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Hi, I'm Courtney. I want to become a pre-school teacher :] and I've been though a whole heck of a lot, so feel free to ask me anything, i'll do my best to help ! xxo."i refuse to sink."
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Hey im that guy whio asked the question on how to get the girl at work's number, then i posted another question the day after saying how i had gotten her number and asking somthing else.
i then sent out thank you letters to the people who answer'd saying how we went to a club the day after and we woke up on my sofa which my mum found us both asleep on the sofa, well this is an update
She's leaving for uni and she wanted to spare me the pain and frustration of a long distance relationship and has decided to split up with me. Ill be honest i saw it coming a few days ago... but i didnt think it would hurt this much while wanting her so badly. i havent stopped crying for the last 4 hours.
we both still love eachother very much and are going to stay in contact but just not be together. I think its a good idea but as much as i hate to admit its a good idea i hate to see her go too.
really im asking what do i do now? wait the 2 years out till she comes back from University? or do i just try to move on, we have such a connection i havent felt it this much with any other person ever and im not exaggerating.
Ps: thank you very very much for your help in previous question's. the last 3 weeks have been the happiest i have had in a long long time.
Awww, you're very welcome, anytime :]
But look, if she decided that it's best you guys split up, and you respect that, then don't wait 2 years for her. Imagine 2 years of your life; lonely, wating for a girl who isn't waiting for you too.
I know you've never felt this way before, but you'll feel it again, and maybe even more intense with someone else. But you'll never know if you don't try. Maybe, after 2 years, you guys can be something.. if you both aren't involved with someone else, but until then, enjoy your lfe, try to move on and have FUN ! :] totally keep in touh with her though, but don't wait for her, thats 2 years of your life you'll never get back. so be friends with her for now, cherish the bond you have, but keep your options open and experience other people. yuh never know.. ;]
whatever happens, happens. and if it's meant to be, it will be.
good luck ! have fun, hope i helped, and if you need anything else, im always herr. xxo.
(Rating: 5) yeah, i just found out its 3 yaers she's gone for. oh god i love her so much its actually depressing me :<
thanks for all your help, im still very fuzzed out at the moment, in a way i hope it passes soon but i also dont want it to go. god this is hard...
thanks so much again