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Hi, I'm Courtney. I want to become a pre-school teacher :] and I've been though a whole heck of a lot, so feel free to ask me anything, i'll do my best to help ! xxo."i refuse to sink."
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If you had to pick one thing that bothers you about your relationship that you feel needs to change so that the relationship can be successful what would that be? Please elaborate...
cool question :] but anyways..
I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 7 months.. and we've been through ALOT, but personally, there is nothing that bothers me about my relationship.. anymore.
I used to feel that he took me for granted, and i didnt trust him with other girls and i didnt feel that he stook up for me when need be.. I mean, I would always tell him how i felt, so I dont believe that there was a lack of communication. I just think there was a lack of understanding where the other person was coming from. or what they had been through that made them the way that they were.
so i think if anything, every relationship needs a common ground where there is a mutual understanding and once you get that understanding, everything falls into place because now that we undertsand eachother, and the differences between our past relationships, everything is great :] like, it couldnt be better. i mean, theres always room for improvement in every relationship, because no one is perfect, but also.. every relationship is different. some need more communication, some need understanding, or even space or more love/caring. it all depends.
well, i hope i helped ! if you need anything else, feel free to ask me :] good luck, xxo.
(Rating: 5) I think this compliments the first answer beautifully! Your answer really demonstrates how communication is integral but not alone in being important to a successful relationship. But to add understanding to communication it really increases the flow of expression between two couples.....Awesome answer!