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Hi, I'm Courtney. I want to become a pre-school teacher :] and I've been though a whole heck of a lot, so feel free to ask me anything, i'll do my best to help ! xxo."i refuse to sink."
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Hi, I'm a 17 year old girl and I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 6 months now. We love each other very much and we've been talking about giving oral to each other, I know it should be based on if we're comfortable with each other but I just want to know what other people think, am I too young? thank you for you're time, your response really means a lot to me.
i agree with the advice given below me, but i just thought id add my two cents in :]
.. 6 months may not seem like a long time, but its 1/2 a year and if you love eachother and you trust eachother, those are good indicators that you're both ready to take it to the next level. and even if he is ready, it doesnt mean that you HAVE to be. [or vice versa] this is a mutual decision, which means whether or not YOU want to do it is just as important as if he wants to do it. yuh know ?
and its good that youre talking to eachother about this, but you should talk more about if you both think you should wait longer. see what his thoughts are on that :] communication is key !
but in my opinion, youre 17.. youve waited a good amount of time, and if it doesnt go against any of your morals or wreck your comfort zone, the go for it. but you have to really think for yourself right now.. do YOU think that youre too young ? because it doesnt matter what we say on here, its what you believe. and what i care about is whats in YOUR mind, because youre going to be the one going through with this.
but, i have major respect for you that you even waited this long, most people dont. so good for you :] but no one will think anything less of you if you did give eachother oral at this age. i dont think its too young.. given your circumstances too. youre committed to eachother, and you love eachother.. youre just taking it to the next step. but never feel pressured into doing it.. if that was ever the case, id say no, dont do it. bu since its not.. i dont see anything wrong with it. :]
good luck ! and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me :] and remember, this is YOUR choice, and its a very personal choice. but youll be fine :] be safe. xxo.
(Rating: 5) thank you so much! this has really been on my mind a lot and your advice really helped me think clearer, I will definetly send you an inbox if I'm in need of any help thanks :)