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Hi, I'm Courtney. I want to become a pre-school teacher :] and I've been though a whole heck of a lot, so feel free to ask me anything, i'll do my best to help ! xxo."i refuse to sink."
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I love my boyfriend, well ex now. We broke up like a month ago. The break up was my idea. I felt ignored, unwanted, but I knew he loved me. I was always at the bottom of his priorities and I couldn't deal with that anymore. Ne ways we still say we're together when people ask though. We haven't really talked. But I can't get him out of my mind. I see him everyday at school and it hurts to just walk past him and pretend I don't care. When people tell me they seen him flirting with other girls and holding their hands I pretend I don't care. When I hear he even told some other girl that he likes her, I have to pretend I don't care. Well I'm tired of pretending. I finally had a real face to face conversation with him a few days ago. He said he missed me, but he never expressed any desire that he wanted to be with me anymore or that he still felt the same way about me. Even when I told him I still felt the same way about him. He called me yesterday but I was sleep and left a message, he even said "I love you" at the end. It made me happy to hear him say those words again. I really don't know what to do at this point. I love this guy, he means so much to me, I want to be with him. Its not like I haven't tried to talk to other guys because I have. They just don't give me the same feeling that my ex does. I really need advice on what to do. I don't want to bed to be with him but I don't want to truly lose him either DX.
Awww :] I know how you feel, I'm 16, almost 17, and ive known my boyfriend for 12 years. [we're both 16 also] My family loves him and our families are friends, so that's a plus.
If he said "i love you" that's a good sign. in my opinion, I don't think it's too late and you don't have to beg him to get back in a relationship with you. Just talk to him again. Tell him how you feel [what you told us on advicenators] and then say something like, "I don't want to wait for you, I can't stand to see you with other girls, I love you and I need to know RIGHT NOW what's it gonna be. Do you want to be with me or not, because I love you and the last thing I want is to lose our relationship."
you have to give him a choice, and he has to make the decision right then. because if he doesn't want to go back into a relationship with you, then you didnt lose him, he LOST you.
You could also do something cute for him, like make him a mix CD of all the songs that remind you of him or explain how you feel. give it to him, tell him to listen to it, then tell him to call you when he's done listening to it, and then tell him how you feel and then give him a choice. it's you or nothing. that's not begging, that's just letting him decide because it's in his hands now.
I really hope this works out for you ! good luck ! hope i helped, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me, xxo. :]
(Rating: 5) Thanks a lot...