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I am 15 years old, and I have known my boyfriend for 4 years, he also happens to be my best friend's 13 year old brother. Just recently he and I became eachother's first boyfriend and girlfriend after we told eachother that we've always liked one another. It's been a few months now, we see eachother alot and just act silly and play like we always have....but it doesn't feel any different to me. I really wish to hold his hand or at least have him show the ways that he cares for me in person, instead of only showing them on-line :P. Then a few days ago he emailed me and told me that he cares for me so much but he doesn't feel mature enough to be in a relationship. He has also heard (from my best friend) that lately there have been some guys my age making moves on me...which of course i have no interest in tham at all! I was very understanding of his feelings, though it does make me sad. But he says that it makes him feel like a wimp that he hasn't made a move yet..He just feels nervous that he's going to mess up being romantic and he says that i deserve more than that. I really need some advice! I really truly like him, but should I just let this go and try dating someone my own age in the future?( which i can't imagine right now) What could I possibly do to help him with being more brave to show how he feels about me? Should I just be patient and let him start being romantic when it feels right for him? (link)
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Hey.
You sound like a very nice girlfriend. And I'm glad you are, because you should give your boyfriend all the support he needs. First relationships are so nerve racking! But it's okay because you are both new at this and will both learn together :). But maybe if he is too nervous to make a move, you could make the first move!! :D Whenever the two of you are alone together you could try to hold his hand. From there, maybe that would lead to a kiss or something. I'm sure he would appreciate the help because guys usually have all this pressure about making the first move.
Good luck!! Take care
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Thank you so much, I feel alot better after recieving your advice :) I do think it might be good to make the first move..but I just hope it won't seem like I'm trying to push him into something he isn't ready for. What do you think?
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