINT AUGUSTINE)

The world is composed of givers and takers... the takers may eat better, but the givers sleep better.

Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.
(ROBERT FROST)

Love is a fruit in season at all times and within reach of every hand.
(MOTHER TERESA)

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Hey there okay never thought Id find myself asking one of theese questions but yea here goes.

Soo this will probably sound extremely stupid in a way but im kinda worried. Basicly I get my period towards the end of the month start of the next The last time I got my period was Jan 26/27th/28th could of been either of theese dates it finished probably like feb 1st now March 15th and I havnt had a period since im usually really on time,as my period previous to the last was the 26th of december.
Anyway I havnt had sex and im a virgin..so obviously I couldnt be pregnant.However a thought occured to me..in between this time me and my boyfriend have fooled around alot..like everything except sex.
So im kind of like stressing now considering im this late that maybe is it possible that if anything from him came in contact with me when we were messing around without realising?
Seems incrediabley stupid I know but I was wondering is that ANYWAY possible?cos im kinda freakin out now.
I know the more I stress that,that can delay them longer but ive relaxed and completely forgot until now.
why am I so late? should I be at all worried?
Thanks for your time :) (link)
How exactly did you fool around? And did he actually cum or what exactly do you mean by anything from him came in contact with you? Nothing that comes from him except actually cum can cause a possibility of pregnancy, and even that, must come really near to your vagina opening or practically inside, cause sometimes even when cumming near the opening has very low possibility of getting pregnant, if you immediately wash up after it.
So from the sound of it, i think you're just worried, and that nothing actually happened that can cause pregnancy unless 'however way you fooled around' that you haven't mentioned exactly.

So try to relax, it might be just period irregularities, and this happens to anyone even people who've been regular in their period since its start.

So right now all i can tell you is to relax and wait a few more days, it might be just late cause your stressed and stuff, or i can ask you to explain the fooling around part if you want, and what exactly you did with your boyfriend, so i can advice you better, but that's up to you. Please be free to contact me at any time.


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Thanks a million..it turns out I was just worrying I got it yesterday :)




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