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So here's the thing. I just graduated high school.I'am only seventeen years old and I'am honestly fed up with my friends. Not to be mean,but i really have outgrown them.I just feel like I'am more mature then them and therefore I need mature friends.All of them "claim" that they are grown now because they are 18 and i just feel like thats bull.To me everybody's in a competion with one another.And I hate to say this but I feel like I dont have strong friends at all.One friend just cant let a boy she dated go.He cheated and he has TWO,yes..TWO kids.I mean,come on!! What will it take.I also have one friend who is so lazy and isnt committed to anything.They are very smart girls but for some odd reason I cant help but to think they have no back-bone.I'am a strong girl and i need strong people around me for support when i cant be.I feel like I'am forever Baby-sitting and i'am the youngest out the group.I forgot to mention that they are all bad influences.They are forever sprung off guys and that cant be good.They only bother with some dudes just to have sex with them and thats not my thing.But they never forget to make me feel like a baby because i dont have sex.My life means everything to me and i dont want to waste it being around negative people.I have hopes and dreams and very important goals and I just feel that they will slow down my purpose.Am I wrong for wanting to hang with a new crowd or Am I a sell out? Fake? Please help me in this situation Becuase I dont feel guilty but Am I being harsh? Thanks for listening,~ladypink
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I know how you feel! I have a similar situtation only one of my friends is and guy and the other is a girl. And in my case they're both perverted, and in love with each other.
You probley feel like a third wheel part of the time. Like they think they are better then you, and treat you like crap! You want to go to college and further your self in a career! You unlike your friends arn't into the whole hoping from one guys bed to the next, right?
Well it is perfectly fine to want new friends! More mature and grown up!
If your old friends ask whats up with you and your new crowd you just tell them that you are grown up and when they descide to be to call you . But till then your going to hang out with people who are going some where with their life, and appreciate you for you who you are, and not your love life!
Stand up for yourself, everyone deserves to,
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OMG..THANK GOD SOMEBODY FEEL ME ON THIS ONE!IM NOT ALONE!:-}
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