sunshine1232's advice column

i have a really close group of friends. and usually i have a lot of fun with them, sometimes i can't stand them. but today was just terrible.

i had the most problems today with one of my better friends lexi. she was just being taking me to seriously and always contradicting herself by what she was telling me. but the thing that really upset me what in social studies. i have that class with lexi, my best friend, and another close friend.

well, sometimes i say stuff and i don't know why like it's weird but i can't control what i say sometimes.. well i started making fun of deaf people and stutters because i was watching a show last night about them. i know what i said was wrong and i wish i could take it back so don't judge me too harshly.

anyways then lexi said 'you know i'm going to laugh hysterically when you go to hell.' and it was just so mean the way she said it like i saw evil in her eyes. but that really bothered me. and it didn't help that my other friend joins in and says 'yeah, me too.' (and she doesn't believe in that stuff) THEN my best friend says stuff too. i can't really recall what she said but she was definately against me.

it didn't feel nice to be ganged up on so i just ignored them and didn't talk to them the rest of the day.

if it bothered me that much that they said that, like i almost started crying and i don't cry at all, does that make me such a bad person.

i just am really upset by that so if you have any advice on what to do please help.

also, i'm sorry this is so long but if you read it all thanks.

You need to confront your friends & say you didn't mean what you said everybody says things they don't really mean once in a while you aren't perfect you make mistakes and your human tell your one friend Lexi she could of worded what she said differently
so it wasn't like it sounded so harsh that's a mean thing to say to someone also your other friend too since she agreed with her you need to tell them that
what they said really affected you to the point where you were on the verge of tears & that's rare for you seeing as you never cry say you'd like it if they apologized to you..you deserve a apology if i were in your situation i'd feel the same way & no you aren't a bad person for saying what you did you
didn't mean that & they need to know that(:

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(Rating: 5) thank you so much! honestly, i appreciate it so much.

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