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Hi, I'm Courtney. I want to become a pre-school teacher :] and I've been though a whole heck of a lot, so feel free to ask me anything, i'll do my best to help ! xxo.
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My best friend of 6 years. Really did me wrong last night. She wrong on her statis on facebook. "mynamehere,Is a dirty slut & a liar"
Then all my friends started attacking it and writeing on it and curseing her out. but then she got mad, nd wrote all over my wall,4 paragraphs.On everything sexual ive done,My weight,nd alot of other stuff.I got so mad.Like so mad. Then for some reason my mother got in it.And started curseing on it. And all this 15 years olds didnt like it.So they were telling my mom to square up & what not.When i read all of this today.I was like how stupied can people be?
But any way.I really don't know what to do.i did talk to her cause her mom called the school and tryed to say that i started it when i had to proof she did.So were not friends anymore.BUt i kinda want to get back at her.Or will that let me down to her leval.What should i do?

I know it is SO tempting to get back at these girls, and your one friend in particular, but dont do it. I have had a lot of bad things done to me on facebook, Ive been harassed, people have drawn pictures of me and put it on facebook, [mean pictures] people commented on it, had their statuses about me, made wall to walls about me. made horrible and mean videos to me on my wall, made groups about me.. shoved me in school.. it was really bad and it was all because my boyfriend dumped his ex girlfriend and then we got together. lame.
At one point, I did start to stoop to their level and reply to everything that they were doing to me. i was hated for doing NOTHING. and it drove me insane. they brought my family into it, and I cried for days. I tried to ignore them, but it was hard.. you want to defend yourself and fight back, right? I know, but.. well, dont. be the bigger person. I promise that you will feel better later on.
However, if you want to confront these girls, then NICELY [well, in the nicest way possible] tell them that what they did was wrong, but you're over it and it stops now.. then go ahead. but dont curse them out or start another war, just let them know that you're not putting up with it and that you're going to ignore it.
But i suggest blocking them all from your facebook, so you dont have to see what they write, and so that you're not tempted to do something you might regret later on. delete everything they did, but save it on your computer, in case you might ever need it again in the future. but try to forget about it for now. I'm so sorry this happened to you. girls are cruel. this shouldnt have happened to you.
good luck ! if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me ! and dont let these girls bring you down, just stay awesome :] xxo.

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