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A desire to change
If you had to pick one thing that bothers you about your relationship that you feel needs to change so that the relationship can be successful what would that be? Please elaborate...
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cool question :] but anyways..
I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 7 months.. and we've been through ALOT, but personally, there is nothing that bothers me about my relationship.. anymore.
I used to feel that he took me for granted, and i didnt trust him with other girls and i didnt feel that he stook up for me when need be.. I mean, I would always tell him how i felt, so I dont believe that there was a lack of communication. I just think there was a lack of understanding where the other person was coming from. or what they had been through that made them the way that they were.
so i think if anything, every relationship needs a common ground where there is a mutual understanding and once you get that understanding, everything falls into place because now that we undertsand eachother, and the differences between our past relationships, everything is great :] like, it couldnt be better. i mean, theres always room for improvement in every relationship, because no one is perfect, but also.. every relationship is different. some need more communication, some need understanding, or even space or more love/caring. it all depends.
well, i hope i helped ! if you need anything else, feel free to ask me :] good luck, xxo.
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Hi there,
I would say communication. Not that I have a problem with it in my relationships right now. But, Every relationship goes through some kind of communication error at some point in time.
I assume you are talking about a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship.. so..
If a couple knows how to talk to one another in a respectful manner, know when one another is in a good or bad mood, and know how to handle the situation without creating more conflict, you have successful communication.. which in return gives you a successful relationship.
If you cannot talk about your problems, they will never be solved. If you cannot talk about your daily life with someone, you should not share your life with them. If you cannot share your heart through words and emotions to someone, you are not truly living within them.
When a person says they love you, say you love them too. When a person smiles at you, smile back at them. When a person holds you close to them, hold them close to you. When a person touches your shoulder, touch thier shoulder back ;)
Talking isn't the only way you communicate...
Whether it is a little thing or big, you must talk to have a good relationship.
Communication... is success <3
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Stop the Drama,
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