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My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months. Before we started dating, we were really good friends, but about 4 months after we started dating I got really bored with him. He is also REALLY obsessed with me and I still want to be his friend which is why I haven't broken up with him. However, in a month we are going to New Jersey together because his parents invited me. They paid for the extra hotel room and everything for me already. I want to break up with him but I don't know if I should do it before I go on vacation with him, or after. Thanks for any help you can give me ♥
Perfect scenerio:
You dating this wonderfull guy who is going to jersey and just so happens to be bringing his you with him and you get a free vacation!
Sounds a bit fishy, not meaning to sound like I am saying your using him, because your not... Yet. If you take that vaction as his girl friend and then you dump him then your were using him.
So dump him confess that he his your best friend, but that is it. Tell him that you had to do it now, you couldn't go to jersey with him, and his parents knowing that your true feelings weren't out! Tell him your sorry and that his friend ship means more then a vaction and that your sorry and understand that he may not want to be friends right now, but that hopefully he can get past this and forgive you for not have being honest sooner!
I know this sound awfull because you really probley wanted that trip but it is the best and if he is your true best friend he will still let your go! That is what friends do. You guys can still be close just not romantically!!!
-C.D
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Thanks so much ... I took your advice. He agreed that we could still be friends, even though he cried hysterically afterwards. Again, thank you so much.
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