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I really don't understand why I'm still single. I'm 16, and a Junior in High School. I've never had a boyfriend, a first kiss, and I'm waiting to have sex until im older. And I've always been told by everyone that I'm very beautiful. It's just so weird that I've never had a boyfriend. Maybe it's because I'm quite shy in classes and stuff? I know of many guy's who have liked me throughout my years in school..but, they never asked me out. Friends say it's because I intimidate them? Which I don't get at all. I'm a very nice and kind girl. But, I know I could probably learn to be more outgoing. I don't know..I just don't have much to say in class because I'd rather listen to the teacher. I mean, I'm a junior, and I'd like to graduate next year..so I try and keep my grades up. Don't get me wrong though, I'm extemely social when it comes to lunch, gym, and certain classes that are full of my friends. Even outside of school I'm very social. But, I always have this shyness..even around my friends =/. I don't know why..I just do. I just wish I knew why I don't have a boyfriend! Almost everyone has a boyfriend. I know a lot of guy's respect me because I'm not the "slutty" type of girl, and I don't plan on changing who I am just to get a guy to want to be with me. I'm very happy with who I am. I just don't know what I'm doing wrong?
Any advice on this will be greatly appreciatted. Thankyou! (link)
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You aren't doing anything wrong, Your friend said you were intimidating which she could of meant it as a compliment in the way you are beautiful. It is okay to not have a boyfriend, It is not a competition on who gets a boyfriend first and I think it is a very smart choice to wait for sex until you are older. However, When the time is right you will get a boyfriend just like everyone eles because you do not have one now or never had one in the past does not make you unattractive or a bad person at all. Some guys like the shy girls, I would just wait give it time don't rush it trust me it will happen before you know it as they all say it happens when you don't exspect it just be yourself and live each day as you are if you like a guy in the meantime just try talking to him start off with a casual conversation "Hey what's up etc" it will happen. :)
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